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Hey.
My name is Sara.
I am 15 and a Sophmore.
I live in Texas (never move here, it sucks haha.)
I am a pretty simple girl. Little things make me happy and I am almost always smiling.
I like to give people advice...So if you have any questions just ask. =)

advice

Theres this girl that I met on myspace. We match we have the same passion, shes for god I am too. And I try to call her 3 nights ago she never return my call. I left a messege I know she got it. So what should I do I really like her and shes in my city I dont have to travel to meet her.

Hmm...Well, I would say your either wasting you time with this girl or she's just too busy. If you know she got your message and she didn't reply then your prolly wasting your time but hey, you never know. I would just send her a message and tell her how you feel. You got nothing to lose. Good luckk.

Hope I helped. =)

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Theres this girl that I met on myspace. We match we have the same passion, shes for god I am too. And I try to call her 3 nights ago she never return my call. I left a messege I know she got it. So what should I do I really like her and shes in my city I dont have to travel to meet her.

Hmm, I would say your either wasting your time with this girl or she's just busy. If you know that she got your message, then your prolly wasting your time. But hey, you never know. Just send her a message and tell her how you feel. If her feelings are mutural then she will come around.

Hope I helped. =)

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my boyfriend's a really bad kisser, but a wonderful guy. is there any way i can suggest for him to change his technique without completely offending him?

You take the lead. You don't even have to tell him that way.

Hope I helped. =)

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Ok my boyfriend and i are ready 2 have sex and neither of us are virgins but instead of plain sex he wants 2 have a threesome at first i was okay with it but then he went and asked my best friend if she wanted 2 be the third person and she said yes and i have always known that she had a crush on him but i never cared until now and i dont know if i should Go through with it now i have no problem with the threesome but having my bff in it i dont know and i dont know if this is her way of getting 2 have sex or give head 2 him but i just dont think i should Go through with it now can somebody pleez give me advice and thanks in advance(f/16)

Don't do something that doesn't feel right. And deff don't do it if you think that your best friend might have a crush on him. Follow your heart on this one. I think you will find the right answer if you do.

Hope I helped. =)

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okay so me and one of my really good guy friends just started going out. everything's going great.. except our phone conversations. we never really have anything to talk about. can someone give me things that we can talk about (not like: how's the weather. more personal.) thanks.

Well, what I do to get the conversation flowing between me and my boyfriend is I just start talking about random stuff. Like, what I am doing this summer or this weekend. Or even silly questions like, What kind of shampoo do you use? I mean, those kind of questions will keep yall busy talking without just silence. If you break the silence first then yall our most likely to go deeper in yalls conversations with more personal stuff.

Hope I helped.

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Me and my boyfriend thought it would be nice to have our song...so we choose The Truth by Good Charolette ...do you think this is a good song ?

Yupp =)

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how do you get over a crush that probably may not result in anything

Talk to other guys.

Try NOT to think of him.

Look at the negative things of him instead of the positive things.

Eventually you will get over him.

Hope I helped.

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Please someone help me.. I have been dating this girl for 9 months and 14 days today.. We have been doing really good lately.. But she is one of those girls who wants to talk to me CONSTANTLY and believe me i like it.. But sometimes it can be to much.. She gets mad at me when i want to go anywhere with my friends.. But the other day i told her she was to attached.. And i didnt mean it i was just mad because of how she kept getting mad.. But now i feel horrible because i have hurt her in the past.. And i love her more than anything in this world and i hate myself for hurting her.. Can someone please tell me how to appoligize to her and make it better. But dont say to tell her that i said it out of anger or to just appoligize because i have already tried it.. We used to fight alot because of how she would get mad.. But that is over with now.. And now she is scared to talk to me alot because she dont want to fight with me anymore.. And told her thats not the way to do it.. I know she loves me i can just tell she does. .But i dont know how to make things like they used to be.. Someone please help me..

Aww you sound like a super sweet guy.
Well, being a girl and everything if that happened between my bf and me I would want him to talk to me. But I guess she doesn't so have you thought about writing a letter to her? Just write down all you wanna tell her and give it to her. It's worth it. I mean, what do you have to lose.

Good Luck. I hope everthing works out good for you. You sound like you to sweet of a guy for it not too. Hope I helped.

