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nO oNe kNows d ReaL gIrL in Me... nO one can UndeRstanD me dAt weL.. NO oNe KOws waT i reaLly FeEl and ThInk.. nO onE caN preDicT me.. But it doEsn"t mean dAt I LiVe in a daRk WoRld.. my life is brIghtEr dan d SuN.. ITs moRe cOlorful dan A CanDyLand..

I cAn bE d MoSt haPpY peRsOn in dIs wOrlD aNd wiTh OnE bLink i can Be The most loneLy perSon uLl eVeR sEe...

BuT nO i"m Not d ReBel kind of gAl.. nevEr once in My lIfe dat I ThOuGht oF coMiting SuIcide.. mY liFe's Too PreCious to be WaSTe JuST bEcaUse of d WoRsE cRaps of Lyf..

i can RiDe watEvEr TrIp u Have In mY mind.. weDer iTs d gOoDy2 sTuf.. oR d EvIl Ones.. But kEeP in My Mind.. I'Ll onLy rIDe wIth U If My ConsCience wIl rIdE with me and GuIlt wil Be LefT behind...

iCan Be D AnGel dAt cAme iNto Ur Lyf aNd maDe evRyThing ryT.. BuT i can alSo be d EvIL Kid hu CaN maKe U R LyF mIseRaBle.. aNd dis tYm My coNscIence myt EVen be My FReNd Hu wIl hElp me Plan...

im A gIrl thAt trEasUres My LoVe OnEs So Much.. eSpeCialy my TRUE frEnds.. FrEndS Hu CaN KeEp UP wIth me and Hu wILl nEvR LeaVe mE aLone iN d Dark.. FrEnds hU wiLl Olways bE aT mY bAck ReADy to cAtch Me eVerYTYm I FaL.. LUcKY me.. I Ha VE diS kInd OF FRenDs.. fReNds HuLl OlWayS b true..

IM a GaL HUs aFraid To HuRt a PeRson.. AfRaid to cAusE HaTreD to oDers.. BUT im jUsT a HuMan.. AnD ONcE U hURt Me and anyoNe tHat i LOvE.. I'Ll NeVEr ThiNk tWiCe To HuRt U...

Im NoT uR tYpical gal..

im Not D OrdInarY Kind..

YeS I aM EXtRaOrdInary..

BUT iM Not PErFEct..

E-mail: romaema@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: philippines
Occupation: student
Age: 14
Member Since: July 27, 2005
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Last Update: August 9, 2005
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i have a boyfriend and i luv him so much and i never want 2 let him go but i dont think he knos how much i do luv him..how could i tell him?
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dont tell it.. show it...

++extraordinary, but not perfect++


ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react.. (link)
just tell him how you feel and that you're not ready yet.. if he'll get mad at you and if he'll force you.. dump him.. cause if he really love yo he should be willing to wait for the right time... hope i helped...

++extraordinary, but not perfect++


14/f Ok i have really liked his one guy for about 3 years and we have dated a couple times but we never really lasted. But i just currently broke up with my ex boyfriend. But i was talking 2 them both last nite on the computer and i still have feelings for them both. My ex boyfriend he dumped me because there was just 2 much going on in his life like his ex gf was up and he didn't know what would happen. But now that shes leaving sunday. He wants 2 go back out w/ me. I dont wanna get played like that but i also have feelings for him. And my "dating guy" hes cute and all but i think all hes interested in is getting laid. He says he loves me but... im really confused please help! i rate high for good answers (link)
dont get back with your ex boyfriend for the fact that why cant he have you and just dump his ex... if he do really love you he could have stood up for you and your relationship.. if you think your dating-guy's only interested in is getting laid.. and you dont believe that he truly love you.. dump him.. im not like being so "KJ" or kill joy i just dont want you to get hurt by guys who dont love you... but you can give these guys chances to prove to you if they really love you.. and if one of them had proved it to you and you love that guy.. then why not.. love means taking a risk... hope i helped..

++extraordinary, but not perfect++


my boyfriend of 7 months got drunk the other night and planned on hiding it from me. i found out from someone else who was there. my boyfriend always promised & swore that he would never drink and how stupid he was. he ended up getting drunk with his friend and when i found out, i gave my boyfriend soooo many chances to confess and tell me the truth and he didnt. later he finally admitted it and i was so outraged that i broke up with him and told him i never want to see him again, and i hung up. he hasnt tried to call me or fix things up. my friends called him and said he was crying and too afraid to talk to me. i dont want to call him first...but should i forgive him? he broke my trust. (link)
give him a chance... yes he broke your trust and he got drunk... but he's not perfect to always keep the promise he made.. everyone commit mistakes.. and maybe he was too afraid to make you get mad at him that he didnt tell you... forgive him.. give him another chance to prove it to you that you can trust him.. the relationship you had will be such a waste if it will end up just like this... keep in mind that your boyfriend is only a human being and he do commit mistakes... hope i helped...

++extraordinary, but not perfect++


What should i get my boyfriend for our 6 month anniversary & for his birthday? (different months)

hes turning 19 in september...our 6 month is in august 21st

i rate 5's no doubt about it (link)
in your 6th monsary you can give him a bracelet with your names.. or a necklace that has a picture of the 2 of you.. or even a keychain.. or anything that connects the two of you.. (mecklace and bracelets for guys..)

for his birthday.. you can give him gifts based on his interest..


I met this guy on the internet and he's coming to pick me up in an hour or so. EVerything seems all right and my intuition tells me its a go but everyone always says to be careful so I thought I'd ask. Don't be too hasty to answer cuz I'm really for going. (link)
maybe it will be okay if you are meeting him... But kepp prepared if ever he's not anything you expected and may be even worse that what you are thinking.. to make sure everthing will be okay.. tell someon or a close friend of yours where the two of you are going (make sure to ask him before you leave), what time you are mostly likely to go home, any contact # and the real name of the guy.. hope i helped.. Take care..

extraordinary girl..
but not perfrct..


Sorry its kinda long... My boyfriend and I get along really good but he thinks I have too many guy friends. I am pretty good looking *not to sound big headed, its just what people say* so he thinks that whenever I go spend time with him I will cheat on him. He doesn't trust me at all. Just the other weekend I went to see my guy friend I have known since I was born. He moved when we were 6 so I go visit him all the time. My b/f called me every 30 min. to make sure I wasn't cheating on him. He didn't even want me to wear a bathing suit infront of my frnd. Of course while I was there I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. Is there someway I can make him trust me with my guy friends?
Thanks for the help.
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always assure him that you love him so much and that he will always have you and your love.. show it.. develop the rust between the to of you.. but if he stil doesnt trust you.. break up with him.. how can he say he loves you that he can't even ern to trust you.. and it doesn't mean that he's your boy and your his girl, he can stop you from socializing with others.. your his girl but he doesn't own you gal!! but don't break up with him immediatley give him a chance to learn to trust you...


++ not your ordinary gal ++




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