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13/female...
I know it's hard for you guys to answer specific questions like this one if you've never met me or the guy i'm about to tell you 'bout. But thanx if you can give me your honest opinion on this, i'll rate you if your advice helped me!
Okay, so there's this guy I like. I'm on his bus. His locker's kind of near mine, and his house is within walking distance. We used to talk a whole lot last year, but we don't really talk to much now..I mean, we still do, but not as much.
So anyways. I have some signs that he likes me too. They are -
-when he passes me in the hall sometimes, he doesn't say hi, but he says "ew, it's you!" in a flirty kind of way..then he smiles at me.
-he always laughs when i try to make a joke or be funny
-one of his friends talks about me and the guy i like when i am alone with his friend (he just talks about conversations we've all had and stuff..nothing too important..)
-he always tries to sit near me on the bus, if he can. but sometimes he'll try to sit with his friends. Sometimes he even sits with me, but that was only twice.
Also- there are some signs he doesn't like me. They are:
-He flirts A LOT with other girls, not just me.
-He asks other girls if they like him (BUT NOT ME)
-He says he doesn't like me (my idiodic friend asked him one day! now he avoids me a lot, cause he has the right idea, that i DO like him!)
-He also tries to sit next to this one girl who I HATE (cause she's pretty and seems like she's perfect, pretty much everything that i'm not!)
-His friends and him talk about me sometimes, and they were calling me retarted and stuff..but that's just the way boys are lol
I'm SO sorry this is so long, but my real question is - do you think there is any way I can get his attention on ME and not other girls? Also - do you think he likes me and what can i do to get him to ask me out/what can i do to ask him out? Please help. Thanks so much! Like I said I will rate if it helped ♥ (link)
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a boy does the samething with me but hes just messing with you and hes your friend i think he doesnt have feelings for you but if he starts like flirting alot he probaly does
**Hope I helped yah
**5 pleaseeee
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So i hang out in the small quad by myself because i dont have any friends and i wear glasses and im 5'2" and kind of have these roll thingys on my sides. but i think im really cute. and theres this guy Todd and he is so cute. hes a senior and im a freshman. he plays football and baseball and hangs out with all the popular group. i really love to watch digemon and i think he would like it to only if we got the chance to hang out. do you think if i talked to him he would like me and ask me out and we could get married.
love molly (link)
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Dear Molly,
The chances of you going out with him are slim on a scale of 1 to 10 maybe a 1 soo no he is in a whole different world he has friends you dont
no offence
♥Amber
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i always screw up. I screwed things up with my best friend... and now my cuzin. ok heres my problem: My cuz likes the same guy i like.. except shes known him longer. He liked me and i told her i liked him and she said cool. i said what if i went out with him? shes like, "that would be ok." and when he asked i said yes. I didnt tell her because i didnt have the heart too.. its only been 3 days since we started and my sis opened her mouth.. and i guess she was crying and said i promised her i would never date him.. the thing is i did. but she claims she said it wasnt ok.. so did her sis.. but she did. now she hates me. I need help. should i break up with him even tho i really like him.. or what??'
help ASAP please
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You Shouldn't Break up With him you love him and she will soon forget about it and maybe you should tell her you really love him and you hope she can be ok with it Hope I helped you
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well yesterday I went to my friends and her bro who is a year older then us (I'm 13) started to flirt with me well she was getting ready(we were going to the mall)he like tryed to kiss me well hes super hot and I like him alot well then today he must of found my nimber he called and asked me to go to the movies with him well I said yes now tommorow we are going and he metioned on the phone he might try to kiss me agian I'm excited but nervous well can you please help me what should I do! I mean I really dont want to mess this up he is so popular too but he is the sweetest and hottest guy in middle school i think Im in love well should I metion something to my friend about this and tell her I really like him well please help first 4 answers 5's!!!!
Melanie (link)
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go for it girl just tell your friend your feelings! hope I helped
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ok i'm going to give you a little backround on my life. i met ben in 5th grade and i liked him a lot. then over the summer i didn't really like him. in 6th grade like halfway through the year i decided that i really like him again. i told his friends that and they told him. he asked me out a little while later. at first it was great. he was funny, and kind of sweet, in a really prude kind of way. then i noticed how weird he is. i mean he isn't gothic, he's just kind of punk, but he likes wearing black. and he makes some really creepy comments sometimes which make me wonder why i liked him so much. towards the end of our relationship we went to a play at my school together and he held my hand, but that's as far as we ever went. then i broke up with him towards the end of the year and his friends are telling me that he kissed a girl he met at a theme park the same day that he met her! i mean i was going out with him for like 3 months and...i dunno i feel kind of weird about that. and now i really like him again, he talks to me online and hes really funny! (link)
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well it doesnt really matter what he looks likes just that you like his personality if you like him go for it it dont matter looks just the personality
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ok wellmy bff is going out with this guy who is my frien well he came to my house to hangout and then well he started flirting with me and well i kinda flirted back on accident all of sudden he is makein out with me and i like kissed him back and he is really hot and i love him i have since like 3rd grade and so now he comes over and we kiss all the time is that really bad should i tell Alison (mi bff) ??????
