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im shannon.
i play volleyball.
im 13, but ive been told i possess much wisdomm for my age.
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Hello, my name is Dania. I live in Pittsburgh, PA and my boyfriend lives in Canada. We've never met in person but we've been pen pals for a long time. My question is: How am I going to be able to keep in good communication with him? We have webcams so we use those to talk to eachother through msn. We can't really call eachother because the long distance charges are ridiuculous. How can I make this work? I really don't want us to fall apart. Thank you! (link)
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Write eachother letters(:
Do you guys have texting? Beause if you both do, then you can text him and i don't believe you will have any charges for long distance..
I can't really think of anything else right now, but i recommend the letters, those are fun to write and a good way to keep in touch!
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ok, this guy asked me out and i think he's pretty cute and i used to have a crush on him. The only thing is he asked me out over myspace and at first i thought it was a sincere question but im starting to doubt it and i think it was someone doing it as a joke...how do i find out if it was really him or just one of his friends playing around? (link)
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just ask him...
not over myspace, do it in person. or over aim. or if you have his number try texting him.
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I've been hangin with this girl I like for a few months, she's said she likes me, and I sorta made our last hangout a date. But she's just told me she really likes me, but she's not sure she wants a relationship right now, and is afraid to lose our friendship.
She might be a little guilty cause her mom has had a real rough go of relationships lately, but I don't know.
I don't know what to do! (link)
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Well there isn't much you can do. If she doesnt want a boyfriend right now then youre going to have to wait until she does, or move on and find some other girl you also like who is ready for a boyfriend.
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Ok so this guy (who is now a senior, "Ben") and I (now a sophomore) have been on/off for the last 6 months. In January, we met at school, and we liked each other, but I stopped liking him after I found out he was a player and crap. So then we didn't talk and I got another bf meanwhile, but then, "Ben" and I started talking in May and we got together. After 2 weeks, he broke up with me OVER A TEXT and it literally didn't phase me at all. I wasn't sad, or anything. I just moved on. 3 weeks ago, I went into the store he worked at, not even knowing he was working, and saw him. I was with like 5 other guys, and that night, he texted me and asked me a bunch of questions. We started talking, and we got back together. We hung out twice, and the second time, it was a date with his friend and my friend. That day did not go good at all. Half of the day, he was mad at me because the two did not "hit it off" so I got blamed(go figure). Then he broke up with me again over a text, and this time I was crushed. Idk why, it was just hard because I kinda wore my heart on my sleeve with him and trusted him. His excuse was "He's moving and needs time to think..."
Idk what to dooooo :/ I can't move on. (link)
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Right now you dont think you can move on, but trust me soon youll be able to move on. This ben guy really doesnt seem like a good boyfriend, if he keeps getting together and breaking up with you all the time I'm thinking you were right when you said he was a player. Don't worry though, you'll get over him. Just give it time.
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I have a bf and i cant tell if he really likes me or not. can u please help me? (link)
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well, if hes using you he'd probably be pushing you to do sexual things with him.. if he's not doing that than odds are he likes you.
but there really isnt a real good way to tell, so as the person below me suggested, i'd talk to him about it if i were you.
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ok. so there is this guy named jeffrey and he and i have been on and off liking each other for over two years. we would talk, become really good friends and usually ending up making out or something then we would just stop talking and eventually he would call me again and the process would repeat. so we stated talking again in march and in may he ended up taking my virginity. he knew i was a virgin and he was reallly sweet. well he just graduated and he drinks all the time and does some drugs. and we arnt talking. i hevnt talked to him in a month or so and im really upset because i feel used. i know he didnt use me because he is too sweet and i know he cares about me but im still so hurt and depressed. what should i do?
