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hey everyone! my name is sarah catherine. im currently 16 years of age. there are two things i believe i was born to do: 1)sing, and 2)give advice to people in need of it! im a caring person and im not afraid to speak my mind. ive been told many times that i have knowledge beyond my years. i go by a moto that i personally have made up for this site: I ONLY GIVE ADVICE TO USERS THAT I CAN ACTUALLY RELATE TO OR A SITUATION I CAN RELATE TO, otherwise my advice wouldnt come from my soul. dont hesitate to send me messages or ask me for advice and send me friend requests! i am the love doctor.
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So i have a boyfriend and i really like him a lot. We've been dating for almost 6 months now. How can i tell i am in love and it is not just another crush? Are there any signs? Because idk. How can i tell he really likes/loves me? Please give advise on the signs of falling in love. (link)
when you are truely in love, you will have no doubt about it. you wont even question it, you will just know. there wont be any hesitation. hope this helps.

sarah catherine.


DO you think its ok for your boyfriend to have a girl "friend", where he went to her house ONCE,without your permission,and you never meet her before? (link)
in my opinion, i think the guy should tell you and advance to avoid mix ups. and he should also assure you that nothing would happen. talk to him about it for future instances. hope i helped :)

sarah catherine


any time i like a guy at all, the closer we start getting to each other i automatically become unattracted to him for no reason at all. even if he is my type and there's nothing wrong with him and he's really sweet to me and he likes me a lot, i become unattracted to him the closer we get.

why does this happen and how to i stop being like this?!?!?! (link)
believe it or not, i can actually relate to you. you probably dont want to hear my personal experience but ive been waiting for the perfect guy and just when i found him, i find that i dont want to fall in love with him, have that "picket fence" future, or even date him. lol. but the other night he told me something important. he told me that maybe i was afraid of getting close to him because im afraid of getting hurt. and that actually made a lot of sense. hope that helped :)

sarah catherine


Okay, I've never really engaged in sex until my senior year started in August. Since then, I've just been sleeping around. I would say that I've slept with at least 15-16 guys since August. Why all of the sudden am I so promiscuous? (link)
maybe because its that u like the feeling of sleeping around... im not saying your a slut but that maybe you like feeling bad like that. do you know what i mean? but if you think its wrong then you can adjust. lol

sarah catherine


okay so theres this guy that i like. and he likes me back. but then he goes and tells me how 3 girls from this other school like him (i know all of these girls btw) and tells me that 2 of them were fighting over who would get to hook up with him and stuff. like i just thought that was really obnoxious of him to do. and yeah when one of his friends asked me out last week i told him, kinda to make him jealous, but idk like i just dont know if i should like him anymore or not. like should i keep going normally like texting him and stuff or should i lay off and play hard to get? (link)
i think you should maybe stay away from him...his attitude isnt right to me. if he really likes you then he wouldnt tell you all these things to piss you off. even though guys are pretty much uneducated about how to treat girls but they do know how to make girls get mad.

sarah catherine


13/f

I'm in 8th grade and I have 3 classes with this guy. I have had a crush on him for the longest time. What I know right now is that he likes me as a friend. He talks to me and teases me a lot. I don't know what to do though. I mean I think he knows I like him but then again he may not. But either way he still talks to me. I am really confused right now on what to do. Also I have a feeling another girl likes him too. She seems like she is really interested in him and always talks to him, also stares. So I have a feeling she does. But I am so confused. I know there is nothing really I can do to make him like me but I just want it to be easier talking to him and have him actually want to talk to me. Well more than he does now. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks! (link)
im 14 and also in the 8th grade. i know exactly how you feel. make him jelous by dating other guys.
and do the msn thing the other girl said that totally works cause if he likes you he will be waiting and waiting for you to reply to him...same thing works for texting.

sarah.




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