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Okay im 13/f i live in michigan. and i cant seem too firgure out if this guy likes me!!! He flirts with me all the time. and i just dont know.. He has a gf.. but idk. we seem too talk all the time when we hang out. I just dont know. Pleaaaseee help me! I dont know what too do! Thanks..
-Please help me
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He either wants you to stand on the sidelines or he's trying to see if you're better than the girl he has now.
Don't flirt back with him if he's got a girl, that's not cool. How would you like your boyfriend flirting with some girl? And think about how you would feel if the girl flirted back, knowing that you were his girlfriend.
Wait for him to be single, don't let him string you along.
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well i was dating this guy and then he broke up with me then we got back togther 3 times.
The third time he told me that he likes someone else.i kinda of freaked out but didnt care after awhile.He went to dallas for a baseball tournament and while hes there he meets this girl and they go out and they have known eachother for about 2 days.she gives him a handjob and they makeout all the time.im not a total slut so i wouldnt do that with him.he wont talk to me but when he does he acts like im not important that im just some dumb girl. i want to get over him so bad but its really really hard to. no matter what he does to me i still want to be with him.how do i make him feel what hes done to me? (link)
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Maybe you should work more on yourself and less on the revenge. The answer is pretty simple, pretend like you're not interested in him, like you don't care, quit calling him, don't answer his calls for a while. It usually works. People normally want what they can't have. If he can't have you, he's going to work on hooking you back on. It'll drive him nuts if you resist. Don't be fooled by his sudden kindness when he starts to see that you don't care.
He's probably looking for someone who will put out. If you're not that kind of girl then you should really watch out for his type.
Most boys, like 98%, will put you on a pedestal to look up your skirt.
Don't put up with bullshit, and doubt everything he says until he proves himself worthy. Make it harder for him to reach you, otherwise he'll more than likely treat you like garbage.
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We talk some at work. But I stoped talking to him completely when he took me off of his friends list on myspace and then when he deleted my comments. That really hurt. And he wasn't answering my phone calls or messages. But he would talk to me at work. Small talk. "Hey" join in when i'm talking to other people, say goodbye when I was leaving, things like that, But outside of work you know it's like....*SILENCE* you know. HAHAHA. I'm glad you feel that way about the whole making that chick jealous and everything cause I know that dude love his family and he know's their racist cause we talked about that before we even went out, and he put a lot I mean A LOT of stress on that mariage to the point where he told me he didn't even know if his parents should be together and he thinks his dad hates his life and his mom is tired of hearing the "N" word and all of that you know. But when he wrote that song about his parents being hypocrites I knew he was feeling me you know. I just don't want to say fuck it if this guy might be my soul mate or something cause we fit you know. we fit. (link)
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I hate that sarcastic little headline at the top of the comment box every time I go to reply to you. "You brilliant answer:" Pft, my ass. AHAHA. I'm so mean.
Anyway...
I can't believe he deleted you and your comments. That doesn't make any sense. Hmmm... I'm sorry I have to leave soon >.<
Does his sister or any of the racist family emebers have a myspace? Because he could have done that so they wouldn't see you guys talking.
Look, if you want you can contact me on myspace if you have one.
www.myspace.com/39244092
my email for myspace if you want to search for me is sandra21091@yahoo.com
I promise we'll talk more. :] This whole thing is interesting but I can only get online at work.
Talk to you soon!
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Well I know that his sister came all the way from like an hour away to meet him at work and tell him that what he was doing was tearing the family apart and that his dad might disown him. He was crying in my car and really disheartened about it and everything. At that point I told him if he wanted to end it he could but I and one of his sisters and his cousin and some of his friends said he should follow his heart, But his other sister and her husband said they refused to bring the children around and be exposed to "it" which is crazy to me. The thing about it is that the day that he was supposed to talk to his dad about it was the day that he callled me. And I had just left his house that morning at about 5 in the morning. I really want to talk to him but I don't really know how to get the truth out of him. I really want to know like, what could I ask him, how could I aproach it? I actually fasted for a dream and I dreamt that it was his dad that was the problem and he really had strong feelings for me. I'm wondering if he had to take my stuff off of his myspace because of his racist sister and her husband. They sent me dirty hate letters in a message, do you think I should tell him that? (link)
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I don't think you should tell him about what his family has done to you. They could deny it and it would make you look bad to him. It's amazing how manipulative people can be.
