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So me and my boyfriend have almost been going out for two months and all we have done was kissed and it was peck
we act really sexual on the internet i guess but in person we act way diffrent tomorrow i am hanging out with him and i told him i was going to bite him like his hand cause i guess we are pretty weird.. haha and he doesnt want to be the sexual couple.. should i act the way i act on the internet really flirtatious?? (link)
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just start it off... do what you say you'll do... he'll catch on ^_^ ha ha... good times. but really if you want to take it father DO IT!!! there're few things guys find more attractive then a chick taking charge in sexual activites
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i know turning a guy on can depend on the guy alot of the time. but are there any things that generally work a lot of the time to turn on a guy? like kissing them a certain way or whatnot? or a certain place? (link)
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one that i've found is really good is to really softly bite/suck on the skin in between his ear and neck, it works so well!!!
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just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?
i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss. (link)
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my first kiss was when i was like 3 years old, my guy friend was like "look at this, it's what people do when they love eachother" *kiss* it was cute ^_^. my first tounge kiss was in 7th grade, i liked this guy for such a long time and then we went out, he kissed me... there weren't any sparks and soon we broke up... lol
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Okay so theres ths guy that i really like: (im gunna put it in like..bullets so its easier to read):
-and it all started last month around the beginning of March.
-and we've met before but never really talked much because we dont go to the same school but he lives in the same town as me.
-we work at the same place, and thats basically how we started talking.
-so over the weeks in March, we started to text all the time everyday; from the time we'd wake up to the time we'd go to sleep.
- everything was going good and i got the chance to get to know him a bit more and he seemed like a really sweet guy. just had bad luck with past relationships because of the way he was treated.
- only problem: we never got the chance to hang out because i had drivers ed 3 times a week, basketball 2 times a week and work on the weekends.
-->this was a problem because he was always bugging me about hanging out but i nevr had the time to.
So everything was going pretty good.
APRIL:
-So he then invites me like..last minute to some semiformal thing on a tuesday and the semi is on that saturday.
--im not able to go because my parents dont know him and i wasnt getting great grades at the time.
--> so saturday comes and hes like..really reallyyy sad i cant go.
--> a couple weeks go by, and everythings still going good.
--> then all of a sudden one day, he just starts acting wierd. and this carries on for 3 days.
- so i had to work one of the days and he was like "oh maybe ill stop by"
--> so he stops by and we didnt talk but just smiled at each other. he stayed for maybe an hour.
- so after work, i check my messages and there are three from him explaining how he was sorry he acted the way he did.
--> so days go by and then its vacation.
since i go to a catholic school in a different state but i live in the same state as him and he goes to public school in the state we both live in, our vacation is different.
- i ended up giong to florida for vacation for a week.
we texted the whole time i was down there and things seemed to be fine.
-until the last 2 days i was down there, he didnt respond to my txt messages.
so i was worried something was wrong.
-i get back from vacation, all happy to be home (sadly haha) and then i just look on his myspace, since i dont have one (not allowed) and it says "in a relationship"
--> so im like...ohh great what the hell happened now? then he signs on that night and tells me that his phone has been dead and it wont hold the charge.
so i asked him why it said "in a relationship" on his myspace and hes all like "What? i thought u werent allowed on myspace? i thought it was blocked? and im like...noo....its not blocked. i jsut cant have a myspace"
so then hes like...about that...i thought u were jsut leading me on the whole time and we havent even hung out yet so i was getting tired of it.
so iim like...okay, i told you before vacation that after i got back, we could hang out because drivers ed would be done with. and hes like..well i dont remmeber that and you didnt seem like you were interested in me that much because you never made plans to hang out.
--> i definetly remember making plans to TRY to hang out but they didnt work because of drivers ed.
and now he just wont talk to me or anything, and i dont know what to do.
what would you do if you were me?
Thanks,
steph
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i can see your side... but i have to say that i feel kinda sorry for him... because i really liked this guy for a long time, he was really into me, i was really into him.... but it seemed like he never made time for me... or even tried to (that's probably how this guy felt) so which felt like no encouragment from your side left him feeling unwanted, so he went somewhere else to get attention aka. his new girlfriend.
