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im 5"1 brown hair brown eyes. im 14 years old and i work a lil deli. decent pay. i love making things ont he computer. one day i wannabe a hair dresser or a graphic designer. my computer teacher desperatly wants me to be a graphic designer. she pulls me aside from class a lot. but most of all i wanna be an actoress !! im taking video journalism so thats a start i guess. when i turn 16 i want to get a toyota echo.. SO CUTE !.

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well my boyfriend matthew and i have been going out for three weeks. hes 15 im 14.
ive never had my first kiss :(
but EVERYONE thinks that i have.
he has had his first kiss.
so he thinks its weird that i dont want to kiss him yet.
i dont know how to kiss.
like.. friday he was like, we need to stop being shy or whatever and we kissed, but it wasnt a long makeout session or something because i had to go like right that second. so yeah, my first "makeout" i have no idea what to do.

* taken shy girl

just follow the same patterns with your toungue that hes doing. and try not to go in circles or be agressive. just rememebr that and youll be fine :-)

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This kid in my grade just asked me out two hours ago and I don't know what to do. He's really ugly, annoying (at least to everyone else except me), steals things, and teachers really don't trust him. He has really bad grades and is proud of it! And not trying to sound mean, but he also completely bores me to death. I dread talking to him, he's so boring. I really, sincerely don't want to be his girlfriend, but on the other hand, I feel sorry for him because he's so unpopular and friendless. And I have a huge crush on this other amazing guy. I told him that I'd answer him on Monday so I'd have time to think it over. I'm so confused on what I should say. I don't want to go out with him, but I don't want to hurt his feelings. And I don't want to "just be friends" either. Should I reject him, and if I should, what do I say?

just tell him about the amazing guy you like and say you wouldnt feel right going out with him while you like someone or else you would ( we gotta lie sometimes ) hope i helped

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This kid I know from school has become really good friends with me. He's average looking...but we have enough in common. He just admitted he likes me, and I admitted I kind of felt the same way. We dont wanna go out because we know it would ruin our friendship. Im just confused...i agree about not going out...but where to from here?

same thing happened to me last year. except i admitted to him i liked him. im warning you not to get into it because you could lose a really good friend. its happened to me 2ce. it really sucks and you could end up hurt. chances are youll become friends again eventually tho. it took 2 years to talk to one of them again and it took like from february to like now till the one boy started talking to me again. depends on how bad you want it. hope i helped

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okay so theres this guy that goes to a different school. hes best friends with a lot of my close girl friends but ive only met him about 4 times. i talk to him online all the time and just recently he started liking me. he asked me to go ice skating with him and i accepted. now i'm scared of rushing things too fast and i always have. i'm scared to hold a guys hand and i dont know what to do if he tries to kiss me. please help! I am a 13 year old female!

when he goes to hold your hand or something just think something different in your head. if ypur nervous you can tell urself that its fine you gotta grow up sometime. or just think of something happy. always helps me. hope i helped !

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I need help breaking up with my boyfriend. I still like him and everything its just that its summer and i dont think im gonna see him that much. What should i say to him? I still wanna be friends cause he is really nice.
Thanks Alot

If it helps we have been going out for about 2 1/2 months. And the reason is becuz i wont see him much.

just a little preview of my past experiences. once you dump him you will have that " dont know what ya go until its gone " feeling. sounds gay but its true. its happened to me twice.. just hang tight and try to hang out with him as much as possible over the summer. hope i helped !

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ive ever had a boyfriend. and im 16. whats wrong with me?? im not completly ugly, but im not like super pretty.. i think i may be prude. how do i get over that and have some fun??
THANKS SO MUCH!!!!

dont lower your self esteem just because of what guys think. guys are thick headed. but if you think your a prude you should get out there a little and try some more. this school year befriend lots of guys and hang with them all the time. they will want you so bad. well if you befriend a lot of em then at least one of them would have to like you. or hang out with friends who have connections with guys and get drunk and do crazy things. then you wont be afraid of doing anything with a guy and you will have more confidence and be able to have many boyfriends. hope i helped !

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