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ok i am going into 7th grade and i am worried if guys lik me cuz when i was in emementary skool everybody didn't lik me wat should i do?>

plzz help me

This is so close to what happend to me, when i was in elemt. no one liked me i think i had like 2 friends. but middle school came and i got boyfriends and girls that were friends, and if a guy likes you in middle school, it really isnt much. take it from me. dont worry middle school relationships dont last long, just go out with him..if you want to thats the best advice to give. =)

hope it helps
good luck
♥ tay

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theres this girl. i can not stand her! shes sucha bitch. well tonight she went to a party and kept talking about it and rubbing it in my face that i wasnt invited. well she came back and was talking about how she was gonna go out with my ex boy friend. that got me REALLY mad. she didnt even like him. and she said shes gonna check with her friend (also his ex) if she can go out with him (she doesnt even like him). i SOOOO mad. i mean i dont even like him anymore. maybe deep down i do but i really dont think i do. he was really sweet to me. he said im pretty and smart and said he loved me and was really really nice and huggy and stuff.but he dumped me in a week. i dont know what im feeling. dont like him but i still do at the same time. i dont even know what to say to that bitch thats gonna break his heart. im sorry for the length but please please help.

its about to be a what??? girl fight.
sorry i couldnt resist.
anyway.


this witch isnt ms beautiful, her shit smells like everyone else's but she just wants it to smell better then yours....ok anyway. shes jealous you obviously have something she wants...shes most likely insecure just laugh, and agree with her, she will hate it more.


hope it helps
good luck
♥ tay

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This may be a little long...Sorry.. but i really need to know what was meant... So.. The other night I was at my boyfriends house we were laying in bed watching a movie... and his friend showed up... and then his brother came in and was watching the movie with us... Well then they all started talking about getting their new cars.. well my boyfriend and his friend.. and his friend said that him and my boyfriend could pick up chicks.... well my boyfriend was like no way.. Ive got mine right here... and put his arm around me... well then his brother said that all Kevin (my boyfriend) would have to do was have me with him to pick up chicks.... So my question is... Was he saying that I'm Hot... Or was he saying that I was like a lesbian or something... I was really confused by what he said..

he wasnt complimenting or insulting, he was pretty much saying you were a destraction, that kevin could still have his pie and eat it too, saying he could still have you but you wouldnt be his main focus, dont worry all guys are rude.

hope it helps
good luck
♥ tay

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I have a hard time getting a boyfriend. I'm not sure if it's just me because i have a lot of friends and i'm pretty nice. I dont get it!!! Any advice to get an HONEST and SWEET boyfriend???
I'll rate high for good advice.

well to get a honest and sweet boy, you will need alot of money, and a space ship and go to mars,THERES NO SUCH THING if you find one,hes just joking...usually. since there is no such thing at that. But in a place where there is a good guy that would be honest and sweet,caring and kind, im sure every girl would like that. Now for my advice ♥- to answer your first question yes it is hard to get a bf,if your starting a new school, your first year will be perfect, first year no one knows who you are, you are bound to get atleast 4 bf's, it doesnt matter if your nice or not,if you have alot of friends or not,just make sure if your bf doesnt like your friends hes not a good bf. trust me.

hope it helps
♥ tay

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so i was at the park last night with a couple boys and my best friend. well, this one guy named josh came and sat really close to me and then put his hat on my head. he pretty much only talked to me, and was the only person who'd let have some of his drink. when he left he gave me a hug for a couple minutes. we flirted a whole lot before he left. my best guy friend who was there and my best friend both think he likes me. i dont know what to think. could you help me?

yeah he definatly is either a player like all guys or yeah a good guy. i think he does

hope its helps
-tay

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well you see . theres this guy i really like and i have for like . hmm forever! and hes kinda weird and flirts with everything that walks on two legs.

doqs? lol
well just hide yur leqs
nd` run lol jp
qive up
no hope
its a doq :\
throw him in the POUND lol


thx m
-tay

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ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?



oo..same thinq happend 2 my friend
14-18
they waited nd` a few weeks ladurr it was off
she did tell hurr dad it to0k gut kuz the both
told hurr dad 2qether...true luv :)

hope it helps
-tay

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He is kind of overwieght, but sweet and fun to talk too. I really feel happy around him, and always try to talk to him. But at my school he is regarded as a geek, or a nerd by everyone. And I think he likes me too! I'm not quite sure I'm ready to date, but how can I have him keep liking me until I am?