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why don't you call him and try to talk him or something, tell him you miss talking to him and you want to start up your friendship again(=
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well there this place that all the teenager in my city go to called well 400 and well I remeber seeing this one guy and I thought he was really cute but he was all gangster...well that was like 5 months ago and recently this guy added me on myspace and I think its him from what he tells me and from what my friends tell me who know him...well we started talking and he said he added me because he though I was pretty and from his pic I think he is really cute well we have talked dirty but just playing around and crap and I have this huge myspace crush on him like when he messages me I get all happy
well anyway I might see him this friday and I dont know how to hold myself he said to come up and give him a big hug but I think thats weird
what should I do when I see him
how do a aproach him if he dosent aproach me I dont know what to do
can you give some tips please thanks a bunch
ps Im 15 and he is 17 (link)
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just go up to him and say hey..
odds are he'll recognize you, but if he doesnt just say "hey its____ from myspace"
its really not thats hard (:
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can you get pregnant if you have sex on your period? (link)
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yea, it doesnt matter if your on it or not.
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I think I might be a lesbian but Im not sure. I like some girls like not as a marridge thing but i have been noticing things about girls that i didnt notice before, like how big their breasts are. I still like guys in like marridge terms, but my relidgion doesnt allow lesbians and i dont know what to do are there any websites for girls like me? Im not really sure that i AM one, i dont know! Please help (link)
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i agree with the person below me, when she says that if your not like "WOAH, her boobs are big, i wanna grab them"
i really wish you would of put your age.
if your a teenagre, thats COMPLETELY normal.
i wouldnt worry to much, it could be a stage.
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Is it normal for a guyfriend to call you baby?
err at nite when you text he text you nite sweety/sweetiepie/honey xoxox ? even call you out sweety on the phone?
is that normal or does he possibly LIKE me, more then a friend?
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it depends if thats the only thing he does to show signs he likes you he may not.
i ahve a lot of guy friends who call me sweety and baby. but they dont like me. at all
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Ok so there is this boy Ethan that I like but I dont no how to flirt with him can you give me any tips and advice? (link)
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wel flirting come naturally, yoou probbaly flirt with hm and dont even realize your doing it. Just like giggle when he says something funny and be extra friendly to him. Dont over do it though, it will make him feel weird
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i really like a boy, but we're just friends and i dont think he likes me like that, what do i do? (link)
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hmm get to know him better, talk to him, but the horrible thing that everybody hates is that you ant make somebody like you. just remember dont change yourself so he likes you, just dont do it.
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ive been talking ot my guy for two months. not quite bf and gf yet. theres quite and age difference (5 years) im 17. since theres a gap, we question our relationship but he is like nervous to meet my fam parents, i told them hes 22. i was thinking about bringing him to my dads 50th birthday in october. is that a bad idea? (link)
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Well what did your parents say abotu the age difference? I think that it will be super akward for him ecspecially if alot of your relatives are there. But if you like him and are thinking aout starting something, go for it.
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One of my best friends introduced me to her high school-ex boyfriend about 2 months ago. When I wasn't around, he kept making comments about how gorgeous I was. Well, she told me when we left his house that she'd like to see me and him get together (I set her up with her current boyfriend) and that he seemed to have really changed. Well, we started hanging out a couple of times and we got drunk and ended up making out and talking for hours on end. We never had sex. We can sit on complete opposite sides of the room and talk for 4-5 hours without ever touching each other. Our conversation alone is better than sex. Well, my friend starts telling me that he hasn't changed and that I needed to leave him alone and she tells him to leave me alone. So, to make her happy - I tell him I don't want to talk to him anymore. The truth is, I lied. I miss him a lot. He may be a player and he may be a bad guy, but I honestly enjoy his company. I don't know how to make this right. Can someone give me some advice? (link)
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okay first off if she was a good friend she wouldnt have made you guys stop talkign, i undertsand she was lookign out for you but if she knew you were happy wiht him she shoudl respect that. Second off i think she is just jealous. He wasnt liek this when they dated and she envies this relationship you have with him.
