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18/f...i am kind of interested in this guy who is 25 and is also interested in me. he is my uncle's fiance's brother...so he's not blood related, but would it be weird for me to date him? (link)
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dont listen to anyone that tells you that age matters cuz it doesnt! im 18 and i had a fling with a guy that was 27. the age different isnt wierd or unusual. now, if your uncle found out he might be a little uncomfortable with it. but i say, your a grown woman, you can date who you wanna date. just make sure that if it doesnt work, you guys break up on good terms. you'd hate that really awkward feeling if you had to be in the same room with him again. lol
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i'm 15 f
i've been struggling with my sexuality for a few months now, almost half a year. first, my best friend who moved to texas said she had a crush on me over AIM and i grew to like her back. since she hasnt been able to visit us, i think her interest faded. she considers herself bicurious but i really dont think she likes me. it took me a while to finally not like her so much, but she's gotten with a group of friends who really dont label her and they all act sexual anyway. i really wish i could be with that group of friends because my friends would label me in an instant. i dont want to be labeled bi because i really don't know what i am. i'm kinda attracted to girls but i'm also attracted to guys, i know im not straight but i dont want to be bi. i've only dated 1 guy in the past and that didnt work out very well. i havent dated any girls, and i havent opened up except to that friend, and one other friend that i just talked to tonight. how do i get comfortable with myself enough to open up to more people? and where do i begin? all i want them to know is that i'm probably bicurious. at first i thought i was going through a phase, but im not sure what phases last for half a year. =\
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it could still be a phase. im straight, i do have bi curious tendencies but im engaged, i like the penis but yet girls are still attractive to me. honestly, lesbians turn me on. that sounds wierd since i claim to be straight and all but its not a big deal. i've done stuff with girls and my fiance knows that. its something you gotta figure out yourself, something you have to try. just dont be ashamed of what you are. to keep your friends off your back date guys, but have fun with girls on the side. get new friends. if your "friends" are gonna stop liking you cuz of who you might think you are, then they arent real friends.
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I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years...since I was fifteen. I am ashamed to say that during those three years I cheated on him twice, but I immediately regretted it and I was unhappy at the time because he wasn't treating me right. That was about a year ago and currently we are on a break and have been for a few weeks. During these few weeks I have had sex with two other guys, not thinking that we were going to be getting back together. Now that we are talking about getting back together, he feels like I am hiding something and wants me to come clean. Should I tell him everything or just part of the truth? Last time I told him I kissed someone else when we were on a break he freaked out. (link)
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I've been dating my bf(now fiance) for 3 years, since i was 15 :). when we first started going out i cheated on him 4 times, but nothing more then just a kiss. i felt bad but i did it thinking we werent gonna last, besides i did only start dating him cuz i thought he was sexi. lol. he knows it too. he's cheated on me once, just to get back at me. now me and him have been on breaks before(some worse then others). on the few breaks we have been on, i've had sex with 2 guys and screwed around with another, and he has dated another girl and had sex with 2 girls. we both realize that we werent together and it was our own fault we werent together. it wasnt cheating. although we did get hurt by those acts you gotta learn to look past them. its really hard to do at first, but if you REALLY want something to come outta that relationship you will. you need to tell him that. now whether you tell him is your decision. a relationship is based on communication. i do have a couple things im hiding from him and i have made up a couple things to make it seem like they werent my fault.(such as, i was drunk, i was taken advantage of, i was on pills, ect.)
the one thing you really gotta be careful with is if you dont wanna tell him, you gotta act as normal as possible. when your trying to hide something from someone, you tend to get snappy and angry over alot of little things and get irritated and even blame him for cheating even tho it was you that did it.