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hey..I read your profile and i thought you could hepl me with this (plzzz)Well im gonna go short.In DEEPLY in Love with my Best friend but he has a gf.I reallly want to tell him how i feel but im scared:(.plz guys tell me what to do..i really really really like him.Do you think theres something i can do to make him leave her??or i dunno plz just hepl out:'(
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i just got over a guy that i had about the same problem with. the first thing you have to ask yourself is does he like you back? and also do him and his girlfriend love eachother. if he likes you back then i say tell him that you like him and see what happens, but if he's inlove with her there's really nothing you can do but wait till they break up. so good luck
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I have liked this guy (C) for 3 months exactly. I liked him and my crush for him just kept growing more and more. We talked, flirted, stared at each other a lot. Walked the halls. I was like oh my gosh hes the one! And I loved coming to school every day, and I could tell his style was getting better and so was mine. This was going on for 3 months. Then this week after spring break, he totally ignores me, DOESNT even look at me. I mean he looked at me once thats it. And hes being a show-off in front of me. I cant stand it. What is wrong with him?? Does he hate me now? I didnt do anything wrong? And the worst part is he asked out this girl right in front of me. So now my situation is worse. I dont want to go to school anymore, I still LIKE him. And I hate the fact that he's not talking to me. I tried talking to him but he just gave me the evil eye, and walked away from me. HELP ME PLEASE!! I wont give you a 5 if you dont. I REALLY NEED HELP. this whole week was the worst ever! :( (link)
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i've had this problem in the past, what it is is that i think he's trying to make you jelous... or something like that... anyway what you have to do is ignore him, make him know that you don't need him... flirt with other guys and he'll either come back to you or you'll get over him
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so me and my friend are in a somewhat of a relationship right, shes a girl and well i know i like her alot and she likes me well im not sure how much. but i know she does and everytime i go to kiss her she dosnt kiss me back, like not make out just kiss on the lips? i dont do it often just because i feel so awkward that im making her awkward. so what should i do? (link)
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you should try teasing her a little bit to get her into kissing you. just go in for a kiss then look away and say o wow look at that... or something like that... basiclly all you have to do is go in for a kiss then pull away
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Okay befor we get started i just wanna say i think i should get this advice from a guy cuz they could probly answer thsi better vuz im a girl so here it is Hey i am a 13/f and i have a biiiig problem or at least to me its big. Okay well i have a major crush on this guy gray at my school and he is soooo cute and i have known this guy since like i was three and we are good friends and from what i have been tolled he likes me to but all i wanna know is how am i soposed to tell him i like him thats what i need help on i dont know how to tell him that i like him can you give me advice on that???? and one more thing how do i kiss ????
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you should just go up to him and tell him you like him... guys don't like it when girls beat around the bush. so just get him away from other poeple and tell him ^_^.
as far as kissing goes, just do what you feel is right and kind of imitate what the other person's doing
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Hey, so my bf and I don't make plans with eachother too often, but when we do he doesn't show. Like we planned to go to a dance together and that day I was talking to him and he randomly said I am grounded today. And I didn't even think that he wouldn't go to the dance because he was grounded. We weren't even like talking about the dance when he said he was grounded. So he didn't show up at the dance, and I was all alone. Then he said he would go to my basketball game, and he didn't go and when I called him his excuse was he was grounded. Then we were going to go to a hockey game and I called him twenty minutes before the game to make sure that we were still on, and then he was like oh yah I can't I'm grounded. So I was pissed because he wasn't even goining to call me and tell me that he couldn't go. And on top of that I asked him for his cell phone number and he wouldn't tell me. It's not like he just didn't tell me he won't tell anyone, but what is up with that. He won't even tell his best friend his number. But he told me that he loved me, and is planning on kissing me. Am I missing something??? We are going to the movies this weekend if he stands me up again what should I do I really like him. People say that I should have already broken up with him.
HELP!!
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i've been having a problem very very similar to this latly... all i can say is that i think he likes you... but he doesn't know what to do or he might feel akward with you for some reason so he cancels.... sorry... that's the only guess i have
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so there's this guy i really like... but i don't really want to have sex with him... but i already told him i would... so now i don't know how to tell him that i kinda don't want to... should i just tough it out and do him or what? please help (link)
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don't have sex with anyone unless you're 100% sure you want to, especally if you're a virgin because you can really only make that decion once...
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14/f ok so my bf like won't make a flippin move!! its been a month and a half and he hasnt even kissed me yet. and im not that into making the first move and we have talked about him making a move cause im alot shyer then him ...im like pretty much known as the shy girl unless your my close friend then i never shutup and im that way with him so yea. but anyways do you have any other casual ideas of trying to get him to make a move cause i have tried everything.. ive talked to him about it, i had his friend talk to him about it and i have no idea what else i should try please help!! (link)
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move in for a kiss... but don't kiss him! it leaves poeple wanting more when you do this, so if you do it then he should think about kissing you more and more untill he finally does
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my boyfriend recently moved about 3 hours away. he comes back and visits every two weeks. and his next visit is on his birthday. i got him a nice shirt from abercrombie, a necklace, cologne and a little build a bear i made for him. i have everything i need i just need a cute way to give it to him i dont want to just be like oh here you go-his birthday is on april fools day if that helps any (link)
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something that i've done in the past with my friends that have birthdays on april fools day is
1.)tape preasents to those little prank things that jump out at you when you open a jar of peanuts, then the person's pleasently shocked. 2.)put gifts in bigger and bigger boxes, that way the person gets really really annoyed... especally if inside all the boxes there's a tiny box in which is a peice of paper saying that you hid the presents or something like that hee hee
hope i helped ^_^ and thanks for writing me!
