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Hey guys wuts up? I have had lots and LOTS of friend problems from friends cutting themselves, to friends moving across they world soo please feel free to ask nething. My specialty is boys and friends so email or im me or just ask here!! Ill try to help u the best i can and hope u enjoy my column!! O yea Ana and Maddy and Andrea ans Kyla r my bestestestestest friends in the world!!!! Danielle ur cool too!!! lol jk but seriously.THE GREATEST THING YOU'LL EVER LEARN IS JUST TO LOVE AND BE LOVED IN RETURN!!!!THE MOULIN ROUGE
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ok, there's this guy. i've liked this guy for a really long time, since like the 2nd or 3rd week since school started. we liked eachother for a while, but he liked this other girl to. finally, we decided to try the whole "going out" thing. that only lasted for 2 days. he broke it off and i was really sad. we didn't talk for a long time after that. but i had never REALLY stopped liking him, i would say that i didn't but i really did. just recently, we started talking alot more. we've been flirting alot and he acts like he likes me, but i don't know if he does. before we started talking, he would always be really mean and hurtful to me. but i still liked him. now, since he's nicer to me, i've sort of started recognizing my feelings. my friends think i'm crazy because he was so mean to me. i've tried to get over him but nothing works. and i don't know what to do because he acts lik he likes me but he flirts with other girls ALL THE TIME, mostly in front of me. I can't stop liking him and i don't know why. how do i tell if he likes me and should i take him back if he does like me??
Thois may sound mean but, HE DOES NOT LIKE YOU GET OVER HIM!!!!! I did the EXACT same thing. except that my bff (at the time) stole him away from me. you'll get way more hurt later on. get over the guy. or like him from a distance. hope i helped!
always ♥ Tess
ok, see i'm new at my school. I came here about a month ago. I'm a freshman in high school and about 3 weeks after i moved here, i met a junior at a party. He kissed me that night but i was really wasted. I didn't think much about it until he called me the next weekend wanting to hang out again. we just went over to his friends house and he ended up kissing me again. I have been having my doubts about him like if he's using me or whatever but when he kissed me, he asked me first and he didn't try anything else. Plus, i'm not a virgin and he is and he wants to wait... but then again he's a really popular guy and all and he could even get a senior if he wanted. that's why im so confused... i mean why would he want me?! well, we ended up not talking much after that and i heard from someone that he didn't like me. So i just figured i got used and didn't talk to the guy anymore. But he stopped me today in the hallway and told me he tried calling me this weekend but i was babysitting and that he really wanted to do something with me.... i just dont know what to do? i dont know if he likes me or what? i mean i really like him and all so i just dont know what to do? Please help me!! sorry so long but i rate! :)
I think he is interested in you but if he has a history of using girl then he probly will do the same to you so i would do some research. Ask around and see if he is interested in other girls. But stayed layed back dont aproach him as desperate. Hope i helped!! plz rate
Always ♥ Tess
This boy in my class told every 1 who i liked and now I dont even like him n e more because he's going out w/ to otha grls. so every 1 thinks I like this juvie that i really dont like.
Wut shood I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
hi danielle just tell who was it (jacob) that he's a gaywad! (cuz he is) just kidding luv ya danielle
Always ♥ Tess
I am 15 and have been going out with the same guy for 4 years. I lost my virginity 2 him when I was 14. He is starting to act way to controlling and we have gotten into several fist fights and he forces me to have sex with him sometimes. I met a guy on the internet that lives 1700 miles away. We have been talking for a while and I think I am in love with him. Is it possible to love someone that far away? He also says he loves me back, and wants to meet. Thanks
It is pssoible but i dont think its a good idea. Maybe this guy is a 35 year old child melester? lol jk. I would dump ur so called "bf" and find another guy close you can still chat w/ the guy online but let him kno that you have to find someone close. Hope i helped! rate me and visit my column
Always ♥Tess
ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. considering valentines day is today, i got my boyfriend the video game that he wanted. he came over to my house after school and all he did was sit and talk about his game. and he left me on valentine's day to play his game.. would he be considered a shitty b/f?
i wouldnt carachtorize him as "shitty" but if he has done this lats then yea. He probly is just excited bout the game give him a week or two. If he doesnt change, dump him.
