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ok the other day i was with my boyfriend and weve been together for a month and 2 months next week and he said 'i love you' to me like properly but hes into long term relationships, his last gf he was with for 8 months and he said 'i love u' to her.
do you think he really means it...i love him so much and i dont want to get hurt!
thanks ill rate high
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well right now the word love is like pizza you love pizza but do you love so much that you would eat it every night. that's the way his last relationship eas it was pizza love but he might have different feelings for you. never mind when he says I love you b/c if you don't think he does let him know. find out how much he really loves you!
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I am 13 and in 8th grade and have never had a boyfriend. I think I'll be able to manage one better when I get to high school. Is it a turn-off to guys if you've never had a boyfriend before? I need to know, thanks.
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not really. here is a little undiscovered fact about guys. they like a challenge if you have never had a boyfriend, guys would see you as a major challenge b/c they will all fight to be your first boyfriend. trust i've been there done that and bought the tee shirt!
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I am dating this guy. Totally opposite from what I have ever dated and completely different from me. Although I hate to say this but I am a "preppy" girl... according to this guys friend. And he is NO WHERE near from being a guy who likes preppy girls. Apparently I am one lucky girl. I really like him and everything.. I mean I not thinking about breaking up with him. but before we started dating I had a thing for a guy that is a Soph (I am a freshman and my boyfriend is a Jr.) I mean I REALLY REALLY liked him. I learned he liked me too and was gonna ask me out. I was excited and everything.. but nothing ever happend... so I gave up on him. Then I began to like my boyfriend. A week later he asked me out. 3 days later I found out that the guy I really really cared for did like me and he was gonna ask me out the night that he grabbed my hand 2weeks before but he didn't know what my older brother (also a Jr.) would say. So he didn't! I was like Oh,Great that is nice to know NOW! Then 2 weeks after me and my boyfriend started dating I learned another guy liked me and was gonna ask me out.. (that is just more info not really important though cuz he is something I WOULD NEVER DATE! He's a PERVERT bad! which sux on Friday's because I am a cheerleader and we are still in playoffs) Well for my question.. I don't know if I am completely over the Soph. but I think I am but I am not for sure. How can I know for sure that I am? because I really really want to be because I really care for the guy I am with now. (link)
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if you care for the guy you are with now the other guy is more than likely gonna still like you in some way. but if this guy that likes you truely likes you he will respect any choice you make. take my adviese do not break up with the guy you are with now he might be your true love!
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I have been involved with a guy for over 2 years. We have a near perfect relationship. He is my best friend and the person I know God sent to me to spend the rest of my life with. My boyfriend says he feels the same way. We recently graduated from college and were lucky enough to have found jobs in the same city. We have been living together for over eight months and especially the last three months, we couldn't be happier. I now find myself constantly thinking about marriage and looking at dresses and engagement rings. Is that normal?
He says that he is ready to marry me but he doesn't want to spend the money it cost to buy me an engagement ring. The ring that I have chosen cost $3000 and he claims that is too much to spend on a ring. I told him that I don't care how much he pays for a ring as long as he puts a lot of thought in the ring he chooses. Lately, he constantly reminds me of the $3000 ring and makes me feel as if it is my fault that engagement rings are so expensive. What should I do or say to him to convince him that I just want a nice ring? Also, what can I do to convince him that this is not a time to be a cheap-skate and that a decent ring will cost over $1000? (link)
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yes everything is perfectly fine and normal.
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ok well there is this kid I really like at school . And when I told Him he said he Might like me 2 ! and that he would tell me on monday ! well it is wedsday and i still have NO answer ! so what does that meaN !?!?!?!?! does he like me or not ! HELP ! (link)
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well I'm kinda in the same boat you are in. I think you should wait a few more days b/c he just might be taing this seriously!
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I really like this guy, John. I talk to him all the time on the phone but I don't get to see him that often because he lives 30 minutes away. Well he knows that I like him, and he tells me that he likes me too, but he constantly is telling me about all these girls that he hooks up with. He knows it gets me jealous because i've told him but he continues to do it. How can I stop being so jealous???? I really want him to like me, I feel like i'm being played ... Please help! (link)
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dear friend this boi must not no how you really feel about him. b/c if he did he would be w/ you and not these other gurls. s/t bois need to be reminded on who likes them. so jus tell him how you feel again and if he still treats you this way then kick him to the kirb.
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I hear all these 13 and 14 year olds asking about sex and i am 13/f (almost 14) and i think they are too young but i kinda feel weird cause i am still prude. i dont understand y they wanna do it with all them std's and stuff out there arent they worried? cause i know that condoms dont protect you from std's and sometimes not pregnancy. well i was just wondering... does anyone feel the same way i do? (link)
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yes, i back you up 100%always tell them that making out is ok but babies are cutier when youre married!!!!!!!!!!!
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I'm a 15 years old girl, and have had 1 boyfriend, which was a joke. I have been asked out numerous times, but each time I deny them. I allways find something about the guy that doesnt work. I have just come to conclusion that I'm afriad. I'm afraid to fall for someone, that might actually feel the same. I'm afriad to get my heartbroken.
I have helped many of my friends battle through heartbreaks, and from hearing and learning from this makes me wonder why even bother dating if they are just going to end tradgicly? I feel like i'm holding back, and I dont want to hold back anymore.
Can you give me advice on getting over this feeling?
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thats bullshit u shouldnt try to find something wrong with every guy u meet!!!!!!!!!!!
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alright so ive been dating this guy for 3 months and i dunno i keep wondering if hes doing things hes not supposed to like cheating on me maybe but i mean ive thought it out and im with him most of the time except for on wednesday nights when im at my dads and sundays when hes at church and if im not with him then i know what he is doing and he tells me he loves me every day so im just wondering do other girls suspect their boyfriends of cheating on them even though there isnt really any evidence proving it (link)
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dUmP hIm!!!!!!!!!!!