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ME 19/F HIM24/M we have been togethe for 3 yearsand we live together at hismoms house and well we have been rough patches andall but we mde it throughhe justu tgot this new job making 4 grand every month but the bad thing is hes gone from like 6 in the morning to like 10 or 11 at night i nver get to see him rally anymore and hes so tiredwhen h ges home hedoesnt want t be held on or doesnt want to do anything physical well my job i only mad lik emaybe 6 or 650 in a month so h wanted me to quit so i could find abetter job and we could move out ad get a place together so i go to my job quit come hom gt job interviews lined up and all so we have a wonderful day that day cause he had it off and we were having a great day emotionally and physically lol well the next day i go out with my friends in hi car which he knew about a week in advance! WELL I GET HOME ROUND 1:30AM.WELLHES MAD AT ME SAYING I SHOULD HVE TOOK MY CAR BUT I COULNT CAUS IT DOESNT HAVE A TAG YET WELL HE SAID HE COULNT GO ANYWHERE IF HE WNATED AND WHATEVER WELL THE NEXT DAY I FIND OUT HE HAD WENT OUT TO THE BOWLING ALLEY WITH HIS FRIEND AND HIS FRIENDS GF THAT I DO NOT LIKE! SO I GET MAD AND AK HIM HYD H MAKE ME FEEL BAD THAT I WENT OUT WITH HIS CAR WHEN HE WAS OUT ALL NIGHT TOO AND SO THEN HE GETS MA SAYING I NEVER LET HIM DO WHAT HE WANTS AND STUFF WELL THEN HE ENDS UP GOING OUT AGAIN WITH THEM 2 ADN STAYING GONE ALL NGIHT COMESHOME THE NEXT DAY IN HE AFTERNOON AT 2 AND LEAVE AGAIN COMES HOM LIKE AT 12 MIDNIGT WELL HES TELLING ME HE DOESNT NAT TO BE WITH ME THATHE LOVES ME ANDALL BUT I BITCH AT HIM TOO MUCH ABOU EVERYTHINGANDHE DOESNT WAN TO COME HOME AND HAVE TO HEAR THAT AND THAT I CAN STILL STAY HERE HE CAN HELP ME AND CAN HELP HIM BUT NOT IN A RELATIONSHIOP AND THE REASON WHY HE HASNT ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM IS CAUSE I TRY T O WEAR THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP AS IT IS AND JUST THINK WHT ITD BE LIKE IF IWAS HIS WIFE AND ALL THIS THT HE DONT WNAT ME TO HATE HIM HE JUST CANT B IN A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW ITS TOO MUCH STRESS.THAT W TRIED AND WE FAILED HE WONT EVEN LET ME TOUCH HIM I HAD TO CRY MYSELF TO SLEEP WE SLEPT IN THE SAM EBED BUT I COULDNT TOUCH HIM AND THEN IN THE MIDDLE TH ENIGTH HE WS HOLDING ME S TGHT AND STUFF AND IT JUSTHURTS ME SO BAD HE IS MAKIGN IT SEEM LIEK I DO EVERYTHING WRONG IN THIS RELATIONSHIOP AND HES SOO PERFECT ALL IWANT ISSOME ATTENTION ONCE IN AWHILE I MEAN DAMN IS THAT TOOO HARD TO ASK FOR? I DOTN UNDERSTAND WHY WOULD I WANT TO STAY HERE AND US HELP EACHOTER BUT NO BE WITH HIM? ITS TUPID AS SIT I EMAN COME THE FUCK ON SHOULD I TRYAAND MAKE THIS WORK OR SHOULD I JUST GET OVR HI? SOMEONE OLEAE HELP I MKNOW THIS SI REALLLY LOG IM SORRY HES AT WORK AND IM SITTING HERE LISTENIGN TO COUTNRY CRYING S YEHA PLEASE HELP ME I NE DADVICE.THANX (link)
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okay I can't read this what so ever. Can you type it so that it is readable? then i will try my best to answer;.
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the link is herre
http://a751.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/110/m_8717608e88fd8320c05d85ef57841186.jpg (link)
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yea your pretty. just ignore evryone else.
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I really like this one guy, right now he is busy with his hobby (racing) and he works a lot. I really like him too, but sometimes I will text him and I never get anything back or he will text me a few times then stop, does he possibly not have intrest in me or do I just need to give it time? (link)
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Give it time. He's probably just very busy with everything, my crush is like this to, and he told me that he was sorry that he wasnt responding to me and stuff..
hope i helped.
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