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hey.. ok well see i have a boyfriend. hes awsome and i love him.. but hes always telling me that im his life and all this other stuff.and he says he never wants to break up. but next year hes going to a different school and i know that alot of what he says he probably doesnt mean cause we dont find true love at this age.. and he wants to get married and stuff. but my parents wont let me till im 20 or so. and hes says hes willing to wait. and idk if i should belive what hes telling me or not. cause alot of people tell me hes not right for me. etc. and they dont want us together. so what should i do. stay with him.. or break up with him.. i want to belive the stuff hes saying is true cause its really sweet. but im afraid to get in to deep and get hurt. help..
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at this age girls can't really believe everything a guy says, a lot of their actions are made by peer pressure or wanting to be better than their friends. there may be the occasional one that really loves you for you, but we can't think that every guy we go out w/ does. if a guy this age wants to get married...that's a definite sign he's no good. you can't be ready for marriage at this age, you're just not ready. when you're yong you need to be with different people, not jsut one for a long time, b/c then you'll feel attached and you won't be able to let it go when it's really over. once you get really attached it'll feel like your world is falling apart when you can't be with him anymore. if your friends don't think he's right for you, they may be right, sometimes your friends can see something in a guy that you can't see. so take into consideration what your friends are telling you, it may help you. it's a good thing you want to believe what he is saying, but you can't always do that, if you believe everything, he can start taking that for advantage and end up really hurting you. i'm not going to tell you to stay with him, or break up with him, do what you think is right for you. hope this helps your problem, lemme know if you need anymore advice
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