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I am just another teenager going through the sh*t everybody goes through. But let's blame guys! J/K!! Well, sorta! N/e ways! I hope I can help!
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Age: 15
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well i need help really fast! Me and This kid (well call him MaX) well we like each other alot.. but his ex girlffriend still lykes him.. and me and his ex are friends.. no one knows we like each other.. but i am not sure what to do.. stay friends with him.. or go out wit him and possibly loose a friendship ( i think she still likes him 2) ErR.. just helLp really fast (and Him and This girl he went out wit only went out for a weEk)
HELP!
sincerely,
in need of him! (link)
Ask your friend what you should do. Give it as an example instead of the truth.


Ok..i went sorta on this date last night with this guy i have been chatting on line with. My friend has met him so hes no harm. Well that whole night he would try to talk to me and i just didnt talk much. After the date..i got online and he didnt talk to me at all. My friend called me up a few min later and said i was really boring and didnt show my personality. Do you think this guy should give up? Or do you think he should let me have a second chance? (link)
I have this theory. And this is it. If a guy makes you unhappy for the first 3 REAL impressions, then give him up. But if he makes an okay impression in that time, then give him another chance. Moods of guys aren't very easy to see. They PMS too. So just stick to my theory and you should be okay. Keep me up-dated. Here's my email: independent_eyes711@yahoo.com
~Maygen~


ok so i find cute guys and all there all nice ya no evry girl wants a nice sweet one but no they act sweet for about 1 day thn want to have sex. im so sick of horny guys just doing this its so annoying. k help (link)
Guys suck!! I just got dumped because I "wasn't giving enough sexual attention" for him. So you can't really get rid of the guys that are extremely horny. So just stick to your standards and you'll always be happier!
~Maygen~


Does anyone think that sex makes a relationship, or that it makes a relationship better? Why or why not? (link)
No it doesn't.


So i met this guy, and by his looks he is definitely not my type. Infact, i dont go for guys out of my race. (He's still half white though). But he has an amazing personalility, all the qualities of a guy im looking for; he's beyond perfect. I want to ask him out, but the looks are bothering me. I know looks have nothing to do with anything, but even though i like him, i dont think i could do anything physical with him like kissing. Do you think its just because its in my head? And do you think a relationship can last even though you arent sexually attracted to them? Do you think i should just be friends or go for something more? (link)
Looks are something that's on the outside. If you really enjoy this guy, then you won't care what's on the outside. I know it still can bother you, but remember what's important. You like this guy a lot. And relationships can last without n/e thing sexually going on. I have a relationship like that right now! And the more you are with this wonderful guy, the more you will get used to the looks. You won't be bothered by them n/e more. So try him out.

Hope I helped!
~M


So there's this boy I used to see at school a lot. Now he works at a grocery store in our town. Only he works early in the morning. I've heard a lot of really good things about him lately. Everyone says how amazingly nice he is. And considering nice guys are hard to find, I want to have a fair chance at this guy. But he also has a girlfriend (so I've heard.. from a boy who likes me..)

So I want a chance at him, but I've never spoken to him before, never had a class with him, and I dont have the slightest idea how to approach him and what to say.

Any help is greatly appreciated. (link)
You're right! Nice guys are hard to find. So when you find one, don't let him go. Heres the thing, if the guy that likes you tells you about the guy you like then theres something wrong. Try this nice guy. Go for the gold!


well lately my friend has totally been flirting with my boyfriend.She knows she does it but she just shrugs it off.I hate it!!like we will be walking in the halls together and she will come right between us and rather close to him i might add.i dont wanna ruin our friendship, but me and this guy really love each other.we've been together through thick and thin.Please help me and i hope this wasn't to long. (link)
If your friend is picking the guy over you, then your friend is a bad friend. And maybe you should stick with your guy and then your friend will see the problem. Good luck!!


Hi,
I like this guy that one of my friends are going out with and she really likes him. I don't know what to do .should I be selfless and let her be happy or should I put my self first and take a chance on braking them up and losing a friend? (link)
NEVER PICK A GUY OVER YOUR FRIEND!!!! I know this for a fact! You can like the guy but you have to remember if you go out with this guy, who is going to be there when the guy turns around and hurts you. If you look at it that way, stick with your friend. Guys are gay anyways.


This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!
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"You're beautiful the way you are."


I actually have 2 kinda random questions. Number 1. How do you get to the music part of xanga? I can't figure it out.
Number 2. okay, right, i like hanging out with guys for no apparent reason, but for some reason, all of my guy friends always think i'm interested in them in a different way. Some even get mad when they find out i don't like them that way, i don't want to get into that kinda relationship with a friend. What do i do? (link)
Sit them all down and explain what's going on in your head. Then see what's going on in their head. You need to know what your friends are thinking so you know how to act.


i was messaging my guy friend today and teasing him about liking this chick i know. (he used to like her) he's like "i dont like her. i like another girl but i know she doesn't like me." i was like "ooooh who is it? whats she like? how do you know she doesn't like you?" he wrote back "she's amazing and wonderful in every way. i know he doesn't like me... coz it's you, babe." i was like OMG i SO dont like him that way. what do i do??? (link)
Just remain friends. Seriously, if you end up liking him, then maybe something could happen. If not, then don't worry about anything.




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