f he truly likes yu nd` yu truly like him then tell him this

'{HIS NAME} i like yu alot..i dun relli think nows a qood time furr me 2 b in a relationship,but i stil like yu i relli dun want 2 hurt yu..or loose yu as a friend im truly sorry"
or write him a note or sumthinq

hope it helps
-tay

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there is guy who loves but don't want to marry me why

o im srry this qot bak 2 yu so late...
well 1. have yu seen his pic?
yu mite even want 2 hear his voice im not tryinq 2 sound neqative but usually qivinq a person info...is not the best thinq yu dun kno f hes qunna kill yu :( so b carefull nd` f he wants 2 "expand thinqs" mayb he wants 2 c wut he kan do wit yu (not killinq yu) mayb he wants 2 c f yu have wut he needs usually sum quys like better thinqs its hard 2 understand..but just qive him time..over time just casually brinq it up at dinner or sumthinq nd` say "what do you think about marriaqe?" nd` f he starts complaininq just say ok qrab his hand nd` try 2 so0th him
hope it helps
-tay

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I am in love with my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me and is well and truly over me and I know that for a fact, so there is no chance of us getting back together. We're still friends and alot of people know I still have feelings for him and people have told him but I always deny it when he asks me. There is no point in me telling him how I feel because he doesn't want to get back together but he keeps asking me if I still have feelings for him. I want to tell him the truth because I hate lying to him but it might make things uncomfortable. Should I just tell him?

awwwwwww......i have the same thinq..i luv sum1 ... but he hates me l0l lol lol ne way

just tell him..f he truly doesnt like yu talk it over nd` f yu R ronq nd` he does kuz quys hide thurr feelinqs qood..but ne way mayb he has a lil spark or sumthinq furr yu still...nd` soon that spark mite bkum more l0l

hope it helps
-tay

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they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?

1. f yu never found that person..y would it say thers somebody out thurr fur every1 l0l but ne way....yu usually kan tell when alllll yur thouqhts r round him,everythinq yu think of either beqins or ends wit him or his name nd` when yur away from him the only place yu want 2 b is wit him!
-hope it helps

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this guy likes me, hes nice, but i dont like him and he thinks i do? how do i give him a hint?

just say "yur a nice friend but its not thurr furr me rite now srry..kan we still b friends"

hope it helps
-tay

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Justin and I dated for like, 2 months and one week. We broke up because he said I couldn't trust him, he cheated. But he admitted it to my face.

Now, we both like each other again, after being broken up for about a month and still talking and stuff. He called me a couple nights ago just to talk, which he's never done before when we weren't together. He wants me to ask him out this time though, because he asked me out last time.

Should I do it? Or wait for him to? I mean I'm pretty sure he likes me, he's said it and he even purposely got kicked out of class so he could come see me (I got kicked out of class too, lol.)

awwww..puppy luv is alive lol just b4 yu do ANYTHING sit down nd` talk it out ... make sure hes qunna b commited this time nd` trust worthy..but make sure not 2 turn him off

hope it helps
-tay

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My girlfriend & I dated for 3 years and she was the love of my life. Well, I decided to take a job that I couldn't refuse in Michigan. I wanted her to move up there w/ me, but she said she couldn't leave her home in TX. The long-distance thing was too tough, so we mutually broke up on good terms. She then started dating someone new who she was "miserable" with. After over a year of staying in touch w/ her, I moved back home. A short time later, she ended up breaking up w/ the other guy b/c she wasn't happy. Well, we started slowly seeing each other again and things were great, but she wanted to "take things slow and not jump back into a relationship" since she just got out of a bad one. So, not trying to force her into a relationship, we just hung out and did everything that a normal 'boyfriend/girlfriend couple' would do. Well, after a few months of dating each other (and me thinking that we were gonna get back together), she met and started dating a new guy! I WAS CRUSHED!!! Here was a girl who was my best friend, someone I thought I was going to marry, & the love of my life........and now she wants to date this other guy out of the clear blue?!?!?! I was devistated. She's still together with this guy.
Now, it's months later. We still talk (fairly often) via email and sometimes on the phone (I NEVER call her...she only calls me), but I'm still not over her. I truly loved her w/ all of my heart. Part of me hates her for ripping my heart out and the other part of me still loves her very deeply and wants her back. Someone told me "if it's meant to be, then she'll come back to me one day". I just don't know what to do and I need help..... Any advice?

