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Hey its dave.... my love life sucks. I've only had one girlfriend that made me happy. As of now i'm in love with this girl and idk if she likes me the way i like her, but i reeeeeeally like her and i think about her too much. I'm a real emo person, and i want to ask her out, but i'm afraid of the outcome, cause if she says no i'm gonna be all sad and stuff, but i'll eventually get over it. I have no idea what to do (link)
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yeah my love life sucks too .. i never had a boyfriend but thats besides the point, hmm .. idk thats the thing about love, it hurts .. so y'gotta try but if it doesnt work out find someone else and im sure you will .. and ynever know she might say yes dont think so low but if she deosnt just move on .. life goes on ^_-
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ok i talk to this kid online.. we've never met before but he is soo cool and we flirt and everything and i kind of have feelings for him. i'v never even seen a picture of him before and he's never seen one of me.. but thats kind of one of the great things about it. we cant judge eachother on how we look or woah i cant like her, shes ugly. ya no wut i mean? is it weird to have feelings for someone like that over online? would it be weird to have him as a "boy friend" ?
please help so i can stop wondering! (link)
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well thats a good thing, it means you like him for his personality ^_- and not for whats on the outside, so no of course its not wierd to like someone over the computer, but to go out, thats the idk kinda part, i mean ya could but you never will "see" eachother if y'know what i mean, but its not bad at all that you like him bc ive liked people over the internet just bc they're personality can relate to mine!
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i cant find any guys that like me so i have a very low self esteem even tho i dont let anybody really see that. how do i find a guy i can cuddle with and talk to and to kiss me and like me for me? any ideas? let me no.
p.s. i am mature for my age so most guys MY age seem imature and idotic. maybe if i could get my self to stop thinking that i could see them better, they still dont see me tho. (link)
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omg sounds like me .. i can't find anyone for me .. and i think of myself as a ugly freak .. but you gotta wait for the right guy ... and y'cant really rush love ^_-
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ok heres the senerio .. i really really really like this guy. but the problem is .. i really have no chance with him. since the day i met him, iv liked him. hes so funny and nice and everything and he has a girlfriend. go figure. were not even the same age which also decreases the chances. i dont know what to do to make him like me. i really feel like i love him and i just wish he felt the same. is there anything i could do to make him realise how much i really like him and for him to like me too ?! (link)
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you can't really make someone like you .. they have to like you on their own, and if he has a girlfriend i'd stay out of it bc then she might get the wrong idea y'know? but maybe if they ever break up one day you should tell him that you like him and see if it works out, if it doesn't, then sorry =\
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ok, so im inlove wit dis girl dat's one of my sisters best friends and she says she likes me n'd all but i dont kno cuz im really in love with her .... yeeah .. help ?
- joe (link)
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you never know, she might like you and she might not, idk the best you can do is tell her that you like her and see what she says =\
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okay well this guy is ma best friend and weve been close 4 lyk a few yearz now nd we hung out the otha day n he was hugging nd kissing me a lot and touching me nd we were cuddlin nd i loved it. but he haz a g/f nd im inlove with him nd i mean INLOVE itz not juss a crush. nd he likes me but hes "inlove" wit his g/f, i dono wut to do! he told me the onli reason me nd him arnt together is cuz hes inlove nd he told me he thinks if the grl ever dumps him he wud fall inlove wit me, i reallli lyk him nd i want the grl to break up wit him! im so scared to tell him how i feel what shud i do? (link)
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you shouldn't break them up .. but you should tell him how you feel so at least he knows that you both have feelings for eachother .. that normally happens best friends of the opposite sex tend to like eachother, if he breaks up w/ his gf then sure go for it .. but don't rush him to break up w/ her or anything, he'll make his move when its time ^_-
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well i'm 13 and this kid that i rele like and i think likes me back whos like 14 said that he would go out wit me but he wants me to do "stuff" wit him....i dono if thats tha only reson he wants me to go out wit him but he makes it seem like he onle wants to for dat "stuff" wat should i do? (link)
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well if you really think he only likes you to do 'stuff' with him then defintally don't go out w/ him .. because boys will say anything to get something out of you, it could be a couple "i love you's" just to make you wanna go out w/ him for shit like that .. dont fall into their traps >.