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okay so ive had a boyfriend for 7 months now..and lately every little thing he did was starting to annoy me, so i knew it was time for a break...he still really loves and cares about me though. He's 15 and i just turned 17 and he won't be 16 till April...so that kinda turned me off a bit too. the thing is is that i really like 2 other guys.. both of them used to like me...but once i started going out with my now ex, one of them, "bob" started going out with another girl. and the other one, "Blake" has a kid and lives two hours away...
okay Blake....
the night before i broke up with my bf Blake came to see me... he told me that his girlfriend broke up with him 2 days ago... and he kept making suddle moves on me the whole night, but i didn't lean in for a kiss because i STILL had a bf... it's been a week since he came to see me and he hasn't called or texted.. but i really like him..... some of my friends think he used me just for a rebound, some of my other friends think that it was just a coinsedence and that hes just really busy. I personally don't understand why he would drive 2 hours just to rebound, when he couldve found another girl closer...
now Bob...
bob used to like me...but he didn't tell me until i asked him if he did... and i had just started going out with another guy. I liked bob too....now bob's being a jerk and we're both REALLY mean to eachother... but you can tell that we hate being mean eachother if that makes any sense at all....

i like them both... but i dont know what to do...
i guess:

1) do you think its okay to text a guy if he doesn't text you back or would you sound to desperate and should u just wait for him to text you?
2) how do you ask a guy if he likes you without asking that direct question?
3) what are some things i could say to bob that hint around at me liking him but don't sound slutty cuz he does have a gf?
4) Was Blake just using me for a rebound?
thanks.

1) Text him and ask him what he's doing. It won't sound desperate at all. But only text him once.
Maybe he just hasn't had time to call/text or whatever.

2) I don't know about this but I would just go ahead and ask it. I mean, what do you have to lose.

3) Just tell "Bob" that you like him. Don't play around because you could send him mixed signals and that would just be bad.

4) Not if he drove that long to come and see you. He probably just hasn't had the time to call/text you. I am sure he has an explanation.

Good Luck. I hope I helped.

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this really isn't a confusing drama story, it's just long. please read!


alright here it goes. i've been hooking up with this guy for about a month, and a few weeks ago he asked me out and i said yes. i immediately regretted it. i don't know why, maybe i'm afraid of commitment (probably not because i'm only 15) but i feel like i'm using him for experience. don't get me wrong, i do like him, just sometimes i get so many doubts about him that i get this sinking feeling, feeling like i did the wrong thing by going out with him, like i'm in too deep now to get out of it. the main problem is that i feel like i'm using him for experience and i feel like sometimes i have to force myself to like him, when other times i truly do like him and i feel like i would never break up with him. what do i do?? should i wait it out a little longer, just till the end of the school year? i change my mind so much about him that i feel like i'm gonna make the wrong decision by breaking up with him if i do..and he's been hurt so much in the past that i don't want to be his next girlfriend to hurt him. please help :(

You should't stay with him by only using him. Don't do it. And if your gonna break up with him, do it now. Don't wait beacause if you do, it's only gonna be harder on the both of you.

I hope you make the right decison and good luck.

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okay so i reallly like this boy in my class, and i;ve known him since like 2nd grade. and we are in 7th grade now. So he found out that i like him and he still acts like he;s my bestfriend and stuff. but idk if he likes me or not! help ):

When I first read this, I was like OMG. I have liked this guy since 3rd grade and I am now a freshman. I was like deff in love with him. Like serious. He would flirt with me like really bad but only liked me as a really good friend when my other friend asked him. I now have a diff bf and I still see the guy I have liked for along time every day. But have kinda gotten over him. Haha. So what I am trying to say is, I know exctly what your going though. And if I could do it over again, I would just straight up ask him if he likes you or not. Cause if you don't, you could be wasting your time.

Hope I helped =)

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i want to hook up with this guy at the movies. i have hooked up before but never like sitting doen facing the same direction as the guy. how do i move my body to hook up with him? if he puts his arm around my shoulders what do i do next? how can i get him to kiss me?

Just go for it.
Take chances and make the first move on him.
If he puts his arms around you, then smile at him and let you know you like him. To get him to kiss you, well if he likes you enough, than more than likely he will make the first move and kiss you.
And if you find out he don't like you, then remember there is always plenty of guys out there that would be happy to be with you =)

I hoped I was helpful.

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