i just graduated from high school. im one of the most mature ppl i know in my agee group and sometiems even out of my age group. i had a hard childhood and had some pretty unfortunate things happen to me in life but they only made me stronger. i love helping ppl and giving advice whenever i can and i may not tell u waht u want to hear but i will tell you waht u need to hear. so if u have any questions just send me an email or something.
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i have this boyfriend, right, so our relationship is going really good, excecpt the fact that whenever hes around his friends, he doesnt pay any attention to me and acts like a total jerk. but then when were together alone he treats me like a princess . whats ronge with this picture.. helpp ! (link)
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thats just how guys are, they always act different when they are with their friends, but he shoudnt be treating you badly, if he is talk to him about it. maybe he doesnt realize that hes doing it.
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ok hey. so, i'm in highschool (i'm a sophomore.). i'm a female (pretty obvious?) and i need advice. duh. i haven't dated/liked ANYONE since llllaaaasssssttttt year. i really want to find someone that i can like and will like me. all my friends have boyfriends, and they are neglecting our friendship to hang out with their stupid boys. this isn't just about them, though. i really want someone who i can be with romantically. do you have any advice to help me when i don't have a boy, or to help me get one? (link)
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get a job, it will help u spend your time doing soething productive and it wont make you feel bad about your friends and it will help you meet ppl. hope i could help.
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Are they the same thing? How are they differnt? (link)
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its the same thing.
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 16 years old and I was wondering if you just started going out with a boy like a week ago is it to soon for a first kiss literally this will be my first kiss ever by a boy. (link)
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not to soon at all, if he keeps trying to kiss you and you keep turning him down he might start to think somethings wrong with him. but dont feel pressured if your not ready then dont do it
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MY boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year, but for the last couple months we've been going out in secret while he rebuilds the friendships he lost. Innocent right? Not really.
Now, all he does is joke around about liking these other girls and then will be like "jk, i love you". He hurts me all the time. His myspace doesnt have one mention of me, his 'girlfriend' and 'best friend' but at least 5 things for this other girl. He wrote this poem to my other friend and now he's entering into a contest. He's always in a bad mood around me but act likes the perfect guy around everyone else. I understand he's trying to get his friends back, but I really want to be treated like I mean something to him. Online, he hardly talks to me! Sometimes 10 minutes will elapse before he'll say "ok" or "cool". I don't know what to do! The only time he acts like a real boyfriend is when we're hanging out just the two of us. He always sends me parts of conversations with other girls that I don't want to see and I tell him not to send it but he does anyways.
Am i just overreacting, or reading too much into it? I'm pretty sure he loves me, but all his 'jokes' about liking other girls is starting to make me question our relationship. I feel forgotten and talking to him about it makes everything worse. He just says I complain too much or im 'abusive'. I love him so much and I'm so confused! All the stuff he used to do to me he does for other people while i just stand on the sidelines being jealous.
Help!!
Reading this over i sound ridiculous but I'm really hurt and this whole this is both emotionally and physically draining. (link)
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you might as weel face the facts... hes trying to move on in secret and find someone else before getting rid of you so he doesnt have to be alone. if he cant yell out loud to everyone that you are his gf. my bf loved me but he did the same thing and it led to soo many other problems. my advice is get out now or stop letting him hide you and if he doesnt want to be with you after you tell him that you dont want your relationship to be a secret then he doesnt repect you and he obviously has something to hide. sorry i know this prolly isnt want you wanted to hear but im trying to asve you from the pain that you will feel if i think what is going on actually is.
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i met this girl on a school trip to another city. well we hung out a bit n danced a little n i think shes cute. well when i got back to my city all i knew about her was her name and that she went to a school near where i went to, cuz i forgot to ask for a number. well i asked a friend that goes to that school about her and turns out she lives down the street from him, so iono should i go visit? would that be stalkin? cuz i didnt mean to find out where she lived, i juss asked about her. would it be weird?
if it is weird wat else could i try, she dont have mysapce n other stuff (link)
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it wouldnt be weird for you to go hang out with ur friend and u shouldnt let it pass you by... take your chance.but it would be weird for you to be walking up and down her street all of the time so go to your friends house once and make plans with him to go to the door at her house. dont get into the habbit htuoghcause then your friend might feel like he is being used. hope i could help.
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Theres this realy funny guy i like. Well there is a problem i dont know if he feels the same way. i told him how i feel but he hasnt answered back . He just said ok. Well my question is should i ask him if he likes me or has any feelings for me. Were probly going to start hanging out now so i am going to feel very awkword around him when we do. I think he likes me because he smiles at me and stuff but how do i find out. Should i ask him in person if he has feelings at all or how do i ? Please help.
thanks so much! (link)
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hte best way to find out if he likes you is to ask him. just tell him hey i told you that i like you and i dont want things to be weird between us when we hang out so if you dont feel the same way then thats totally cool and lets please not make a big deal about it. but i want to know if you like me back at all or if you just look at me as a friend and let him know that no matter what he still has your friendship. hope i could help.
