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Q: I like this guy, and we talk all the time but as friends. i mean we flirt alot and stuff. we used to tell eachother we liked eachother and we used to hook up alot (this was lke a week ago) but thenhe hooked up with this random girl on an act of drunkness. we still talk and stuff alot but not the same way, and we only hungout once since then ( other than school). i want to get over him because i see him as a different person now, but its hard becasue i always think of the time we spent together and stuff. he is freaking everywhere i look and we hangout with the same peoople. but i want to find another guy, but he seems like the only one im after. HELP me get over this gggguuuuuuy :(

Hey!
Well you've told him before how you feel, so why can't you now?
Maybe he's shy because he feels bad for hooking up with another girl and he may think you don't like him anymore.
Ask him what is up and whether he still likes you, straight out. You'll be glad you did and you have nothing to lose!
If he doesn't like you anymore and he tells you, it'll be a good kick start to just go out there and find someone new!
Good luck xxx

Q: see, i have a boyfriend..but i think somethings up with him, ever since his good friend started liking me, hes been acting weird lately, he usually talks to me all the time, and sits with me too..i asked my best friend..and of course she went over to him and he said she needed some space.....I dont get it..please help me understand this whole situation!

Hey!
Basically, you're boyfriend is jealous that someone else likes you. This is perfectly normal, and you should feel pretty flattered.
However, you should talk to him about it and say you need to know what's going on.
Reassure him by letting him know that you like him and that you want him and no one else.
Make sure you talk to him yourself and if he acts odd, ask him what is up.
You shouldn't be left in the dark, so talk to him!
Good luck xxx

Q: okay..i asked a question a few days ago listing everything that makes me think that the kid i like likes me back..everyone who answered said that it was obvious. now..my best friend is supposed to ask him who he likes..he keeps forgetting..but he will..eventually. i want to hang out with my crush a couple times before i tell him..but my weekends have been booked. so my question is..should i

1. wait to tell him after i hang out with him eventually?
2. wait to tell him after i find out if he likes me or not?
3. both 1 and 2?
4. just go for it.

also, finding the right opportunity is also a problem. when i do tell him..how should i go about it?

Hey!
I think you should just go for it. Guys love confidence and if you show that confidence he'll be jumping for joy!
Maybe he's been wanting to ask you, but been to shy.
After all, what have you got to lose!
Good luck! xxx

Q: Hey i have a problem with my boyfriend. He's sweet but hes immature and it gets on my nerves cause i dont have patience. He would be a great guy friend but if i break up with him i dont think he'll want to look at me like that. My best friend is also with my boyfriends older brother and they dont get to see eachother unless my best friend is at my house because she lives 45 minutes away from me. i ALSO like one of my boyfriends friends. I cant help who i like, can i?? What should i do?? I dont want to keep my best friend and her boyfriend from seeing eachother.

Well, it looks like your in a bit of a dilemma.
There's nothing you can do if you don't like this bloke apart from tell him the truth. It will just hurt him more if you hold out any longer.
It doesn't mean that your best friend can't see his brother, because when she comes round, she can go round to his herself.
I know this is hard, but do not go to the exes friend. At least not for a very long time.
You could split up friends, and that is not nice at all!
Think about what you do carefully first, and if your really sure, ditch your boyfriend, but do not touch his friend for a looong time!

Q: i like this girl at school but i dont know if she likes me should i use the direct approach and aske her out or tell sum1 else 2 do it for me

Hey!
A girl like a guy with confidence, so don't get someone else to do it for you! Maybe some subtle flirting first would do the trick. Tell her you like the clothes she wears, or the way she does her hair..and then tell her that you like her.
Compliments are the way to a girls heart, so flatter her!

Q: OKAY I REALLY REALLY REALLY NEED HELP! so anyone who can help PLEASE DO=]

OK so here my PROBLEM - how can you really flirt with a guy (by the way im 13 hes 15) if you ONLY see him on fridays; ONLY FRIDAYS! and you have his sn, and tlak to online. also, you have his cell number but never call.

ps- i like him vvery much, so i cannot give up just liek that, and ive known him for about ayear now so please help me. i reealy like him and i dont know what to do.

Why not text a flirty message? Or put something in ur sn that is a giant hint!
Everytime you see him, just drop little hints here and there, like "I like that shirt your wearing." Something like that.
Find out what he's into and then talk about that, if you bring stuff up he likes, he'll know you've been thinking about him!

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Hey my name's Bex, I'm 16 and I'm from the UK.
I'm a very outgoing and bubbly girl, but I never used to be.
I've been through a lot of things, from an alcoholic parent, to drug abuse, sex abuse and attempted suicide..So, if there's anything you want to ask, don't be shy!
I wanna be a counsellor some day, and this would really help.
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