me and my boyfriend have been going out since march
and hes in college and im still in highschool. yeah i know its stupid and no one stays together when they go to college. but theres just something different about us. whenever were together its perfect. but lately we barely talk. and its just like boring. and im ALWAYS the one who has to text him. and like he just doesnt seem like interested in me. but then he will tell me he loves me and stuff. and ill like try to talk about us and like stuff and he will just get mad. i was like you really dont seem like you wanna be with me anymore and hes like i do and if you ask that one more time then we are through. hes been a complete dick to me lately and im scared if i do say the wrong thing he is gonna leave me. i just talked to him right now since yesterday and hes like whats wrng and im like i miss you. and hes like if you did you have texted me sometime throughout the day. and im like sorry. i took a nap when i got home from school and just woke up cause i didnt feel good. and hes like ok. and then hes like im studying ill talk to you later. and it makes me soo mad cause hes always "studying" so im just like you dont wanna be with anymore i know you dont. i cry everyday. we never tlak anymore and nothings the same so just tell me. and he didnt text me back. i really fell for him and i hate that i did. and i know when people go to college they always cheat on there girlfreinds and boyfriends. but i know hes not like that. he doesnt party and i really dont think he would cheat on me.
i dont know waht to do. i try talking about it but it doesnt get anywhere.
i need something to say to him because lately its been getting to me. and i dont let things get to me and i really fell for him.hellllp!
ok
well look
talkin to him is gonna be hard and i know that.
and you gotta stop assuming things. saying things like no one stays together when they go to college. and i know when people go to college they always cheat on there girlfreinds and boyfriends. not everyones like that. and i know it isnt all that great that he doesnt like talkin to you about yalls relationship. but honestly im like that to. i guess he likes the fact that he doesnt have to be with you 24/7 but yet your always there for him. but then again if its hurting you than all you CAN do is talk to him about it. i know its hard. but you have to. tell him tha you love him and that its hurting you that you dont get to see him that much anymore.
and if he dont wanna listen, and its REALLY hurting you. than you have to move on to someone that WANTS to be with you. i know its gonna hurt like crap. and i know you wont forget about hm easily. but love doesnt hurt. and when it hurts it aint love. i wish you luck and i just hope you give him a chance to tell his side of the story
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So here's the situation I have been friends with this guy for a few months now and ever since we first met it was clear we both like each other and like we kissed before and tried dating but it just didn't really work out. Now we're just friends and its working really well except there's still like tension between us because its clear we still like each other. I was thinking we could be like friends with benefits and stay just friends but then like if we get the urge to kiss each other or fool around thats fine and theres no commitments and no expectations which was the problem before. I don't really know if this will work out though and I'm afraid of telling him my idea and how he might react to it....
okay well i understand where your comming from.
and what i would do is just be friends with him at first. if yall kiss ok. and if yall fool around.. ok. but just be friends at first. and let one thing lead to another. dont move to fast. that scares guys off. dont have high expectations either. just take it slow and see what happens.
and yes you should tell him. yoiur never going to know anything inless you make that move
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seriously i know this is kinda wierd, but what turns guys on? like what do they look for in a girl? i actually have another question, what are some casual ways to flirt with a guy without being too noticeable? thanx
kk well 1st of all confidence is key i mean when you walk in a room keep your head up and dont look down the best way to flirt without being noticeable is eye contact.
hope i helped
taylor
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13/f
im so confused i mean i like this guy he likes me but my friend is mad cuz i like him but i mean i really like him is she jealous? but she says he is like her older brother o yea he is in 9th what if he cheats im so tired of getting hurt
please help me!
KK WiLL i THiNK YOU SHOULDNT CARE WHAT YOUR FRiEND WiLL SAY CAUSE iF HE iS LiKE HER BROTHER THAN iT SHOULDNT MATTER AND YEA SHE PROBABLY JELOUS. AND ABOUT HiM CHEATiNG ON YOU AND YOU ARE TiRED OF GETTiNG HURT WELL.... i DONT KNO THiS GUY AND i HAVE NO CLUE iF HE WOULD CHEAT ON YOU BUT THATS SOMETHiNG WE ALL GO THROUGH i MEAN WE ALL SOMETiMES GET HURT AND WE CANT STOP THAT. BUT i THiNK YOU SHOULD TRY iT i MEAN WHAT iS THE POiNT iN LiViNG LiFE iF YOUR 2 AFRAiD TO TAKE RiSK.
