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Q: my g/f gets angry sometimes about little dumb things like what movie we go see and she gets real angry and abusive.she likes to throw things and hit me but i dont hit her back i just hold her until she cools off.but it gets tiring and sometimes it hurts.but i dont want to break up with her because i love her.what should i do?
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anger management classes? Good luck with that situation...
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Q: Okay so i`m 17 and i was goin out with this 20 yr old boy for about 7 months..but we've been hookin up for almost a year. Then he cheated on me with his ex. so we seperated. Lets pretend this boys name is Bob. So while me and bob were broken up, we still talked and hooked up every once in a while. but not much. So i had a lot of free time for once. Durin the free time i met this other 20 yr old boy. he was so sweet and everything. so we started talkin. We`ll call this boy Joe. So later on, i come to find out that Bob and Joe are like worst enemies. they`ve been beefin` with eachother for YEARS! So then they find out about eachother, which isnt that big of a deal bc im not goin out with either one. but still they were mad and wanted to fight eachother. so Joe got locked up almost 2 weeks ago. And everyone wants me to help get him out. But i currently go out with Bob again, so he doesnt want me to. I mean some times i think i love bob, but i find myself constantly thinkin about Joe. and i miss him a lot. I dont know who would be a better choice for me? and i dont wanna make the wrong one.. I really need help. I dont wanna be lyin to them, so i just want one... plzzzz help .. thanxx
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wow... you are in a difficult position. So did this guy get locked up from fighting for you? If you are stuck in the middle of their games and they want to fight eachother this might result in violence. So I think bob should go because he has cheated on you before and he won't even let you have interaction with Joe. So bob seems to me like he is untrustworthy. And you find yourself thinking about Joe all of the time which in my opinion means you are over Bob. So joe. Good Luck hope i helped.
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Q: so i go to this camp next week for a whole week. and at the end of it the have this big banquet dinner thing. the problem is i dont get asked by anyone to it. my friend is kind of a "slut" and puts herself out to everyguy she sees. and i dont. people tell me how pretty i am yet NO ONE asks me. this year i want to go with some one. im really friendly. what should i do to get a guy to ask me?
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i have to say that i share the exact same problem as you. But i finally came around when i met this guy that i liked. I tried to sit by him everyday and class called him a acouple of times and just acted like i was so into him every time i was around him. On the last day of school he asked me out. try my philosophy. Good Luck
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Q: i am like cluless i dont no anything can you tell me what like handjob and a whole bunch of other things mean please!
thanks a bunch!
x---o
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If your really that concerned as to learning about all of the slang go to a web site called bbcteen.com people say that it is pretty straight forward with it's information. Good Luck
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Q: Ok, me and my boyfriend Cory have been going out for 9 months. Well, there is this girl named Stephanie who has been hitting and flirting with my boyfriend ever since we started going out. I have always hated this girl, so it makes the situation worse. She'd do it in my face, wherever.. she doesnt care. Once, i saw her, her friend, and Cory at this baseball field playing baseball with some younger kids and i got pretty mad about it. I forgave him and we went on with our relationship. He always compares me with her, like ill do something, and hell say, "Stephanie wouldnt do that!" then i get pissy, and he goes im sorry baby, im sorry blah blah blah... well, yesterday he was here, and i havent seen him for about a week, so i was talkin 2 him and he jus wanted to watch tv. Then left 20 minutes after he got here because I was being annoying. Well, now, i just learned that him, Stephanie, another girl, and another boy are at this other boys house. It really pisses me off because he is controlling, and I wasnt allowed to go to my friends house (a boys house), because he doesnt like the boy. So i said fine, i wont go. I really think hes cheating because he lets her flirt in my face and hes been acting really strange around me. So, do you think hes cheating? SHould i give him another chance? Should i call him? idk what to do because i dont want to overreact and i dont want to throw away a 9 month relationship! I would want to sit and talk with him but im scared he will hurt me physically and i dont want to lose him, im 14 and hes 15... what should i do??
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wow. A healthy relationship really shouldnt involve any fear of him hurting you physically or any suspision of him cheating on you. so i suggest you just slowly back away from him because it seems as if he isn't giving you enough attention so just forget about him, and so what if it has been nine months? He shouldnt be treating you like this or letting that girl stephanie offend you in front of him or at all. Just slowly back away. And if he does physically hurt you report him without hesitation. Good luck
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i am young and like to have fun i like to give advice but you dont ALWAYS have to take it. Well i hope i can help you all
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Gender: Female Location: midland Age: 14 Member Since: July 11, 2005 Answers: 14 Last Update: August 19, 2005 Visitors: 1409
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