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ok well im a guy that no girls like cuz i am ugly. all the girls around where i live r shallow. none of them like boys that have freckles, redhair, and very very lite skin. what should i think of myself? as an ugly person or a cute person juss ppl cant see that? (link)
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that doesn't mean you're ugly, and y'never know someone might like you but is afraid to tell you .. think of yourself as you .. you don't need to be cute or hot or w/e .. just be yourself and if it's not good enough for other people then to hell w/ them
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Hey ok...my friend goes out with this boi well ne wayz ok twice he had tried to like flirt and be like i love you with me but my friend found out and she took it out on me and like wanted to beat me up and each time we got through it well i used to be like her BEST friend but were close but still not that close..well anywayz..now we started talkin again as friends and he was tellin how much he liked me and he loved me more then i would ever kno...i mean i said i love him back and i mean im confused because i dont want me and my friend to be messed up again but im movin like 30 min away ne wayz but idk wut to do...HELP pleaz! (link)
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well you shouldn't flirt w/ him back if you know its gunna mess up your friendship .. never do that to your friends, remember friends come before guys no matter what, and shes going out w/ him so don't try anything flirty bc she`ll take it the wrong way and get into another fight w/ you and you wouldn't want that to happen..
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ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
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hmm .. if he only likes you for a blow job and that shit don't do it .. but y'know guys will say anything just to get "stuff" aha .. so you gotta be careful =\ i think 13 is WAY too young bc im 13 and i'd never do that .. just make the right choice, if i were you i'd say no .. he could be using you .. =\
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This guy that I really like, who likes me too is stationed in Iraq. I am just so worried for him! It scares me knowing he is out there. How can I calm my nerves and not think the worst will happen? (link)
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don't think about the bad things that can happen, think of the better things, think of him coming home and seeing you and try clearing your mind for a while ^_-
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Okay. i wrote the stuffing tha bra thing..let me clear sumthyn up.. when i was doing that i didnt know what i was thinkyng..i was so inlove wid him dat it didnt matter. I knoe tht it wus wrong and stupidd..and dat if he relle liked me he wuld have liked me for me..but wut shuld i do? bc everytime i go to chyll wid ma best friend i c him..so i always have to wear 2 bra's and tht relle sucks! and its not comfortable but i dont want to stop chylling wid ma friend. Its not even about the boy anymore..its about how can i stop? so i could go there comfortable?? (link)
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it would be hard to tell him that you were faking, so id just either wear a padded bra or wear clothes that are baggy like t shirts so that you can't really tell if they're stuffed, i think the padded bra would be the best way to go
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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant? (link)
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yeah, you could be pregnant, it is possible bc once you get your period and loose your virginity theres a chance of you getting pregnant =\
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im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do? (link)
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you should defintally wait till' you're older, or people will think of you as a slut, i'm sure you wouldn't want that..
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i like this guy at school ALOT and he likes me and he asks me out...but lets just say hes not the guy that all the girls go after...and when everyone found out that he liked me and asked me out they were like ew ur gonna go out with him? i know if i do go out with him people will make fun of me..and i really like him..should i just go for it? (link)
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honestly, screw what people think, if you love him and he loves you then go for it .. of course people are gunna say something because people are assholes ^_- sure go out with him and if people say something , im sure they're jealous bc they can't get a nice guy like that =D
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well thanks for answeingg the other one i askedd y0uu it was good advice but i really like him nd he doesnt like me s0o thats wear i dunn0o what to do ndd no1 will ever like me because im ugly ndd fat (link)
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im sure you're not ugly or fat .. and if he doesn't like you just bc of your looks then hes a total jackass .. you don't deserve to be loved for whats on the outside .. he should love you for your personality >.< boys these days i just don't get them .. im sure he'll end up liking you. ^_-
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i really realle like this kidd but he doesnt like me.. i like himm so0o0o0o0oo00o0o muchh ndd it gets really annoyingg because i always think about him nd stuff but he could careless if i died.. what do i do (link)
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well if he doesnt know you like him you should tell him and if he doesnt like you then hes obvioiusly a jerk and you should find someone who would care about you for who you are . and im sure he would care if you died, don't think so low ^_- .. hope i helped.
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I want to break-up with my boyfriend but everyone's telling me not too. He's a great kid and all, hes sweet, nice, cute, funny, and everything I should dream of wanting but for some reason I don't feel anything anymore. I really don't think I love him but everyone tells me he's crazy and obssessed about me. I really don't want to break his heart but I don't want to go out with him and not like him. I really want to stay friends but I just don't know what to do! Please help me, what should I do? (link)
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you should talk to him .. dont make it sound like y'wanna break up with him though .. like hint around .. yeah i am sure he really loves you but you cant just stay with him to make him happy, bc then you wont be happy .. try talking to him about what he'd do if you broke up w. him .. i hope i helped =\
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