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Okay this is complicated. I'm 14. My first boyfriend and I broke up Feb 27th. We were together 8 months. It was his decision...although we both knew things weren't the same and hadn't been in a long time. He basically just said it first cause we both have been thinking it for a long time. I miss him a lot and I would love to have back what we had before. He moved on evidently. I don't see him or talk to him, but I want to. One night a couple of weeks ago I was on messenger and this guy friend starts talking to me and asking me if I still go out with ******. When I said no he just kept talking at night the next few days. He asked me out to the movies but I told him it was too soon. A week later he asked if he could come home with us after school and just hang out. We had a good time, just watching a movie and talking. The next night he asked me if I would go out with him and I said yes, but now I wonder if I have done the right thing. Is it wrong to go out with this guy? How do I know if I am using him to get over this other guy? I try to stay in the moment and not remember back, but it is hard. This guy is sweet, super nice and not the type of guy I would usually fall for. He is very athletic, smart, and treats me like a queen. He calls when he says he will, etc... I guess the other guy used me and I just hung on for a long time because he was my first kiss, my first love. How can I move on? Or, should I just tell this guy that I'm not ready to date him? Please help. I don't feel like I am being fair to this new guy if I can't go a minute without thinking of the other one. (link)
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first you gotta realize that its going to be hard but if your new guy knows your not over your old guy and still wants to stay with you. . . hes a keeper. i know i sound like a broken record but life goes on, you will have your heartbroken many times in your lifetime. it never gets easier but you need to learn how to handle it. i was with my ex for 9 months during the 8th month he was sent to juvi and i stayed there right by his side and when he got out he dumped me. Now that me and him talk (like a year later) he says he regrets treating me so bad and that he misses me. trust me if things went bad, its not worth holding onto. do yourself a favor and no matter how much you dont want to, let go. it'll be the hardest thing you will ever have to do, but in the end you will feel so much better. realize that you deserve more then your old guy, and you have everything good with your new one. dont give up on your new guy just yet, give it time. and if it makes you feel better sit down with your new guy and tell him that you like him but if hes going to stay with you its going to be hard at first, let him know that you still have feelings for your old guy but also let him know that you really are trying to move on and make it VERY clear that you are NOT using him as a rebound! ok!?!? hope i helped.
P.S. i know how you feel girl, and its hard but worth it. just remember anyone who willingly breaks your heart, doesnt deserve you!
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I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?
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hell no! you have every right to be mad! but do NOT blow it out of proportion! it wasnt sexual. and do NOT i repeat do NOT bitch at him more then once, dont keep nagging, trust me, You will scare him away! talk to him about and tell him it made a lil mad and that u really didnt appreciate it! dont get too mad! and dont let yourself get stressed out too much!
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Yesterday i killed the person i loved. And i dont know what to do... SHould i go to the police, should i run, should i kill myself? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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wow! well i think you shod do the right thing and turn yourself in! i mean they are right, if you turn yourself in then you will get out of some of the trouble! but..... if you live in texas! i would say change your name, get a passport, and RUN, go ANYWHERE! go to china, australia, someplace far away! i mean if you live in Texas u might as well kill yourself if your not gonna run, cuz if you dont..... they will! you no how they are with execution! they arent afraid to do it and we all no how much they love to see someone bad die! (not saying your a bad person) but im sure they will think you are!
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ok well i'm a 16 yr old gurl and i just recently started going out with a friend of mine like 3weeks ago on thursday and i ador him......my first question is, is it weird that i might love him already? like i feel so confortable with him....and the other question is......i want to have sex with him...but is it to soon? like he knows i'm a virgin and he doesnt care to wait but i want to.
plz help i'll rate high
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Im 14 and I've had sex with my boyfriend! alot of people said it was too soon but it was like 3 months into the relationship and we have been going out for 7 months! i know i know I KNOW! your think SLUT!!!! but honestly im not at all! hes the first guy i have done anything with and i love him dearly! i personally think if you wait longer it will bring you a bit closer but honestly try not to do it too much it ruins things! about being in love with him i think if you think its true love then it is! its not like you have known him for 2 days and already telling him you love him! well good luck! oh and tip it HURTS sooooooooooo bad! i almost efing cried my first time so beware of the pain! you should know what your getting yourself into before you do anything! lol! good luck with that! :-D
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Ok well I have a boyfriend but the thing is thatI like this one other dude too...Im not realli sure if this other dude likes me tho my friends say he does the case is dat this dude wants me to go sumplace with him and his friends and sum of my friends...I want to go b/c i just want to see if i actually have a a chance with him but im afraid i might end up cheatin on my boyfriend but i also dont want to break up with my boyfrind till im actually sure dat the other dude likes me...and wut i want
So pls help me im so confused right now
WHAT SHOULD I DO???? (link)
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OMG! you are pathedic! no offence but DAMN! cod you get any lower? you obviously dont care about your boyfriend enough! your pretty much leading him on!
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