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Q: ok so my schools homecoming is september 16 and i really want this guy to ask me!! he's never had a girlfriend and we're 15 and he doesn't even take girls to his sports banquet cause he's kinda shy around girls..haha so does anyone know any ways to hint that i wanna go 2 homecoming with him? thanx!
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this is gonna sound stupid, but dont laugh bcuz it works. start a kind of "i heard this going around...." kinda thing that you like him. make sure one of ure close friends talks to him. then i would straight out make small talk bout homecoming to him and see how he reacts. if he is all "um... no i dont have a date and i dont want one, you scary woman get away from me. cooties... COOTIES!!" lmao then back off :P but if not, lead him on to ask you to tha dance!
good luck
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Q: okay well theres this guy i like alot and i mean alot !! he is like perfect.. anyways.. is four years alot or distance or no? i rate high !!! easy 5's guys!
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to make this answer quick and simple... my parents are 8 years apart. nuthin stopped them. dont let what any1 else says stop you.
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Q: 13/m. me and my girlfried have been going out for about a year. But we have never really done anything like even go to the movies!!!! So yah. This is all because she wont tell her parents about us. Im not at all a bad kid. Im pretty good looking, good grades, never got suspended, nice, ect. I'm getting a little tired of this b/c i want to be able to do stuff with her. should i dump her and move on? or should I stay with her? Why wont she tell them? I no its not b/c her parents think she is too young, and she has like a really good relationship with her parents. What should i do? Stay? or go? Please help!!!! I RATE HIGH!!!
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it seems that she might only be dating you for the status that comes along with a 13-yearold relationship. Status as in... the privilege of being able to claim the ever-popular "of course i have a boyfriend!" I dont mean to diss her or anything, i just mean that if thats true... she's a pretty low girl.
****BUT**** that is just one possibility. I wouldnt ride all my money on that either. i doubt some1 like you wouldnt have figured out she was like that after a year of going out.
Now i doubt any1 will give you this to think about...
ok, well, i personally understand how different girls are about relationships than guys are. i mean in the sense of even telling their families. Guys... they dont have a problem with it usually. I mean, yeah, sometimes they get teased a lil bout it or crap like that from their older brothers and stuff like that ... but that doesnt affect their hearts or minds or anything. i guess guys can be stronger mentally around their families....(now if im totally off from you as a guy in exampling like that, read on anyway cause the next part is important yet hard to comprehend)
Girls... are different, if u wann aplace it in those exact words. What i mean is, a the impression i have of guys is that they are able to roll with punches easier. What i mean by that is.. while a boy can be teased by their parents bout having a girlfriend, laugh it off, and keep living... girls tend to care WAY too much about what their closest people(family ESPECIALLY) think of them.
Im not saying she hasnt told her family about you because she's ashamed of you... HELL no. And dont take into consideration that she has a good relationship with her parents. it doesnt matter how close you are to your family when it comes to revealing her affections for a boy.
its screwedup, yes. but hard to understand as a guy.
just.... stay. stick with her. i PROMISE you she is just to embarrassed to tell her family she likes a boy.. cuz family's can tease... mean...
trust me. familys can turn evil bout teasing...
stick with her... or you'll break her heart... and yours maybe too... itll be a loselose situaition..
one more pointer tho: you are really gonna wann ago out and do sumthing with her.. try going to the movies with your friends and her with hers and met her there. try stuff like that... but dont waste the time you are together... please dont waste it...
if you need more advice, write again and i'll look for you...
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Q: Alright well Just a fiew minutes ago this guy asked meh out. And a fiew weeks ago I really wanted to go out with him till I did stuff with him ( i sorta reegret it ) and I felt like he used meh. But he was pestering meh and all this stuff. and he was like we can hang out Ill bring you to movies and take you out to eat and all that stuff.. So I finaly just said yes. But I have a feeling he is still using me and I dont want that. I want a real relationship. Im suposed to hang out with him tomorrow but i dont know what to do cause i know he is gona ask me to do stuff and he is gona be like well we are going out now. so he will use that as an excuse. And I dont want to do stuff cause I know it will be because he is using me and doesnt really like me! What do I do. HOw do I know if he really likes me at all or if its ALL just for sexual stuff?
Love maddie
Ps im 14/f
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wow... 14, eh? this doesnt seem like a good situation for you to have gotten yourself into. If i knew you personally i'd actually be very proud of you for realizing the slight danger he is to you tho. I cant totally say he IS using you, but heck if you are noticing he MAY be... then there is a 99percent chance he IS using you. i actually think you are in danger, if not physically, but mentally and emotionally too.
what i mean is that if you get out of this relationship too late, for the rest of ure life you may not be able to trust any of your future boyfriends... dead serious here. i mean, you are only 14, rite? well, face it, you are so young that you have the rest of your life ahead of you.. the rest of your dating life, too. if you walk away from this guy after he used you to the extent that this situation may grow to... you will be scared the rest of your life...
i dont like thinking another 14yearold is gettin used... i dont want you to take this too lightly, because if danger IS there.. its better to be safe than sorry.. rite?
if i were you... i woudl probably bring it up to him that he acts like he uses you... then depending on how he reacts to that.. you may wann abreak it off... for your safety really...
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Q: ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?
i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you.
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um.. this is a hard situation... i can tell just from reading how you feel bout this... im not totally absolutely 100percent sure bout what im about to say (because, heck im not you) but i would probably handle your situation in this way...
