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Ok. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 and a half weeks. We really really love each other but I still dont know if he wants to kiss me yet... Well my friend asked him and he said he wants to but I dont know how he would react if I did kiss him... In a situation if hes at my house, when do you think I should kiss him ? Or at the movies or somthing? when would be the right time?
13/f
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my advice to you is to go for it, i mean what is the worst thing that would happen? and if he told your friend he wanted to kiss you than most likely he won't mind it. some guys are shy at first and he may just be afraid to make the first move (which means your gone have to make the first move or nothin will ever happen.) maybe kiss him when he arrives at your house, tell him your glad he could come over, give him a hug, look into his eyes and give him a kiss (you can always start by giving him a kiss on the cheeck if your to shy to kiss him on the lips.) if you don't want to kiss him when he first comes over and you can find the right time to kiss him while he is over you can always give him a kiss good-bye when he leaves (he'll prolly even leave wanting more!!!) :)
at the movies just cuddle with him and learn over and give him a kiss. here are some links to kissing tips that may help you:
http://www.articlebiz.com/article/7423-1-kissing-tips-make-a-kiss-more-passionate/
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing/
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
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hey =)
okay i like this guy ..uhh lets just call him D =) soo i used to stare at him a lot not because i liked him (cause at that time i didnt) just because he's hot , loud and you cant miss him. and maby that got him to like me cause then he stared at me a lot and so i also started to like him. so we used to talk and everything but once he got into a deep conversation and i was nervous and i've been a little weird (not really mean i just was like : yes , no , maby) yeah okay and than he told me he loved me and THEN i was mean i was like : whatever
and i know that was mean so about i dont know a month i finally got the courage to talk to him again and i called him and appologized. but he was weird cause then HE was like in a yes , no , maby kinda way =/ so yeah we ignored eachother again. and a couple of days ago we where on the bus he was walking right by be me singing =D (that was funny) and then steped back and gave me high five and also smiled. so i thought everything is okay again but now the next day everytime i looked at him he looked away and he flirts /talks about other girls really loud when i'm around. so what does that mean? whats going on in his head? and what should i do?
thx i'll rate and sorry this was long
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guys give us (females) such mixed signals don't they?? i just hate it! it is hard to say what exactly is going on inside his head and the only way you could ever find the truth out is by asking him. yeah that sounds dumb and i'm sure many people have already told you that but it's the only way to figure out what exactly he is thinking. my guess is that you might have turned him off/away from you when you were so called "mean" when he told you that he loved you and maybe because of that he is scared/shy to open up to you again because he doesn't want to be let down like he was last time. he might also be the flirtatious type (which many guys are) which means he just naturally is a big flirt (with other females as well as you.) if you are the shy type and don't want to ask him what is he thinkin my advice is to spend more time with him. maybe give him signals that you are into him, call him and ask him if he wants to meet up with you at the mall or a movie, or just ask if he wants to spend time with you during lunch (at school) that way you might be able to feel more about what he is thinking with out asking him. another thing you can do is tell him how you feel and open up to him, if you open up to him first he might follow your lead and be more willing to open up to you and tell you how he feels. good luck with this!!
Hope this helps!!
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14/f
Okay well I have this guy friend and...Ok so he’s not just a friend were A LOT closer than that but the prob. is he’s moving away...really far and I know I’m going to be sad and all but also he’s older than I am…not sure if I want to say or not how much so this way people cant be all on my case about it but its not like a bad age diff just something some people wouldn’t like is all. But yea I guess my question is if we should try and keep our "friendship" or just tone it down and be friends…because do long dist things work really? So yea thanks for your help! =)
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My advice to you is to tone it down and be friends. I have done the long distance thing many times, and let me tell you it is hard. Unless you think you can really make it work, i would stay friends not "friends". Long distance means you also have to trust him as well, do you think you could trust him to keep it real with you? And remember age is nothin but i number (since i was 13, im 18 now i was always talking to men who were 5-6 yrs. older then me... nothing wrong with it, just be careful and don't let yourself get hurt emotionally.)
Hope everything works out with y'all and hope this helps you!
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((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much shit.
any suggestions on what i should do?
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i feel you on this.. trust me i do! i had this problem a lot when i was younger because i was always dating guys 5-6yrs. older then me. my mom thought the same thing (that they just wanted sex.) however, she was more open into meeting them and getting to know them.
Heres what i suggest:
Sit down and talk with your mom, explain to her what you just said in your question. Suggest compromising with her. An example of this, maybe you could have him over for a "family dinner." or you could all go to the movies together one night. Show and prove to your mom that you are ready to handle a relationship without having to get sexual. I know that sounds bad but make the best of it. My point is that maybe having "family outings" with your boyfriend will allow your mom to get to know him better and see what he is all about. This will make your mom a lil more comfortable because she is there with you. After a few of these "family dates" maybe your mom will trust you and allow you to go out alone with him. Suggest this idea to your mom, see what she says.
Hope this helps!!
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14/f if that helps...I have two questions,
1.) What are some good techniques for making out with someone?
2.) What is a good way to avoid bumping teeth while making out?
thanks
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Here is a link that may be helpful:
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
It gives tips for "good kissing"
*Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
*Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.
And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
*Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
*Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
*Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
*Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
(THIS IS ALL TAKEN FROM THE SITE!!)
The site also includes kissing tips onto different "kinds of kissing" (french kissing, suck kissing, nip kissing, and suprise kissing)
HOPE THIS HELPS!
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I tend to flirt with alot of guys. I think its because Im very un-confident && it makes me feel better about my self but also it opens more opertunities relationship wise. The problem is that If one of them asks me out then it feels weird to me being in a relationship and also the guys get mad at me.
I haven`t been asked out but the guy that I fell deeply for is starting to talk to me again && its making me think that what if I do end up throwing all these other relationship possibilities away plus the friendships i have gaind for him && he ends up just using me or something.
I guess my problem is how do I choose one guy to like. But by choosing one guy what if he doesnt like me && i have no chance with him!
what should I do? I cant stop flirting because I do "like" all of these guys a little bit. I just kno ill get screwd over when one of them becomes serious && end up having a relationship
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Ok mz.pimpette u sound just like i was (a couple of yrs ago) i feel you when you say you like the attention from all these guys. you first gotta ask your self are you ready for a relationship? if your having so much fun with all these guys why settle for just one? if what you want is a "real" relationship than your gone have to chose just one of them (i kno it sucks huh?) get to know each of them better than make your decision. Don't hang around with the other guys once your in the realtionship (it's hard at first but you'll get use to it.. eventually!) And make sure to let all these other guys know that you do have a boyfriend (once you chose one of them) and ask them to respect that. Remember if things dont work out between you and the guy you choose there are many more guys out there you can hook up with. hope this helps!
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