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Well... Theres this girl i really really like..and i knw she likes me back..but she alrdy has a guy...what shud i do? (link)
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wait ur turn!!!!!!!!!!!!
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kay Im sorry If this is really long I just dont know how to put it..
well I've known this kid chris for a long time.. we've always been friends and I was going out with this kid named derrick for a 11 months when we broke up I was so hearbroken and me and chris started hangin out alot.. so then we started going out and derrick had a girlfriend already too.. but It always seemed like derrick didnt want me with anyone when or be happy..when I was with chris derrick would come over and like things would happen and he would be really mean to be when I was with chris.. well I cheated on chris with my ex and I just feel so guilty he thinks all girls cheat bc all of his girlfriends have to him.. and hes a wicked nice guy he treats his girlfriends sooo good.. and he said that I proved him wrong but I feel so horrible that I could do that to him we arent together anymore but were styll really good friends.. everyday since that day i cheated on him It hurts me cause i feel so guilty and I wanna tell him but I know If I tell him I`ll lose him as a friend.. and I dont want that.. I dont know what to do I think about this everyday the guilt just wont leave me alone.. what should I do? please help If you can.. I`ll rate.. thanks (link)
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dont cheat just be there for him and if derrick cant leave u alone then file a restraining order on him! ive had a possesive bf and thats the worst kind! take my advice and get rid of him!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok theres this boy that i really like and have alot of feelings for. i have know him for a really long time. he was my frst b/f, my first kiss, and i lost my virginity to him also. then he switched school districts and moved, only like a 5 minute car ride.but we didnt really keep in touch. now i see him once in a while when hes in the nieghborhood, he stops by my house, he kisses me, and the last time ihe was here he took down my #, and then asked me if he could come over in 2 days and chill and i said sure, he nevr came over though. i need help do u think this kid likes me back, and should i be mad at him for not showing up when he says and wat should i say to him about this??
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dear friend of course he likes u! he must be having a hard time with something at home! call him to find out why he didnt show! but if he gives u excuses dump him!!!!!!!!!!!
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OK. I have this little problem because I like this guy who is younger than me by like 10 months. People say it's not cool to date younger guys but I don't care. So here's my problem: I like him a lot, but I wanna be more than internet friends. I know him and he knows me, we go to the same school, but we don't talk in school, only online. And one time, my friends told him that I liked him and he said "Don't say that or else I'll throw up in my mouth" but that was a long time ago and he said sorry for it and I forgave him but now I'm feeling mized emotions again. I like him a lot, but at the same time I wanna hate him. What should I do? Still talk to him? Not talk to him at all? Or not be friends? I'll rate anything please!! I really need help... (link)
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dont worry if you like him date him if you dont give him a shove!!!!!!!!!!!
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Okay.. none of my friends were help on this. See if any of you are!
I've been with this guy for almost 2 months. He's in LOVE with me and totally obsessed. I hate clingy guys and I'm sick of him. He calls like .. 5 times a day.. AT LEAST .. and is Always wanting to hang out. I barely have time for my girls with him around!
I need a way to break up with him so he won't be too upset, and he will still be friends with me. I still like him, and i've already told him he's too obsessive, but it didn't help any! I need a way to let him down gently!
!mucho amor! (link)
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no sense in being nice. like we say at my skewl chump him out(kick him to the curb hard honey,b/c next thing you know you wont have any friends except for him and if he's doing this to you he's really not a friend!!!!!!!!!!!
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I am 13 and a female. I like this one guy who is one of my friends. He has liked every other of my friends except me out of all my friends (not trying to be self centered or anything) I seem like i'd be bettter with him because we have a lot of things in common. we have weird things in common about our family and grades etc. we just seem like we'd be really good together. i have liked him for a couple of years now and he most likely knows that. Why would he not like me? (link)
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he should but he might be scared of commitment!!!!!!!!!!!
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ive been dating this guy for 5 months&we really got to know eachother before we even started dating. he ended up getting grounded over the summer for failing spanish&we havent gotten to see eachother since then. we decided it was pointless to date over the summer if we never got to see eachother, so we went on a "break". i think he might be interested in this other girl he just met. she plays basketball with him&his friends all the time. i dont know if he just thinks of her as a friend or more. he said he wants to start dating again as soon as he's allowed to see me again, but i don't know if i should or not. what if he has or had feelings for the other girl? should i trust that he really does care about me&want to stay with me? (link)
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he would rather be with you!!!!!!!!!!!
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i dont know if someone already answered my ? but i cant find it so ill type it again. theres this girl that is 15 and she called me a loser and a freak a lot last year. now shes all over me. she squeezes my cheeks and she calls me cute and gives me a lot of hugs. shes goin away for the summer and she was sad that i was leaving. i think she maybe was crying. i dont know what to do. i dont want her to think that im a freak by askin her if i like her but all i think about is her. what should i do????? (link)
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tell her that you dont lie all of that attention and that you need so spac!!!!!!!!!!!
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What's the best way to tell a girl how you feel about her? School's over so I can't tell her there. I could get her screen name from one of her friends and tell her over IM but I'm not sure if that's a good idea. Please help. I'm 14 and a guy. (link)
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honey have u got alot to learn about the ladies! tell her how you feel give her this website and my advice colum. she will fall for you just let her know how you feel!!!!!!!!!!!
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My boyfriend just broke up with me 2 hours ago IN SCHOOL! he just wants a break so how can i make him want me??!!!
PLease answer!!
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dear friend,
there is nothing you can do. give him the time and spce needed to work things out!!!
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