HOPE I HELPED
TAYLOR
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I was going to ask her and tell her about my feelings to her I get scared and clummsy. when that time came last two months ago it didnt happen. 'cause Nacy said "Tony called me and left a message saying he needs to talk to me about something. Sigh...great i think he still likes me. And that Aaron guy i told you about who flirts with me at work ask if he can go to my class trip next week and Joey called and still ask me if i want to go out with him. Whats up with the guys asking me out?" i said "I dont know it happens" my mind ran i was just about to tell her how i feel and she tells me this. now what i dont want to the other person who is crushing on her. plus I'm her best Gal friend and i dont know what to do now. she feels bugged about them and she might feel bugged if i tell her. what should i do now?
i ask what she said to the guys, she told Joey "no", Aaron "sorry but no, only students can go", and she was going to wait till Tony calls her back.
KK WELL YOU LiKE HER AND YOU CANT STOP THAT.. DONT WORRY BOUT THESE OTHER GUYS. OViOUSLY THEY AiNT A BiG DEAL TO HER. SO iF YOU REALLY HAVE STRONG FEELiNGS FOR HER THAN YOU GONNA HAVE TO TELL HER CAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW iF iTS GONNA WORK OUT OR NOT iNLESS YOU TRY iT AND CALM DOWN THE WORST SHE CAN DO iS SAY NO BUT iF YOUR ONE OF HER GOOD FRiENDS THAN SHE iSNT GONNA BE MEAN BOUT iT
HOPE i HELPED
TAYLOR
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So there is this guy and me and him dated and when we did it was like all we did was have sex. but it wasnt like that when i was with him i never wanted to leave his arms. i have liked him for years and when he was finally mine i did not want to let him go. but he broke up with me and he kept telling me he still liked me. he broke up with me because he needed to focus on school which was true but he also went out with 3 girls after me. also almost getting one of them pregnant. and he lives about 15 minutes away and i dont see him like i would like. but when i do i get the feeling that he does still like me but other times that he doesnt. i have never cared for someone the way i do about him.
and i saw him this weekend and he has a girlfriend but we were still flirting and cuddling and wrestling it was like we were still together but we werent because we didnt even kiss.
how do i get him back. i really miss him. and im going to see him in like a week.
sorry its long.
KK LiSTEN i KNOW A GUY AND HE iS JUSS LiKE THE GUY YOU LiKE.. HE HAS A GiRLFRiEND BUT YET HE FLiRTS WITH YOU AND TELL YOU HE LiKES YOU AND STUFF.. BELiEVE ME i HAVE BEEN THROUGH THAT. AND i KNOW YOU LiKE HiM AND i BET AT NiGHT HE iS THE LAST PERSON YOU THiNK ABOUT AND THE FiRST PERSON YOU THiNK ABOUT WHEN YOU WAKE UP. AND i KNOW iT FEELS LiKE HE STiLL CARES ABOUT YOU LiKE HE USE TO BUT THiNK ABOUT iT. HE HAS A GiRLFRiEND AND HE FLiRTS WITH OTHER PEOPLE. GUYS LiKE THAT SHOULDNT EVEN MATTER TO YOU. I BET HE iS A SWEET PERSON BUT iF HE DOES THAT TO HIS GIRLFRIEND THEN HE COULD JUST DO THAT TO YOU. i THiNK YOU SHOULD JUST LET HIM GO. THiNK ABOUT iT FROM HiS GiRLFRiENDS SiDE OF STORY
HOPE i HELPED
TAYLOR
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I don't want to like anyone, but I cannot seem to help being attracted to certain guys and flirting too much with them.
I don't like leading people on, any advice on how to keep my hormones under control?
KK WiLL YOU REALLY JUST CANT STOP LIKEING PEOPLE I MEAN YOU CANT REALLY CONTROL WHO YOU LIKE. BUT IF YOU WANT TO WAIT THEN JUST CATCH YOURSELF WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR LEADING SOMEONE ON. IT COULD BE TEMPTING TO FLIRT AND DONT FEEL BAD IF YOU DO CAUSE EVERYONE DOES. JUST KNOW WHEN TO START AND WHEN TO STOP BEFORE YOU MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE YOUR REALLY INTERESTED. HOPE I HELPED
TAYLOR
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my bf is coming home from job corp after several months of not seeing eachother at all. im so fucking excited. but my mom don't like him too much, and he can't be in my town. he lives in a town half an hour away, but i don't know if i could see him, cuz i have to work too. how can i see him and still do everything i need to, and how do i have a good time with him... ALONE. LOL
AT W0RK CAll iN SiCK.
iF THEY GiVE U A SiCK DAYY DRiVE 0UT T0 THE 0THER T0WN T0 SEE Y00UR B0YFRiEND;
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theres this guy and ive been with him twice but it didnt work out. he is one of them guys that everyone is after and he has a girl friend but he flirts with everyone and he leads people on and he cheats i know how bad he is but for some reason i cant stop thinking about h i dont know why i cant stop thinking about him. i mean he is an asswhole. i really need your help. can you help me?