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Hey everyone, i just recently got a boyfriend, and he wants me to give him a bj. this is my first time and everything, so if anyone could like tell my everything that would be great. Thanks so much! (link)
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suck lightly... he'll also help guide you and he should tell you what feels good and what doesn't... but the main thing to do is just keep your teeth away from his stuff!!!! it would be horrible if you bit down or something! gwosh... the pain!
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I go with this guy who is totally sexual (lol) and of course i dont mind because, hey, I am too. And so me and him joke about stuff ALL the time, but nothing has actually happened, you know? I figured he'd be the guy who would kiss me faster than anyone, but nothing yet, because I know that he's alot of "all-talk" as people say, and really values togetherness and getting to know one another. I LOVE that about him, I love everything, but I think it's about time we had our first kiss, and I'm not sure how to go about it. It's not like either of us are shy, but I don't know what to do really. (link)
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kiss him on the cheek... if that doesn't give him the idea that you wanna kiss then go in and kiss him on the lips the next time you see him. and if he still doesn't reply just grope him or something! lol! he'll come around.
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I really like this guy and he knows but he said I'm not ugly he just dont want a gf right now, and hes not really aloud, but he does anyway! but i dont know what do do I'm not sure if i know what love is but i think I'm in it...
What do i do?♥ (link)
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just get to know him really well, be his friend, hang out with him more, and stuff like that. and when you do hang out go in for a kiss and pull away, it really gets guys interested, he'll come around.
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Well i have this best fired and i used to like him a year ago and now i find out that he thinks that i like him again how do i get him to know that i dont like him? (link)
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first off, does he like you? because friendships really don't work out with guys that like you, trust me.
okay so to answer your question, just tell him that you don't like him, it's pretty simple, and can avoid sooooooo much confusion
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15/F
I have dated this boy on and off since the fourth grade. He was my first everything. Well we were together for 6 months and I broke up with him, but I still have strong feelings for him. Sometimes I think he has feelings for me but I don't know. So 2 weeks ago he came over and we started makingout but thats it then this weekend he came over (our parents are best friends) and he didnt say anything to me. He got me something for valentines but I havent gotten it yet because it snowed and I didn't see him. I can't read him because he always says he loves me but says he doesn't want a girlfriend. Does he mean he likes me and really doesn't want a girlfriend or what is he doing? Please help
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guys just say stuff like that, hell girls do too. may be he's saying that he loves you as a friend... not more... but if you tease him (like going in for a kiss, then turning away) he'll start to like you because you'll seem more like you don't like him.... which attracts guys, just play it cool and he'll come around.
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I am leaving town, without my boyfriend. In the first place I was not in love with him but things got serious on his mind. I am not leaving on having a long distance relatioship and I dont wanna break his heart. Help please? (link)
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tell him just that. thell him that you really like him... but you don't know if it would be fair for either of you if you had a long distance relationship.
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ok well my ex cheated and hes with the girl he cheated on me with..
& on my myspace i have this boys initials to make him jealous and he keeps txting me saying 'oh ur desperate you told me you didnt like him when we were goin out' and i was just thinkin why would i actually tell you if i like a guy when were goin out. but like why is he bugging me? he told me he didnt care and hes 'GLAD' that i found a new guy. and was like ok if u didnt care why would you text me talking crap anyway? helpp :/ why is he doin this if he 'doesnt care' and has a gf anyway! (link)
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he probably still likes you and just isn't manly enough to admit it, don't worry though, just don't think about it and it's bound to work itself out.
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20/f
Finally, I dare to make a move by giving hints to the guy whom I love few months back. And when he realised it, he asked me whether is it true that I actually love him. Obviously, I said "yes" to him and in another way round I wanted to know his answer too whether he loves me anot by being so caring towards me. The thing is he loves me but he told me that he will not be a good boyfriend for me. He told me that I can find a better guy than him to be my boyfriend. I felt so sad and hurt at the moment he said that even though he loves me. What does he meant by he loves me but he will not be a good boyfriend for me? Is he rejecting my love towards him? Few days later, he started to avoid me as though I am invisible in front of him. What should I do now? Does he have a very low confidence about himself? (link)
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he's probably been in some relationships and he's really messed up. some guys really love people but they always cheat on them. belive me there are lots of guys out there that can say you're their everything and turn around and cheat on you on a weekly bases. anyway, whatever the case is he probably thinks you're to good for him and he doesn't deserve you.
you should thalk to him and tell him that you're gonna thin he's a great boyfriend... untill he proves you wrong, and askk him if he wants to go out with you.
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