It sounds like his family has major problems. You could always try prying the answers out of him but if he's not talking to you, it could be because he's trying to get over you. You just never know what's going on in his head.
If you really want to play it safe and he still isn't talking to you, you could always just not talk to him and see what good it does. Give him space maybe?
I mean, if the family is THAT freaked about it, you might just be better off staying out of the picture anyway. I'm sure you're better than the kind of person who puts themselves in the middle of bullshit like that. Know what I mean?
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I already asked this question earlier and got some feed back but I wanna put it back up at the top and see if I get some more oppinions before I develop my own conclusion...
Info: Ok I am 23 and he is 19. We are both artists and musicians. I am black and he is white. Question: I had a crush on this guy at work. Turns out he had a crush on me too. He asked me to date him exclusively. I said yes and we did. He told his family that we were going to be dating and they flipped out because 1/2 of them are racist. We talked about it and decided to work through it. We didn't have sex but we did make out and mess around some, shared some private goals and beliefs etc. Then he calls me after we spend the night together, the day he was supposed to talk to his family and work something out, and says that he isn't as interested as he thought he was. He says we should be friends, but then he stops calling and talking and everything. Then I hear that he was using me to get this chick at work jealous. But he doesn't seem like a malicious person like that, and I think he loves his family too much to take them through that for nothing.He also cried on my shoulder and wrote a song dude! About our relationship and situation. What do you think? What is going on? (link)
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I don't think any guy would think it's worth it to stir up half of his family and create a giant mess to make some other girl jealous. That excuse sounds completely redic.
It really sounds like you guys were kind of close for a little while there. It seems weird that he won't talk anymore.
Do you think his family has something to do with it? You think he could have given up or maybe been forbidden to talk to you...?
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im only 13/f
and i think i want to be bi
is it to early to make a decision like this? (link)
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I don't think it's too early at all. Just keep your options open, don't make anything definite. You don't want to confuse anyone.
Also, be careful with who you tell.
I had a big problem with that when I thought I had decided that I was "Bisexual".
Hah... it's been 5 years of pondering for me and I STILL don't know. So don't rush it, you'll figure it out.
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i just broke up with my bf of 1 year and 2 months. it started out that i was really annoyed with him and all of that but now i think i made a mistake..this is not the first time this has happend. before we broke up then got back together because i thought i liked someone else..i dont know though i just cant stop crying and why is it now that i realize how good he was to me. i cant help but think that if i keep going back to him then breaking up with him that it just isnt meant to be..but i still love him. now we never talk but he talks to my friends like nothing is wrong and i hate that. he acts like he dosnt even care that we have broken up and that really hurts for some reason. There is also this other guy that i have been talking to and we both really like eachother and are planning to hang out but not like jumping into things just hanging out(he dosnt go to my school). but he is out of town right now so i cant talk to him about how im feeling like usual ..I guess my question is should i go back out with my ex or how do i get over it..this is my first long term relationship so i dont know how to get through it. (link)
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Heh... This can be complicated. No fear, I've been where you're at. Dude, seriously, if you find him to be annoying, no matter how many good times you've had, he just might not be the right one for you. And if you've given him more than a chance or two, it's probably time to leave him.
I don't know the whole situation or anything but if you're crying, it could be because you don't like feeling the rejection.
If I were you, I'd stay single. Just shop around. Go talk to the guy that's out of town when he gets back. You two should hang out so you can get the feel of him, know what I mean? If you don't like the guy that's out of town right now after hanging out with him then go back to the "long-term" guy and see what you two can work out.
Hope I can help.
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