WEll THERE ARE l0TS 0F TH0SE KiNDA GUYS.JUST D0NT EVER G0 BACK 0UT WiTH HiM S0 Y00U W0NT GET HURT && WH0EVER HE G0ES 0UT WiTH Y0U SH0UlD TEll THEM HE CHEATS && FliRTS && lEADS 0THERS 0N S0 THEY W0NT GET HURT.S0 TRY T0 FiND AN0THER GUY THAT iSNT liKE THAT && WHEN UR WiTH HiM,THE NEW GUY,Y00U W0NT THiNK 0F THiS GUY THAT CHEATS,lEADS 0THERS 0N,&& FliRTS.
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my boyfriend is a super sweetie. but, there's one problem.his grades r kinda sucky. he most the time dosn't have his book report, homework, and things like that. he's really sweet. i mean, he's super cute, nice, funny, polite, and he likes me a lot. i also like him A LOT. i mean like, "crush on him since fourth grade" a lot.i DO NOT want to dump him. i want this relationship to last a loooong time.
ok i really dont think you should dump him i mean he hasnt done nothing bad to you. but i do think you should talk to him don be pushy or nothing just be like " why dont you do your homework and stuff? you really need to cause i dont want you to fail." make him feel important to you and just let him know that you really want him to pass and that you care bout him.
i hope i helped
TAYLOR
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okay me and my ex broke up 9 days ago.
and i have been kinda asking him questions abou the break up the last 8 days. and yesterday i had someone else ask him questions and he found out and we got in a fight. and like hes been going in a circle with girls and its like.. he will forget his most recent ex and try to talk to his old one and become there friends and when we broke up he told me he wanted to be friends.
and now its like i dont matter anymore he went threw a break up before me like. 2 yrs ago. and hes trying to feel what that girl left but its making him go out with other chicks ( one of his ex's told me this) and. i was trying to talk to him about it yesterday and he got mad and started saying stuff about how he doesnt want to go out never again and how he never want to talk to me again and never wants to see me again.
and he said this to me b4 and he ended up talking to me and going out with me
i dont know
i need real advice
should i wait until he wants to talk to me
or send him a sorry letter for being annoying
or just leave it alone...
because you really cant say your never going to go out with someone becaue highschool changes people and you never know how you will feel about someone in 2yrs or even months
btw we are both 14
SORRY SOO LONG!
get over him do the same to him oveiously he doesnt like you so forget about him
luv ya lots
sincerly, taylor
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Ok well one of my friends is like the hugest flirt ever, and her parents are stricter then ever and she still hooks up with guys. I am starting to get really annoyed because she likes a new guy everyday. See what i dont understand is my parents dont care if i have a boy friend but i dont!! I am soo shy to anybody i like, But i am not shy at all to guys i only like as friends. I just want to be more flirty and have the perfect guy. Any suggestions?
ok flirting is soo easy all you have to do is be confident. dont beat yourself up over your flaws, but think about what your good at. dont waste your time flirting with guys who are self-
centered or dont give you respect.know what kind of guy you want {it helps}. go for it, dont stress over anything, including making the first move with a guy. after all the worst he can say is no-and if he does you can laugh about it and move on. my number 1 rule is catch he's eye!the best way of flirting with a guy is to have eye contact.
hope this helps.
luv ya lots!
sincerly, taylor
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ok i am 13!i like my ex but he cheated on me when we went out but i have tried sooooooo hard to git over him but i just cant seem to git over him what do i do?????
you can't doo anything all you can do is calm down cause right now your crush is just a crush. if he cheated on you he oviously doesnt care what you think. my advice to you is go out and do somthin that would get your mind off of him, cause no offense but he's sleeping at night. don't worry you will find someone stop stressing ocer him.