Always ♥ Tess
okay. i'd been with my boy for a month and i really liked him. the only problem was that we fought. all the time! about the stupidest little things. he will be upset and i'd ask what's wrong and he'd just be all 'nothing' when i knew something was wrong. then he'd say that i said or did something to upset him bet he never told me what. i got so pissed of last night that i dumped him. i live in australia so it's valentines day today and every little thing reminds me of him. i know that if i asked for him back that he would take me but i dont want to be with him. i dont think. i'm just confused. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
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If he made you feel so bad then dont regret it but if you really do like him and want to get back send him a belated vday present. It might b just the thing to win him back and apologize. Be extra sweet. If u and him do get back together make sure that you 2 trust eachother comepltely and let him kno u care for him. Hope this helps!
Always ♥ Tess
well, ya see, me and this guy have been going out for like.. 7 months or so. i REALLY like him, and my friend thinks i'm in love with him. my parents HATE him, so i didnt tell them. they talk bad about him ALLLLL the time, and drives me nuts. my friends talk bad about him all the time too, and they know about us. i never get to see him, but my best friends think he loves me too... but.. he never tells me this or anything.. i really wanna break it off, cuz he says the meanest things and such, and my friends are like.. EHH.. but when we're together, i can't help but gaze into his eyes and want to kiss him... any ideas?
Break it up i tried to keep it from my parents once and it was BAD so if he says bad stuff he probly has a reason. You shouldnt do every thing ur friends say but if i were u i would believe them on this 1. if he's mean to other people chances are he will b mean to u. He's like a dog, if he has chased a car in the past, chances are he will in the future. If he has been mean in the past chances are he will b mean in the future! hope i helped view my column
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Ok, So last night (Saturday night) I met this girl (17 bout 4 months younger than me) and we talked, kissed, etc, Then she left and I got her phone number. Well, It's Valentines Day Tonight at midnight, and I was wondering if it would be too soon to ring her at midnight to wish her a happy Valentine? Or should I wait until morning? Any advice within the next 2 hours would be much appreciated! Btw I am 17/m
~Evilenterprisesinc
I would ring her in the morning cuz no woman wants to b disrupted during her beauty sleep. but it will b sweet to do it anyway so hope my advice helps!
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ok. so 3 years ago i had a b/f Randy. he moved away and i havent seen him since. but now his brother goes to my school (travis).Travis got hot. i still havent seen Randy and i dont know wether he is still my b/f or not.but Travis knows every thing i did with him and i wonder if he is going to tell the other boys. i wanna go out with travis but i dont know weather im going out with Randy.and im also to shy to ask him for his phone #,so i can ask his brother if im his g/f. what should i do??????? lil'helper
if u havent seen him for 2 yrs he's prolly not ur bf, if you have ur e-mail or im send him a hcat invite or e-mail asking him. If you dont have this ask Travis. neway long distance relationships are never good. TRUST ME i had 1 and he ended up cheating on me and we never saw eachother its just a mess b friends w/ randy and become friends w/ Travis and then gather the nerve to ask him out.
ok so me and this guy who lives around the block lives directly behind my house...(i can hop over my fence and be in his backyard)me and him and our parents used to be BEST FRIENDS...id be over there everyday and wed go everywhere together same w/our parents...well that was when i was like 7 or 8...now im 15 and so is he...my little brother got ina fight with kyle (the boi) and my mom took my bros side and his mom took kyles side and they didnt talk for like 3 years...well my mom and his moms till talk and i talk to his mom too alot...she takes me to skool sometimes...but i dont talk to kyle at all sometimes i say hi and stuff...his mom is always saying how cute i am and im beautfil...well i like kyle...i want to start talking to him again but its so awkward...we liked eachother when we were 7 and we kissed once and that was our first kiss...but it would work out so perfectly if we did go out...id see him all the time and we go to diff. skools so it wouldnt be too much....i really want to just start talking to him again!!!
btw his mom had a baby like 6 months ago and i go over to see it sometimes and i use that as an excuse to go talk to him lol but i ahvent done that for a while bc i dont knoe what to say when i talk to him!!
also hes really shy hes never had a gf cuz hes so shy but soo much gurls like him!! ahh help
Try dto become friends w/ him again sounds like he is a loss not to have as a friend if he still is mad at u after trying to become friends again then dump him if he doesnt want to b friends w/ a wonderful u he's no use
How do I dumb my bf without being mean about it?
Tell him that u would love to b friends but it's too complicated being bf/gf and give some reasons. Thats wut i did w/ my old bf it worked for me hope i can help!
therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge?
Get rid of him he is a big Player, but u shouldnt have been messing with him neway he was playing with u 2 so just dump him not a good friend AT ALL