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ok well theres this guy and i think he is really cute and he likes me alot. well ive known him fot half of my life and hes like a brother to me. he keeps on askin me if i would go out with him and then i dont wamt to say no but i do and at the same time i want to say yes to him. i dont no what i should do plz HELP me

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If you go out with him and say you got into a fight or something and you break up, then you will possibly lose your friendship with each other. Talk to him about it and say what if we went out then broke up or something what would happen to our friendship? Then again maybe it would work out because they say that friends become the best of lovers. Just talk to him about it and I am sure that will help you both. Good luck!!

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Hi I really ned help! Ok well u know the shooting that happened in minnesota? Ya well me and my bf go to that skool and he was one of the victims! Ah! and he's in the hospital and they say he might die! he's in a coma and wont wake up! I strted freaking out when I heard his name on the list of the shot! They said he was still living but it was a 80% chance of dieing! He is the love of my life and I do not know what to do! Help me some one plz?

they say people can hear you even if they are in a coma. so just talk to him tell him everyone misses him and about how much you love him and you want him to wake up. dont say anything bad just think and say good thoughts. and pray pray pray that will always work so go and be with him! and dont leave his side!!

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Okay, so I'm 14 and I RALLY like this guy on my bus, he's 18 though. He told my friend that he thought I was hot, and I mean he is SAWWOOOONNN!!! I haven't talked to him much, but should I even bother? I mean, I doubt we'd go out, too much of an age difference but should I try to get to know him and stuff? HES SOOO HOT!!!

get to know him so more then go from there. if you decide to eventually go out with him it would prolly be best if you had parents permission. age isnt everything either!! good luck!

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is it stupid for me to want to impress a guy by wearing a skirt and do my hair good? i mean i really like him and i really wanna impress him. also, do u know of anything else i can do to impress him?

no its not stupid. looks aren't everything either. but just be yourself guys really like that.

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im trying to brake up with my boyfriend things just are differnt between us and i really have no clue is on how to do it i cant just go up to him i have tryed it and i frezz so yea if any one can give me answers it would be helpfull
by the way im 15/f

well theres plenty of things you could do. one is you could write him a letter explaning about how you feel and everything and maybe even ask him what hes feeling. tell him about things being different and maybe you could work some things out. if you dont feel comfy writing a leter try a email call him or even get one of your friends to do it for you. just get everything out because it will really help you.if you need anymore help just let me know

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i am like madly in love with my best friend. we've been friends for about 5 1/2 years. he's the coolest person ever and he is so nice and so cute and just generally amazing. pretty much everyone says he likes me too but i'm sort of afraid to say anything or make the first move. and if something does happen, then im afraid to loose the great relationship that we already have. help?

i've always heard the saying friends make the best of lovers. Maybe you should talk to him about it ask him how he feels and stuff. Talking about it always helps. Just go with your feelings and your heart things always turn out in the end.

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I'm 17 yrs old and me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months and i love her alot. i've been pouring out my feelings to her, tellin her how much i love her n everything, but i dont feel like she feels the same way.. what do i do? i dont wanna dump her cuz i love her alot..

First of all i think it's good that you tell her how you feel and your honest with her. Ask her how she's feeling and what she feels towards you. You never know maybe she loves you too.

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heyy! i wentout this this guy who was basicly my 1st real boyfriend..we broke up about a year ago, but though crushes and boyfriends have come and gone since then, i cant keep him off my mind! is it just a "1st love" kinda thing? i need help!

yeah its something like that. I was the same way with my first boyfriend. You will always have those feelings for them and always think about them I guess it's just kinda normal. But you will be ok.

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Well, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a long bit now. and everytime i see him i get mad at him, im bipolar so i think that might be the reason. and then again my parents are divorsing soon and ive been really upset about it, and really everything makes me mad lately. what should i do, no medicine..just i take it out on everyone lately

you dont wanna take medicine but maybe you should. Talk to someone your boyfriend friends anyone. They might be able to help you. I'm sorry about your parents. Everything will work out in the end.

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hey i need help really bad! i need help because i think i still have really strong feelings for my ex. i know he does to because he tries putting his arm around me and stuff but i tell him not to.. anyways the problem is we have been broken up for about 1 month and now i have a new boyfriend.i like him, but all the time i catch myself thinking about my ex... my new boyfriend is really great but he cant compare to the feelings that my ex gave/still gives me.. i dont want to mess up either.. can some one please help!

I know what you are going threw it's happened to me before and it sucks. The best thing you can do is forget about your ex. I know it will be hard and you might think i'm crazy, but eventually it will work out. You now have another boyfriend that is also good to you. Hope I helped you let me know what happens.

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Hey everyone,
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like 2 months now, and I can tell he wants to kiss me, but i dont know if i want to, he asked me before and i said no, but that was like a month ago, what should i do????

well he isn't using you. most guys would'nt wait around that long so it sounds like you have a good guy. Do what you feel comfortable with and if it helps maybe talk to him. Hope I helped you some.

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