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breakup/make up
Hey, so my bf and I don't make plans with eachother too often, but when we do he doesn't show. Like we planned to go to a dance together and that day I was talking to him and he randomly said I am grounded today. And I didn't even think that he wouldn't go to the dance because he was grounded. We weren't even like talking about the dance when he said he was grounded. So he didn't show up at the dance, and I was all alone. Then he said he would go to my basketball game, and he didn't go and when I called him his excuse was he was grounded. Then we were going to go to a hockey game and I called him twenty minutes before the game to make sure that we were still on, and then he was like oh yah I can't I'm grounded. So I was pissed because he wasn't even goining to call me and tell me that he couldn't go. And on top of that I asked him for his cell phone number and he wouldn't tell me. It's not like he just didn't tell me he won't tell anyone, but what is up with that. He won't even tell his best friend his number. But he told me that he loved me, and is planning on kissing me. Am I missing something??? We are going to the movies this weekend if he stands me up again what should I do I really like him. People say that I should have already broken up with him.
HELP!!
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Tell him how you feel about him making and breaking these commitments, and see if he seems genuinely sorry. If he does, give him another chance. If he doesn't, or if he just keeps blowing you off, you should break up and find a guy who has time for you. Good luck!
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That's the problem with guys these days, THEY ARE BUTT-HEADS! lol random. But he probably likes you hes just afraid to go places. I dont know guys are weird. If he said he loves you then it makes no sense for him to not like you. He should like you i think he does. Hes just a little weird. Maybe hes afriad your gonna call him constantly or maybe his phones dont work. He might really be getting grounded. Ask him about it. If hes mean then just get rid of him. But that's my opnion. He has no right to be acting like this. You can do better if he is lieing.
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i've been having a problem very very similar to this latly... all i can say is that i think he likes you... but he doesn't know what to do or he might feel akward with you for some reason so he cancels.... sorry... that's the only guess i have
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well if your boyfriend really loves you he should give you his number and should give you a prober reason why he didnt show up.to me it sounds like he is just using the ascuse of being grounded maybe he was before. but all the time?
if he doesnt show up at the movies then you have to tell him that you cant continue going out with him if he doesnt make an effort to show up and then he might start showing up.you probley will find it hard to say that to him but other whys he will just not show up and he will say he was grounded.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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Maybe he just doesn't like sports.
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Sorry, i'll be more of a help. Maybe he just doesn't like YOU.
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