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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been GREAT... we have been goin out for 5 months and everything was the way I wanted it to be... except for two things... he always wants us to have some kind of sexual contact. He always wants to fingwer me and stuff... and he always wants me touching him. and up until I came back from France Our talkin relantionship was perfect. And now we fight all the time. I want so bad to break up with him but I keep thinkin what I would be without him and to me... I don't think I would be anything... What should I do?

A hard one, but I'm gona try my best.. Through my past welps I kinda think he wants the sexual kinda stuff as in proof of you loving him a LOT I really don't know him though so I dont want to give you the wrong view, it could mean many things.. depends on what kinda guy he is --> the first time doing all that sexual stuff might be scary and not very pleasuring but it will be after awhile, I understand what you mean "I don't think I would be anything(without him)" You either, can do what you want with him sexually & move forward, but if you arent comftorable with that, explain it to him, tell him you love him & you love how everything was going before he kept on wanting all this sexual contact, explain what he means to you, dont spill your heart all out though, If he is a good guy he WILL understand & that will tell you a lot, tell him youre uncomftorable doing those kind of things with him.. and its unnessicary if his love is really that strong.

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i have a bf that i like very much. but, we don't talk often. its the summer now so we don't get to see eachother very often and he doesn't come on instant messaging often either. he isn't really considerate, but he is very nice and funny. um, i guess i'm just worried if he really likes me or if he is just using me. i could call him, but he isn't usually home. i cant exactly tell him how i feel because i'm kind of shy. should i break up with him? or should i try to stay in this relationship and make it better?

I'm gona try and help you the best I can with the info you gave me, if you still can't decide send me a message in the inbox & I can go further, Well okay *if* you have been together for awhile & you could REALLY see yourself with this boy later on then you should try an work it out, But, from my guess you may be young a little bit ( NO OFFENSE ) & probably still curious, IF when you see eachother he always wants to have sexual..encounters, and he doesnt usually call you, He probably is using you & I would dump him. But hey, if you like him, Start calling him show more interest and see what happens, Call him up; invite him over, or ask to do something like go to the movies. If yall go to the same school and things arent going well no, tell him maybe yall should see what happens when school starts up again.

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ok im going 2 a new school and i hav a new friend.. she and i both like the same guy... and unfortunately he won't tell ne 1 who he likes at the moment... and he never tells ne 1 if its the newest person i school.... and im not sure if he likes me... but my friend says he does.... she isn't mad at me... but i dont' want 2 her 2 no that i like him.... what should i do 2 find out if he likes me? should i ask him myself?

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Thanx, Hope (lil hil)

Hey hun ! I agree with others, talk to your friend about it.. she must not like him anymore, Can you tell by the way she says "he likes you?" Is it the little snobbyish way, jealous.. ? By the tone of her voice I mean, Well if not then tell her you really do like him.. If your gona ask him I'd personally ask him alone, not with a friend unless you really want to . Well good luck sweetheart!

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well ive had a fwb for awhile and its been going pretty good up until now .. hes my best friends ex from a while ago and she doesnt have a problem with it .. but me and him dont really get along anymore so weve decided to stop. the problem is now i like my other best friends ex boyfriend and i dont know if i should tell her or not because im afraid she'll be mad. She told me she thought it was wrong of me to hook up with our other friends ex so im scared shell think its wrong to go out with her ex. i really like him and she told me she noticed me flirting with him lately but i dont know if she cares because she doesnt like him anymore .. i don't know if i should just ignore my feelings or let her know the truth? does anyone know what i should do?

I dont think you shoulld hook up with him , you know ? It would be reasonable if you were in love.. the two of you , But if not I think your better off keeping your best friend rather than losing her over some guy. Well maybe not some guy to you, but If yall arent in 'real' Love you know? WEll good luck hunni! xox

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