me n my boyfriend have been goin out for close to 3 months... but he gets mad at me for really stupid shit ... he got mad becuz i hung up on him wen he was ignoring me...and i am scared to say sumthin becuz im afradi he will take it the wrong way and break up with me... i mean he hangs up on me all the time!!! i ahve no idea what to do... it really bothers me... what should i do?
Alpha345 answered Sunday August 21 2005, 11:28 pm: It really doesn't sound like he cares all that much about you. I mean if he is just going to hang up you all the time then turns around and gets mad at you for doing the same thing (even when you have a somewhat valid reason). Don't be afraid to speak up, because it is just rude for him to just hang up on your all the time and second he is your boyfriend, you telling all of us this just tells me that he doesn't really care. Speak up and say something because if you don't he is just going to keep doing it. If he is going to get mad at your speaking up againts him hanging up on you then you need to try and find a better guy, because that will just show the one you have now isn't worth it.
Razhie answered Sunday August 21 2005, 9:58 pm: You don't sound like you have a healthy relationship at all. Why do you want to be with someone when you are regularly rude enough to eachother to need to hang up?
You shouldn't live in fear of saying the wrong thing, or be in a relationship where that kind of nastiness is the norm. Find a better way to deal with your problems then hanging up and dump him if he can't improve his behavoir. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
sbloemeke answered Sunday August 21 2005, 9:20 pm: It's simple. Call him up and just tell him "I'm really sorry about that last call. I didn't know that you were still listening. I thought you were busy doing something else, and I had something to do..."
I'm really sorry to tell you this, but if he is getting mad at you a lot, I do not think that your relationship will last much longer. It's one of the latter stages of a relationship. Sorry...
-Steven [ sbloemeke's advice column | Ask sbloemeke A Question ]
lilmauler93 answered Sunday August 21 2005, 8:56 pm: Well, If your boyfriend is really going to act like that for no reason, then he isnt *the one*. You should tell him how you feel instead. Tell him that he shouldnt take everything the wrong way. Then tell him you love him a lot and wish he'd treat you a little better. But i hope I answered your question good. [ lilmauler93's advice column | Ask lilmauler93 A Question ]
o0xQTpiex0o answered Sunday August 21 2005, 8:49 pm: he doesn't sound like a very good boyfriend maybe you should talk to him and try to tell him how you feel about this or you could just dump him its up to you follow your heart and see if you really want a boyfriend whottreats you this way hope I helped yah! <3 [ o0xQTpiex0o's advice column | Ask o0xQTpiex0o A Question ]
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