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ok.. so there's this guy.. and i think i love him.. but we have been through soo much.. and now he hates me for something i didnt do.. he thinks im preventing him from being friends with one of his ex's who happens to be like my best friend.. but thats soo not the case!! its been 4 months since we broke up and ive been trying so hard to get over him.. and i almost did... but i dont know what came over me... i just snapped and fell in love with him again.. and i just cant get him off my mind.. and i really dont know what to do.. cause there is this other guy that i kinda sorta like but i dont know how he feels about me.. but the thing is i can never stop thinking about the guy i love when i talk to the guy i like.. im really trying to get over him but i cant.. and i reallyjust wanna be friends with him again.. i mean of course i wanna be more than that.. but i just dont want him to hate me
i dont know what to do..if you could help me i'd really appreciate it
i always rate fives! (link)
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dont get with the guy that you like just to help you get over the guy you love or you think it will help you cause that not fair to him. just try talking to the guy you love, if he doesnt answer leave a messege, in some cases thats better cause you can say everything w/o interuptions or write a long letter and leave it in his car windshield wipers or something, he'll have no choice but to notice it and that way he can make the choice of whne he wants to read it and then leave it up to him if he wants to talk to you or when he wants to talk to you, at least you'll know that you tried and if you two arent together then its his fault.
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When someone tells you that a guy likes you when he doesn't and the person is just trying to embarass you, what should you say in response? I seem to always be a victim of that prank, but luckily I've never fallen for it. I would never do anything to embarass myself. (link)
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just keep not playin into it. if you act like you dont care or like its not affecting you and dont go around asking other ppl about this boy that could possibly have a crush on you then they will get bored cause they arent getting the reaction out of you that they want and they will move n to someone else. dont get mad and tell them to get a life or anything becasue then your ginving them waht they want and they will keep it up. good luck with your problem i hope this stops.
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14/f...ok so i kno this guy named Peter and two of his friends, Tyler and Trevor. So I like Peter a lot but he's really really shy and hard to get to know but I still am able to talk to him. One day i was talking to him and everything seemed like it was going well but after he was gone one of my friends said that Tyler said behind my back that Peter has absolutely NO INTEREST IN ME. But the next day I was talking to him and it seemed like he was SORTA FLIRTING with me. But after that I asked Trevor if wat Tyler said was true and he said probably yes. I dont kno wat to think and keep in mind that he is REALLY shy and wat i consider flirting could just be him talking. Please help
I RATE HIGH (link)
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thre are 2 possible reasons why these guys are saying that perter isnt interested in you.
1. they are right and peter is just a flirty guy who doesnt knwo how to let you down gently or doesnt want to be unliked by anyone.(sry if thats it)
or 2. one of these or both of these guys are interested in you so they are trying to get you to just give up on peter.
so the best thing that you can do is ask a more reliable source or ask peter. if hes scared to hurt your feelings and is telling you what you want o hear or being dismissive you should be able to tell. but thats the only sure fire way to get the answers you want.
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I've been going on and off with my boyfriend for over a year.. his birthday is coming up and he'll be turning 18. I don't want it to just be like all of his other birthdays, because he's turning 18, I would want it to be good! you know..? I've gotten him nice jeans and band shirts before .. soo haha.
- He's in a band, he plays guitar.
- Wears nice jeans, but band shirts.
- Listens to screamo music (HA! I know.. and I'm preppy lol)
- Likes XBOX .. doesnt have the new one though.
- Like movies .. but not going to the movie theater (haha IDK!)
I'm going to spend 100 dollars or alittle more.
I'm not sure what I can do that will be good and not lame and stuff! Guys are so difficult to shop for sometimes haha. THANKS! (link)
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see if there is anyway you can go somewhere and buy him guitar picks or maybe a guitar strap, but see if you can design what to put on them, its something that he loves to do and youll get to put a lil something of your own into to make it meaningful.
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Is it normal to like more than one guy at a time, because i think i like this guy in one of my classes whos really cute and we have alot in common. then theres this guy whos a year younger than me who im really close friends with because of swimteam and hes just someone i talk to alot and sit next to him everyday on the bus and stuff lik that. then theres this other guy on my track team that i think i might like just because hes really nice to me and i dont really know but i just like having him around me all the time and flirting with him. And then theres another guy also on my team thats really cute and in some of my classes and we're always flirting and hes always trying to grab me then hugging me after he teases me. So i dont know who i like, who i just like as a friend and who is just a crush, please help i will rate 5's! guys advice too please! (link)
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your young and obviously have many options. and it seems to me that you really dont know what you want yet. so stay single until you do, have fun. why be tied down if your not sure thats what you want? take time to hang out with these guys outside of scool and then make your decision of who you like and dont like and see what they want, cause it might be something totally different then what you want, and guys can be 100% different when you get them outside of school. so take your time and dont make a decision too quick and if your not 100% sure then wait until you are.
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