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I am 17 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together on off for almost four years and have had a sexual relationship for pratically all of that time.
We're really great together but we aren't compatable sexually AT ALL. We have great chemistry and the lead up to sex is fantastic but the act itself is awful.
For the last year I've been questioning my sexuality. I've thought I'm bisexual for a few years, although I haven't discussed this with my boyfriend - it doesn't really come up does it. Lately though, i've becoming way more... that way inclined.
So basically, I'm unsure about my sexuality, and I don't see how I'm supposed to figure it out because I can't experiment without breaking up with my boyfriend. I really dont want that. And besides, I can't really mention it to my boyfriend until I know - because what if I'm wrong?
I would like to be in a relationship with a girl I think. But maybe a bit later in life. My family would kill me lol.
HELP? (link)
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girl I got the same problem except I've been with my bf for five years now and I have kissed a girl twice....but that's as far as I went and the sex with my bf is great! but at times I imagine of being with a girl and am still not sure which sex I'd prefer! but I mean I guess only you can tell.
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well me and my boyfriend will be going out for a year as of february 26, i know its early to be thinking about it now but i dont want to do anythinng last minute, dont say have sex because its not like we cant do that whenever. i want to do something we cant normally do,and something memorable, i live in new york. any ideas? (link)
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how about skydiving together? that would be a thrill and memorable if either of you haven't done that before.
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Okay, well the guy that i like A LOT told this girl in my class he likes me and my two best friends which is horrible. One of those friends flirted with him a lot until i confronted her about it and then she quit a little but she still did it some. But anyways, she is really outgoing and i am kinda worried that because he might pick her because she always talks to him and stuff. I know she would never go out with him because she knows i like him and she is my best friend but just the fact. I'm not worried about the other one because she never flirted with him and always try's to give me private moments with him but the other one always pulls up a chair whenever it's me and him alone and he usually talks to her because he is super outgoing and likes flirting with other girls but that is just his personality. I just feel like i am in competition because i have never liked a guy this much before and i really want it to work out. I try to talk to him every chance i get but it's hard sometimes because i;m in class but i don't know what to do.
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try to find something you both like, like a sport or hobby and try to share that to spend more time with him and let him see that you like him. and your ''best friend'' if she is really your friend , you should completely tell her how much you like this guy and she should really lay off cause that is so not cool.
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Okay so, Steven was dating Becky but Becky didn't like him and yes i flirt with Steven. But its steven and i never knew I was until it was pointed out to me [[IM A HORRIBLE GIRL.]] and when they broke up me and Steven started talking a lot more. Well I donno now its kinda weird. Not like he's telling me anything really personal but just things he usto tell Becky.
And then he's just like "oh.. I have to go I have to get up early in the morning, but If I could I would talk to you all night." and its like Oh Interesting.. --yeh diffiently played that smooth.
And then he asks me like what I think about him. Well im a horrible girl, cant accomplish the girl things of life.. I hate shopping Im as bad as my brothers. I ust suck at being a girl. I was like your a really good friend steven I donno what Id do without you.
That [I Guess.] wasnt what Steven wanted to hear... and I donno. I flirt when I dont mean to, I can't flirt and donno when Im saposed to. I donno maybe I do like Steven. I talk to him like every night and we hang out all the time but Im not trying to sound like a complete retard but Im not usually the kind of girls he goes for. He likes blondes, under 150 shorter then him kind of girls. I have brown hair, a fatty, and the same height. I can also probably take him for about 5 minutes in a fight... =] But I dono im not stevens type. I dont even know If i like Steven but i like talking to him... We can have the funnest time doing absolutely nothing, and he loves killing me in Halo3. --Im girly when It comes to video games. A lot of people thought we were dating, but I kept explining he was dating Becky... and they all took it like Ohh hes just trying to get closer to you. Well he doesnt need becky to do that. but Whatever.
The conversations I have with Steven range from pointless to like Never discussed matters and i told my friend and she said that Steven likes me because only guys that like girls are willing to talk to girls about that kind of stuff... but.
Now that i have the thought of him liking me, and me not sure for my feelings. I dont know how to act around him. I mean usually ill have my legs on him, ready to kick him when he beats me, and will mess with his brother about how much I love Steven. I would usually wrestle with him... but now on the phone. its just weird.
What Do I Do?? (link)
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well put into perspective what is more important to you. is becky a good friend of yours that you wouldn't want to hurt? the relationship with you and steven is it worth jeopardizing cause if you guys do start dating and things don't work out then you guys won't have that anymore. or if you really are interested in him then maybe you should let him know.Do what you feel is right.
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Well i go out alot and i usually go with a guy..
but for some reason i usually always end up paying for the guy and myself.. and i don't mind sometimes but all the time..? or just myself ..
i geuss it depends on the guy i choose but you as a girls.. does your man or "guy friend" pay for you or you pay for yourself? (link)
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I never ever have to pay.. whether going out with a friend or a boyfriend or date whatever...he is a guy!!! of course I offer to pay or to chip in but never has a guy let me pay as much as I insist. don't keep that habit girl, it aint right!!! well not all the time.
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my boyfriend and i talk on the phone A LOT. mostly because he wants to. i have never been the one to talk on the phone a whole lot. but there will be awkward silences and stuff. and he always is the one to think of stuff to talk about. can somebody give me ideas of what to talk about BESIDES: what we want to do next time we see eachother, what we want in life, our past, and what we did that day! i mean. theres not much else to talk about. and sometimes he will be like "baby i'm horny" and it gets all awkward and i don't know what to say to that to make it now awkward! and i can't stop him from saying that because according to him he should "be able to tell his girlfriend his mental and physical needs without it being awkward". so i asked him what does he want me to say to that kind of stuff and he doesn't give me a straight answer.
thanks! (link)
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I used to be the same way and still am when it comes to talkin dirrty on the phone...I've improved by talking about simple things when you can't think of anything to say. tell him what you've been up to ask him what he's been up to. when he says he's horny...u can simply respond ''really or mhhhmm'' he will respnd with a yes and you can simply say ''we will see about that later in person'' or something similar to suggest you just want to act on it and are not comfortable talking dirty or having phone sex...which I hate!
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i went to florida on vacation and i wanted to bring something back for my boyfriend, i wanted to make him something out of shells...any ideas? (link)
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if he is a smoker...you could try making an ashtray take a goodsize clam shell and maybe glue tiny shells around it be creative...I went on vacation and seen beautiful ones
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