awww darlinq lol...its a the "cat nd` mouse" a second the cat is yur friend next hes tryinq 2 kill yu l0l but yu have 2 explain even f it makes thinqs a bit diff..sometimes yu qotta do wierd thinqs 2 kno who truly luvs yu..yu mite not no...she mite still luv yu 2

hope it helps
-tay

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theres this guy who likes me and i like him. at lunch he was trying to like get his leg up against mine (according to my friend, she said he was sitting awkwardly and thats what it looked like, but shes only like 95% positive) anyways, he kinda kept kicking me so i was like "you keep kicking me" like playfully and he just kinda smiled and was like "sorry" so now i kno what happened and i feel RETARDED for saying hes kicking me! should i like never bring it up again or what.....becuz i'm not for sure if he was trying to play footise or anything, ahhh i feel so dumb! what do i do!

first we all do it
second its no biq deal...write a note sayinq "im so sorry for sayinq yu were kickinq me yesterday...i was scared,nervious nd` shy i relli like yu nd` i think it would b kool f yu liked me 2..keep this hush luv yu -yur name-"

hope it helps
-tay

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Well I like this guy and he likes me 2 but he wont go out with me cause of my age and it hurts really bad 2 know a stupid thing like that keeps him away from dating me..(He`s in 8th I`m in 7th) and like I said he likes me I like him and its just a 1 year difference..Any Advice??

hm..touqh 1 but hurr qoes nuffin-
ask him y does aqe matter...since we both r in the same skool..we still will c each other at the dances nd` all nd` we kan qo 2 the movies nd` kall each other....
just bascly say how yu quys wud keep in touch
how yu kant qet him out of yur head
nd` how yu LOVEEEEEEEE him lol

hope it helps
-tay

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Im going out with this guy i really like but when ever we talk on the phone theirs nothing to talk about. I dontknow wht to do it can get akward. Im not shy im far from that anyone would say that but its just i cant think of anything to say can you help?

omq qirl i kno how yu feelinq heres wut i kan qive


start off by sayinq how happy yu r 2 have him nd` f yu truly luv him or like him say how yu kudnt bear 2 loose him
then mayb brinq up sports like the super bowl nd` ALWAYS SIDE WIT HIM like wit the super bowl
say he likes the patriots but yu like the eaqles yu have 2 choices
1. tell him yu like the eaqles sum quys luv modisty
or
2. say yu like the patirots kuz sum quys qet relli upset f yu dont like who they like
lol

f yu have nothinq 2 say
well say
im srry f i dont talk im doinq sumthinq (i.e- homework,tv,sims) yu kno l0l
or say
im srry im kinda shy but ill talk so0n

hope it helps
-tay

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hi im really confused because me and my boyfriend got into this really big fight and its all because he thinks i like this other boy and i kinda do but i dont wanna hurt him by dumping him because i really like him two and theres these to other boys i also like so this makes four boys that i like i dont wanna like that many but i cant help it there all soooo hot i only want one tho what can i do to try to just like one boy???

pick the boy who-
makes yu smile
always makes yu lauqh
yu feel yur self round

bkuz in the end l0oks dun madder
its wuts inside that brinqs true
beauty out (i kno thats relli corny but l0l)

hope it helps
-tay

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i went out with a boy for a lil while n i really liked him, until he dumped me n i found out he used me BIG TIME. im so mad at him n i dont know what to do to get over it

dont wrry bout it..f yur mad just dont show it nd` f yu need 2 qet over it..well...just think of sumthinq else..sports nd` f yu play sports just ask yur friends 2 qo 2 the movies wit yu..after a few movies l0l nd` a few baqs of kandy..im sure yur qunna b fine l0l its just a lil remidy l0l just a few friends nd` yur lyfes set nd` f this doesnt help tell me nd` ill tell yu sumthinq else

hope it helps
-tay

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ok, this will be my 2nd vday with my boyfriend and i want this one to be extra special. i bought him a bunch of candy already, might buy him a cd and i'm baking him cookies. anyone know any cute ideas for vday? please share...thanks

aww..dont buy him a cd...like a nice watch or sumthinq..quys qo nuts furr those thinqs..nd` A HUGE kiss lo0l
hope it helps
-tay

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