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hey guys this is stephanie! i think it would be fun and interesting to see how my advice helps everyone. people have told me i am a good advice giver and i hope i am too. so ask me anything and i'll try my hardest to help you! I may be going thru some of the same things as you, so by you asking me i can find a way to help you and help myself at the same time. So if I don't answer automatically give me time and i'll answer it.
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Hi.
My friend likes this guy, right? And this guy likes another girl. The other girl doesn't like the guy, and so there's this whole love triangle thing goin on. The other girl likes this other guy. And all of these people are friends. What should my friend do?
Wow...That's confusing. Um let's see here...Does your friend know that he likes someone else? If all these people are friends then there's going to be some harsh feelings no matter what happens. Some people might end up happy, and others will end up disappointed. If something is meant to happen between your friend and the guy she likes, then something will happen. If your friend wants to find out if there's anything going on between her and this guy, she can tell him she likes him, or just talk to him more than usual, he might get the hint that she does.
I hope this helps some. Lemme know how it goes.
how much do u love ur best friend Arielle?!?
tell me now bitch! nowww!!! hahaha
hmm...i might needa think on that one for a lil while..haha JK! i love arielle lots and lots and lots and lots and lots...i could go on...but i don't wanna. lol but i love herrrr!! haha
okay well im 14 and like ive been going out with a guy for a year now and its getting to be a little boring in a way. so i really like dont know what to do. i like him a lot but we have done everything and talked about everything and there is just nothing left and he is getting really boring. ive been doin stuff with other guys behind his back because i really want to break up but i dont kno how. just like what should i do?
If you really want to break up with him then just start talking to him and bring up the fact that you don't think you want to be with him anymore or something. I haven't been in this situation before so I don't know what you should do. But if I was, then I would talk to him and just be calm about it. I don't think you should be doing stuff with other guys behind his back even if you don't want to be with him anymore, he still cares for you and trusts you even if you don't feel the same way. Hope I helped...lemme know how it goes!
well i have gone out with a few guys this year and there is one that i went out with and my and his friend have become very good friends. well me and my EX never talk anymore and i was just wondering am i putting their friendship at risk by going out with him?
Much Help
I don't think you're doing anything wrong or putting their friendship at risk. I think friends should accept who their friends date. They shouldn't stop being friends with someone just because of the person they're going out with. If your ex can't accept that then he is jealous and can't accept the fact that you can like someone else other than him. Lemme know if you need anymore advice. Hope I helped, lemme know how it goes!
how do you ask a girl if they want to cyber with you?
um...i guess you ask her? I wouldn't know, and I'm not big on the cyber thing..so if you want a more detailed answer i sugest you ask another colimnist
hey.. ok well see i have a boyfriend. hes awsome and i love him.. but hes always telling me that im his life and all this other stuff.and he says he never wants to break up. but next year hes going to a different school and i know that alot of what he says he probably doesnt mean cause we dont find true love at this age.. and he wants to get married and stuff. but my parents wont let me till im 20 or so. and hes says hes willing to wait. and idk if i should belive what hes telling me or not. cause alot of people tell me hes not right for me. etc. and they dont want us together. so what should i do. stay with him.. or break up with him.. i want to belive the stuff hes saying is true cause its really sweet. but im afraid to get in to deep and get hurt. help..
at this age girls can't really believe everything a guy says, a lot of their actions are made by peer pressure or wanting to be better than their friends. there may be the occasional one that really loves you for you, but we can't think that every guy we go out w/ does. if a guy this age wants to get married...that's a definite sign he's no good. you can't be ready for marriage at this age, you're just not ready. when you're yong you need to be with different people, not jsut one for a long time, b/c then you'll feel attached and you won't be able to let it go when it's really over. once you get really attached it'll feel like your world is falling apart when you can't be with him anymore. if your friends don't think he's right for you, they may be right, sometimes your friends can see something in a guy that you can't see. so take into consideration what your friends are telling you, it may help you. it's a good thing you want to believe what he is saying, but you can't always do that, if you believe everything, he can start taking that for advantage and end up really hurting you. i'm not going to tell you to stay with him, or break up with him, do what you think is right for you. hope this helps your problem, lemme know if you need anymore advice
hey,
ok...i think i like this guy...wat kind of message does it send if i ask if he has aim? i don't want him to think i like him...wat do i do?
also, i seem to always like guys that i don't get to see! it's so annoying! so then i really end up "liking" them for like 2 days. cuz i never get to kno them! wat should i do?
Well I think the answer you send is, you want to be friends with him, so you're trying to make it happen. Unless he's wierd and takes things the wrong way, he won't take it as, you like him and want to talk to him more, or something like that. We are in our teenage years so we're going to end up liking a million people at one point, so I guess it's normal for you to only like a guy for 2 days, b/c it's junior high and we don't see eveyone all the time so it's not a big deal. Hope I helped you some!
well....i kinda like this guy. i see him every day..it's different cuz i usually don't like guys i see. i talk to him in front of people, but i dunno how to just start a convo w/ him. we were friends like in 2nd grade...lol. strange i kno.
thx.
just walk up to him sometime and act yourself. pretend it's one of your best friends and just start talking. he may be shy and not know how to start a conversation with you either. this might break the ice! if that doesn't work, bring up one of his intrests, like baseball, football, basletball, etc. if he's really into any of that it should get him talking! hope this helps! steff
Well Steff... i like this guy and i have liked him for a while its just that i dont really know if he likes me! he asked me out last year and im just so confused about what to do! PLZ HELP ME
well if you really like him try spending some time with him and talking to him. and occasionaly drop a hint you still like him. if he sees you still like him he might ask you out again. hope this help you!