luv ya lots
sincerly, taylor
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I am the type of person who cannot express their feelings. My boyfriend hates it, and I try my best to open up but it seems impossible. Even my mom says I'm like a closed book. It is too hard for me to show when I've been hurt, or when I'm angry...I just close up and act icy towards whoever has bugged me. Also I can't talk to them about how I'm feeling (its just too hard), and I find myself sending emails saying the things that should be said in person. I want to be able to express my feelings!!! I'm being torn up inside from everything that's being held in!
ok all you CAN do is talk o someone i know it will be hard but you got to be calm, cool, and collected. look, just calm down and relax cause there is nothin wrong with being scared to talk about your feelings. but if you keep it in for a long time than you WILL explode.
i hope you get to figure this out.
luv ya lots!!!
sincerly, taylor!!!
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hi! i just turn 17 on may 4... and my question is that me and my boyfriend been having sex the last time we had sex was after my birthday... and he said he came inside of me like three time.. i have my period...why im noy pregnant?
look have you had a pregnacy test? if you did and it said negetive mabey you should wait a while and try the test again. if it says negetive again than if i where you i would go to the doctor..........
i hope you get this figured out
you in my prayers
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at the beginning of this year i met a guy. this guy is 4 years older then me but he liked me, a lot. we never talked and he made me nervous. 4 months went by and i had big feelings for this kid. around christmas time we spent a week together. i fell in love with him, i honestly did. once we got back from christmas break, he moved, never said bye to me or anything. he just got up and moved. i was heart broken and it was really hard to get over him. he will have been gone for 4 months on may 19. i just got over him, not thinking about him every day. then the yearbook came out and seeing his senior pictures in the yearbook killed me. it brought back all my old feelings and memories. i thought i hated him for doing this to me, but now i cry again over him. how do i get over him.... after i thought i already had... will it always hurt this much...
hey! if he just up and left you then
a: he didnt really like you that much after all
b: he had to leave for some really really important reason
either way, dont be afraid to get another boyfriend. But, remember its easier to remember him and be a little sad about it, than to pretend he never existed.
I hope you can go on with your life not having to cry about him. I hope my advice gave you an answer, I tried my best
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I really don't know if I will get to see Trae when his Mom comes back or not. Trae says he won't break up with me no matter what but I won't be happy if I can only see him at the waterpark. Thats stupid. What the hell kind of relationship is that? I love and care about Trae, but it seems like it's almost impossible for us to be together. Should I call his Mom and ask her about it or what? I haven't saw him since last weekend and before then almost a month because his grandma found out we had sex, and his mom is in california. His grandma thinks that im a bad influence on Trae and that he's perfect. How can he and I have a happy relationship if I only see him at the waterpark at his work? (He doesn't drive and hes two years younger than me, I don't drive either, Mom takes me whereever I want to go) What should I do?
will all you can do is visit him there.cause none of you can drive. inless you can get your mom to meet up with him some time. but having he's grandma dissin you all the time and saying that he's perfect but your not is soooooooo not worth it. take it from me that if you want to be with someone make sure that he's family likes you. so dont fret over him i'm sure you can get with someone else!!!!
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14/male.
I have crush on this beautiful, smart, funny and great girl. I've (sort of) asked her on dates before - we went to the movies. It was kind of a bad time, because she brought about 5 friends, and it was if I wasn't even there. I just kind of hung around the entire time and didn't even talk to her.
There's a school dance tomorrow. I asked her if she was going to go and she said yes. So we're both going. I want to ask her to basically be my girlfriend...but I have no idea what to say, and I'm really afraid of rejection. What do I do?
Aviously she likes u but she is scared to hang around u she is insecure thats y she brought her friends theres nothin wong with being scared of rejection but hey the onley way of figureing out stuff that needs to be answered is by asking. so be a dare devil and go after her!!!!!!!!
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Okay, so last Friday, this guy I liked, who is also one of my good friends, totally scarred my heart by asking my other really good friend out when he knew I liked him. Most of my friends told me to not jump into any relationships just to get over him and I know they are right. I've seen the effects of a reboudn relationship.
Anywayz, today this guy who I used to like and even went out with for like a few months (not a super long relationship, but not too short for middle school) was totally flirting with me and making it wicked noticeable. I had like so many people come up to me and tell me. Well, the truth is, I thik my feelings for him might be coming back.
Am I just rushing into things? Should I act on my feelings? Talk to him about it?
ok lets just say he likes you {wich he does}..
go with him dont be scared to say it he likes you go after him the worst he can say is no!!
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