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Hi guys! My nickname is Josi and I am 14 years old. 14 may sound a little young, but for anybody who is around 14 and needs advice, I am a great person to ask. Chances are that I've dealed with alot of stuff that teens are going through, and can help with anything you ask. I don't just give advice to get good ratings, but to help those who really need it. Believe me, I know how important it is to have someone who you can go to for advice. Every teen needs someone like that.

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i had a boyfriend for almost 3 years we did everything for eachother i thought he loved me but i guess not...i found out he cheated on me 3 times and he is in the military..he got stationed in germany met a girl and brought her home..wat should i do??

he doesnt seem like he deserves you =]. you should try to move on

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Ok so there is this guy that i like but he doesnt even no that im alive but i realy like him and ive liked him since 3rd grade when i moved to my school. i realy want to tell him how i feel but im scared of rejection and once again be more dorky then i am if its even possible!can u help me Withs alot of lovin J.H

You really need to tell him. Guys like confidence! Just be confident that you are pretty, smart, and able to get any guy you want. Don't worry about how the conversation is going because it will show insecurity.
Hope I helped!
If you need any more help IM me at: luv josi =]

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OKay, i wanna kno if there is something wrong with me. All guys i like pass me over for my friends. I'm just as pretty as them but i get ignored, or labed "friend only" and iono y. Is it because i give advice? Is it that i give off the friend only vibe? (and if i do, how do i stop?)I like to become friends with the guys before i decide whether to pursue a relationship or not, but the at that point, it seems to be too late. What can i do to change and get guys to notice me? Thanks in advance!

mabye you just need to flirt a little more to get a rid of the friend vibe. I was exactly the same way! I just needed to be a little more outgoing. Do the same and the guys will be all over you!
Good luck! =]
If you need any more help IM me at: luv josi

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ok so there is this guy i like and he says he likes me to and sometimes when i send him a text message or something he doesnt answer like he is ignoring me but when im with him in person he is all over me what is going on???im confused??what should i do??

I was going with the same thing..i asked him about it and he said he was low on texts but he still wanted to talk to me. so from then on he called me all the time. =] talk to him
hope i helped!

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Okay well Theres this guy that I really like ALOT. and well during like april may and june we were pretty much together (But not dating because he thinks its just a label, but I considerd us dating ;]) and well I liked this other guy more than him (well thats what i though) and I told him , and we sorta just stopped being togehter, we were still realllly good friends and everything and we still hung out..but now I started thinking about everything we did together and I miss him so much..and I told him that, and he told me that he thought of me as a really good friend.. but then the next day we hung out and he hugged me (like he did when we were together) and then he told me he liked me, and like the next week he was like i dont like you..and that went on for a while, and finally we started talking and everything and he emailed me and he said "im going away so you have to email me ALOT" and he put a kissy face there, and after his name he put a heart...I think he likes me and everything and I really hope he does because homecoming is coming up on friday and everything.. but do you guys think he still has feelings for me?

I think he still does. But mabye he's just cautious about it since what happened before. But It sounds like he's over it now so I say go for it!

Hope you have fun at homecoming =]

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Ok, well, this will probably seem stupid to most people... but there's this guy in my grade (8th) and last year he told my friend that really liked me and he was really sweet to me and then I started to really like him and he asked me out and we "went out" for a while but the thing is, we hardly really talked. then i guess he just told his and my friends that he didn't really like me that much anymore and nobody ever actually broke up with the other one, but we just kind of broke up in a weird way. Well anyways, then it became awkward around him. He started being kind of rude to me. Then, during like the last week of school, we kind of started talking again and it was a lot of fun we started flirting a lot- like he took my sweatshirt which was way to small for him, and put it on, and we kept messing around with eachother... then summer started. Now, he is in one of my classes, but we dont talk, at ALL. It's really frusterating, because I still really like him. The thing is, my friend told me that she thinks he likes this new girl, who is by the way extremely rude and annoying, because he was flirting with her, kind of the same way he did with me. I found out that he is going to the same high school as me, though. Do you think I might get another shot with him in the future, or is it pretty much gone? Please help me! I rate!

I think you should make the move and go and talk to him. but dont act slutty and change your style for him. He went out with you before so we know 1 thing: he likes ur style!=] Just flirt and act liek you dont care if you get back together with him. You might also try and look as if your interested in another guy..that will get to him haha.
Good luck!
Hope I helped =]

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dear summergrl05 I am 14 and I have a huge crush on this guy but my friend amanda doesnt want me to go out with him because hes her ex but my other friends say we are a good couple. amanda hates him so idk y shes all offensive of this but anyway how do I get to go out with him, my other friends think we are a good couple but i still dont know what to do or how to get him to go out with me!!! help plzplzplz!?

sounds like a sticky situation =/. heres what i would do if i were in your shoes:

I would explain to amanda that I really like this guy, and that I would be the happiest girl in the world if I could go out with him. I know you don't like him since he's your ex, but I want to give him a chance. I hope this doesn't get in the way of our friendship because your my best friend.

As for getting him to go out with you, I would first talk to him alot, flirt a little, then after a while tell him that you like him. then you could ask him to go to the mall with some friends and see a movie and just chill. this is what I did and it worked perfectly =].

The key secret to getting any guy is being confident. Guys notice if you're all shy and insecure about your looks, or how the conversation is going.

I hope everything works out for you!
hope i helped =].

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Well.... i realllllly like this kid, and i have NO IDEA if he likes me back or anything and like my friends are always like you should tell him you like him and stuff... but the thing about it is that i have 2 worries 1. he doesnt like me back! and 2. his friends are the type of guys that are like you like him and are always asking out girls for them and like there just jokin around and stuff. i dont kno so will you guys help????? should i tell him or not??
THANK YOU SOO MUCH!
XO0X


PS we are starting to become friends...weve meet on the first day of school (about a month ago)...... SORRY ITS SOO LONG!

DEFINATELY tell him. i just went through the same thing. Heres my story:
I just started high school about a month ago. I met this guy at one of the dances and we talked and stuff. then after school he comes by and talks at where i get picked up. I asked one of my friends to see if he likes me. so she told him that i liked him. now homecoming is next friday and i was hoping he would ask me, but i didnt tell anybody. i turned down an offer in case he would ask me. 2 days ago my friend called me and said that she was just talking to him and that he said he was going to ask me to homecoming!
so my advice to you is to tell him! you never know what might happen. besides, whats the worse that could happen? lol its just a guy =)
good luck!
hope i helped!

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