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TELL HER
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ok this girl likes me. and i like her. but im in 9th and she is in 7th. is that kool ? should i go out with her. also she is hot lol all myu friends thing she is hot 2. (link)
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ok I Think you should go for it when i was in 7th grade i liked a 9th grader soo you should and I think you shouldnt go for looks in a girl do you even know her personality well go for it
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me n my boyfriend have been goin out for close to 3 months... but he gets mad at me for really stupid shit ... he got mad becuz i hung up on him wen he was ignoring me...and i am scared to say sumthin becuz im afradi he will take it the wrong way and break up with me... i mean he hangs up on me all the time!!! i ahve no idea what to do... it really bothers me... what should i do? (link)
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he doesn't sound like a very good boyfriend maybe you should talk to him and try to tell him how you feel about this or you could just dump him its up to you follow your heart and see if you really want a boyfriend whottreats you this way hope I helped yah!
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my boyfriend lives in illonois, and i live in florida
and he hates the phone... and his parents dont know about us.
so that leaves the internet, we both have school
and have church on sundays. that doesnt leave alot of time for each other, but breaking up is not in the question, i love him.with all my heart and he says he loves me too, any ideas? (link)
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well you might as well brake up with him because if he hates the fone he must be who he isnt if you met him online but if he moved there well you were together then idk but just dump him theres no use to not be able to talk to eachother
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ok...so i`m 13/f...i like 2guys! nd i have a problem with both of em! One of them...he lives closer to me nd could ride his bike down to see me nd stuff nd he likes me bacc! but he barely ever iMs me on aim i always have to give him hints nd sumtimes those dont even work nd he wont go out with me until we hang out nd stuff but when i`m free hes not nd when hes free i`m not!its suxxx!! nd the other guy....well mi best friend has a boyfriend but she also likes the guy i like whom likes me nd likes her! but the other nite we were on the fone nd he wus getting HIGH!!! i hate smokers druggies nd drinkers but i dont mind them as long as they dont do it around me er while i`m on the fone! nd he told me that the next day he wus goin to get drunk! but i like him a lot!but hes a jerk sumtimes too! sumone please help me
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Ok well the guy who can ride his bike to your house is soo the one you should pick omg who would want there bf to get drunk and high that guy is mean to you too soo hes not very nice try to flirt more with the boy you can also try to be available ask him when he will be free and ask him to go to the mall or something he's the best choice so dont even give the day and time to that pot smokin JERK!!! hopefully it will work out if not IM me AmberxoxoMarie and ill try to give you more advice hopefully you and that good kid hit it off and become a couple well hope i helped you hun Amber
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ok.. im 14/f and i know this guy that likes me.. and so does my best friend.. shes the one that wants me to go out with him.. but whenever its the 3 of us.. like if were at the movies.. she makes it so that she sits in the middle.. and i dont know how i can flirt with him if shes inbetween us.. and i dont know how to tell her that i cant flirt with him if shes always between us.. please help in any way possible (link)
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ok just be open before you go to the movies tell her you rele wanna sit by him and that she wants you to go out with him so you need to get a chance to talk and flirt with him that should help if not IM me on AIM Amber xoxo Marie
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How do I tell my parents I want to date? I dont want to flat out say it
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Just tell them that your getting older now and your more mature and responsible and you deserve the rights to go on a date I mean some of your friends have bfs right so explain that to them
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Ok me and my bro are twins... Im 14/f and My family always bugs me because were so close... I have a 16 yr old sister but we dont get along and they are so judgemental about it... They want me to always hang out with her and Me and My Bro Just get along way better and he has the coolest friends... ANYWHO my dad says i cant have a BF and my sister is 2 years older then me and she can... WTH this really sucks because i like my bros friend Cris and stuff but my dad wont let me have a BF... :( ive tried asking but all he does is yell at me and says i cant... HES REALLY strict so how can i get him to let me have a BF... He never argues with my sister about BF's and i always am told no you cant have a BF until your 17 WTH my sister is 16 and has one.... HELP!! (link)
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it sounds like your dad doesnt want his little girl to grow up he wants you to stay his little girl and thats why he doesnt rele care if your sis kisses a boy but if you did he would get mad try to talk to him say dad we need to talk and say dont yell please but ik you want me to be your little girl but you have to let me grow up sometime or I'm never gonna figure out stuff and learn from my mistakes you have to let me go can i please have a bf and tell him every thing you said in this column how yer sis is only 2 yrs older than you and its fine for her and shes sixteen and you have to wait til you 17 thats not fair at all soo try to talk to him and maybee he'll understand
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ok..i have this guy friend and he is really flirty towards me but i cant tell if he likes me or not..should i ask him if he likes me or should i get someone else to find out?((i like him))
thanks
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The same thing has happened to me b4 this guy i was rele good friends with him and he flirted with me all the time but he rele didnt like me i mean he flirted with everybody soo this guy mite be a majjor flirt or he does like you so I would just say to him Do you like me? and hopefully he wont be stupid about it!
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i want to have some alone time wiht my boyfriend, like in the house but his\my parents always keep checking up on us. any ideas? (link)
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Just explain to your parents that you are responsible enough to be with your bf alone and they shouldnt worry about it because you need your space and alone time well I hope I helped and hopefully they will understand you arent a little girl any more!
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ok.. here we go.. I am totally in LOVE with my ex boyfriend.. the only reason we broke up is because he went back home (to minnasota from newjersey) he's comming back durring the winter varation. I miss him so much! but i like this other guy who's about to ask me out.. but the thing is idk if i'm ready to stop thinking about my ex right now. but i don't wanna ruin my chances with this new guys.. wat do i do? PLEASE help! (link)
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ok well i think you should give this new a guy a chance because your ex is only coming down in winter and you will hardly ever get to see him so give the new guy a chance because he could be just as good as your ex or better!
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