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Well, I'm 15 and I live in the North East of England. I like to go to the cinema and shopping with my friends. I like web design, and chatting on MSN Messenger.

I like to think I am a good listener and can give good advice. I also like to think I know what I'm talking about when I'm trying to help people, as I have had experience in loads of difficult or weird situations.

I also think I'm friendly and easy to talk to. My friends would probably agree with me on that one :)

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ok.. how many of you think its possible to love at 15? i kno there's girls on here and guys that say they love their bf/gf. but do most of you take it as "puppy love?" i think it is possible. bc see my bf now.. ive been with him 9 months and i lost my virginity to him and the thing is my mom and family dissapprove of me and him together... because hes black n im white. but i still go to see him and he comes to see me at like the park and stuff and we hang out. and im 15 and so is he. i mean i kno this may sound stupid but i really can see myself with him forever. like i dont want to be with anyone else. i kno i love him and not that fake stuff. i would do anything for him. i kno u all dont think i kno what love is bc im so young but thats ok. but i do love him with all my heart and i would die for him... but how many of you believe that u can love someone at 15?
id like to hear ur comments. ill rate. thanks..
Manda

i do believe you can love someone at 15, because i've been in your shoes. i fell in love when i was nearly 15, and i have been in love with him for 7 or 8 months now, even though we're no longer together.

as for the family disapproval, you need to talk to you mom about it, and tell her exactly how you feel for him, and make sure she knows how much it hurts you to think your mom disapproves of something you love so much. also your mom is being racist by being against this relationship, so try explaining to her that you don't appreciate her being racist.

maybe she will see how mature you are being about the situation and change her opinion.

good luck :)

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well i really need help ..well theres this boy nd lets call him "carl" so i started likin this guy nd i told him nd i found out he felt the same way but longer for him so we talked nd he was so great so we finaly wen out nd omg he was so great nd i realized i was fallin for him nd then a rmor went around that he had cheated nd he said it wasnt tru but all the signs are right there nd im pretty sure he did it but i think he relaized it was worng nd didnt want to hurt me nd then the day i found out i was cryin in skool for the rest of the day .. so i call ready to break up nd he gave me this crap bout bout he didnt do it nd i sorta beleived him nd it took a while to put it together but that same day i found out .. this girl had been tellin him i had been flirtin wit other guys .. but i didnt .. i got him to beleive me then his firned told him i broke up wit ihm nd he beleived it .. we atill talk nd he tells me how much he loves me nd he wants me bac nd then one of my friend kary was akin if he was goin to ask me out nd if he did i dont kno wat to say .. i really love him but theres one problem .. i moved nd he lives 15 minutes away which isnt that long away but we go to different skool nd i dont kno wat to do if he does cuase i really love him wit all my heart .. please help me ..

i rate goood!!

it seems like "carl" does regret cheating on you, if he did do it. and it sounds like he does like you but was upset when he was told you'd been flirting with someone else. i think if you's were prepared to forget the past and try again it would work a lot better. but the distance thing, it doesnt sound like too much of a problem if you's are willing to make it work. but sometimes couples drift apart when they don't see each other that often. so to make sure that doesnt happen, make sure you see each other regularly :)

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Well. I'm 14 and I have been madly in love with my neighbor ever since I moved here when I was 9. We write each other e-mails and we sometimes talk on the bus and stuff. He's 18 and he's going to be a senior this year and I'm going to be freshmen, many people that are freshmen date seniors so I don't think its the age. My mom said that he's probably just waiting until I'm older cuz I'm young but I dunno. He knows I like him because my friend would always yell out the window to him that i was in love with him. He asked me last year if he wanted to get a ride to school with him everyday this year, and I said yes. I really like him alot. Should I tell him? Or should I get a friend to ask him stuff?! I dunno what to do. PLease help!! I rate!!

*amy

it sounds like your neighbour likes you too. i think he's trying to drop hints by asking you if you want to ride to school with him. i'd suggest you talked to him about how you feel, and see how he reacts. he'll probably tell you he feels the same but was too shy to tell you. good luck! :)

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dont think i'm weird but all my life i've looked at girls and never thought it was weird but now i might think that i acually like girls as well as guys but i'm not sure what to do?(i'm a girl)
i dont wanna be sean as weird for liking the same sex but i think i acually do its weird....so should i react on these feelings or just supress them and not do anything for fear of rejection?

there's nothing wrong with looking at people of the same sex as you. maybe you're just going through a phase of comparing yourself to other girls? or maybe you are feeling attracted to girls, and if you are, there is nothing wrong that. being bi-sexual is perfectly normal and isn't something to be ashamed of. i would recommend you try talking to someone you trust about your feelings. maybe your mother or a femal relative? they'll let you know that it is normal and you shouldn't be worried. maybe you will grow out of it, but maybe you won't, but whatever happens, don't forget you're not weird! :)

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