Take a moment and look into his eyes and basiclaly tell ureself whether he's worth it. ask yourself if what he's doin to you by being so.. knowitall-y is worth ure stress. i have a feeling you dont wann alet this guy go because heck its great to have sum1 to care about you. I know how you feel, and i know how a breakup could wreck more than just a kick-ass relationahip... i cant help u more than just tell you to decide what's best for yoursel... be proud of yourself for finding such a great guy tho. few men out there are as caring as yours is (even if it almost seems near-stalkerish kinda jealous sumtimes, its actually just a man's way of showing he cares)
and no. just because uve been going out for a good chunk of over halfayear does NOT mean you should break it off. i think its great actually. if any reason you decide to break it off with him eventualy, i hope its not because you feel you went out with him 4 2 long.
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Q: 13/f
Well i met my boyfriend on AIM. My best friend goes to a diff. school than me and she knew him... so we were both single, she tried to hook us up, at first when we talked i wasnt shy. then he said he loved me after i showed him a picture of me...his mom said we couldnt go out until she meets me which could be awhile. But its really weird now becuase i feel shy talking to him through e-mail or AIM, is that normal?
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normal? idk. what i DO knwo is if he said he loved you after you showed him a pic of you.... maybe this aint the kinda guy you wanna go out with. ESPECIALLY if he said that his mom has to meet you which "could be a while". no. that isnt rite. duh you feel weird because this is a weird scenario for you. get sumthin to hapen fast, either meet his mom and see if he was talkin real or bs-ing or stop talkin to him before he hurts you. take this as a warning.
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Q: i have a friend that i liked for a long time and a couple of days ago we had this day that was great we made out for the first time and we talked about relationships and stuff and now it feels like she doesnt want to hang out anymore i think she is making excues for not being able to hang outi really like her and i thought she liked me back im not sure wat do i do i feel like crap do i tell her how i feel she might be leading me on and just move on at the last second and go wit a diff guy. she doesnt want a boy friend for the summer which i think is crap. i think the other night was great and i want to go out wit her do i tell her or do i find someone new i did that before and i kept comparing them to her but they didnt even compare to how much i like her i want her to like me the same i feel like i like nothin else exept her . i need some help i cant go on wit out her so i can really need some help i cant go on life isnt thee same it feels like thanxs
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MAYBE URE LACK OF PERIODS DROVE HER INSANE!! lmao im just kidding dont worry. lol
i bet u any amount of money shes scared. she doesnt wanna get hurt, or there's another guy that she is scared will go after her when shes with you. its kinda a macho kinda "i can steal ure girl away from u" situation, but it would screw with her head. get what im sayin? if she went out with you, her options would also go down, too.
maybe its that she'd rather not go out with you at all, than go out with you, get dumped, never talk to you again and cry herself to sleep for months. i think if thats teh case, she's one heckuva smart girl you've got. a lil too smart to go for chances, but smart nonetheless.
maybe one of her friends is pressuring her or sumthing, too.
I feel for you man, but you have to do sumthing for ureself... dont let go. if you love her, then hold on. maybe this is a case of hard-to-get...
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Q: i sometimes look at girls and think they are really pretty and fit. But i dont thik of going out with them i just think they are really nice and am really close to them. Am i bisexual? coz i think they are fit? Sometimes i even think strangers are really nice and pretty and think about them,, im confused
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wow this is gonna verge on parental responses, but i think your hormones are just confusing ya. lmao i sound like my mother.
either that or ure jealousy if getting ahold of ure emotions. its screwedup, but i wouldnt worry about it.
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Q: I really really like my best guy friend. And if I ever lost him, I would feel like dieing. He likes me too. But I'm afraid that if we end up dating and breaking up, we won't be like we are now anymore. All of my ex's I barely talked to after we broke up. No matter who broke up with who. And one of my ex's and I who now hate each other, used to be really close. So if you even understand this sinse it's kind of confusing. Can someone out there please give me advice on what to do?
Ps- Don't tell me to forget about him-because I think about him all the time.
I've already thought about this for a long time and I still don't know what to do.
13/f
Sorry this is long but I will rate!!
Thanks
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look. i know exactly, word-for-word, step-for-step how ure whole relationship will go down the drain if you go out with this guy. I think you need to understand sumthing, too. You said you are 13. If you like this guy in a "i think about him all the time" way, you'll shoot yourself if you choose to start a (lemme REALLY accentuate the bunny ears here) "ReLaTiOnShIp" with him. If you like him as much as you claim, then consider the rest of ure effin future for a moment. look into his eyes and decide whether or not you wanna give up a long friendship and (**keepthisinmind**)possibly a future REAL (not pathetic 13yearold junior high swing) mayberesultinginsumthingactuallyworhturetime relationship with one of the best friends u'll ever have LATER inexchange for a few weeks or "dating" him and having the privilege to say u have a boyfriend..!?!? i mean whatthecrap!!!? dont you dare lose that friend. youll beat ureself up until you die if you do.
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Look, I'm only here because I've read the crappy advice people have given to those in serious need. I mean give me a break when sum1 threatens suicide and all the advicegiver can say is "golly gee how terribly! go to counseling and tell sum1 rite away!" yeah. I cant just read stuff like that when i know that the person on the other line still hasnt solved their problem. so look. im not not the kinda person whos gonna go round braggin bout my "super special fanstastically cool advice!!" (??) no. Im gonna write back the stuff i KNOW u need to hear and am going to hope to all god almightey im not wasting my time here.
dont bother lookin at my "favorite catergories" either. what a crappy idea to try and limit what kinda questions im gonna answer. god...
~sum12die4u
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Gender: Female Location: Pittsburrgh Member Since: August 8, 2005 Answers: 16 Last Update: October 4, 2005 Visitors: 2562
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