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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
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Heyy I say tell him to tell you honestly if he is hiding some thing from you. Look him eyes. If he can look u in the eyes and lie to you he doesn't deserve you.
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I have a boyfriend and I have a guy friend. I have been friends with this guy since we were in second grade and we talk about everything. I talk to my boyfriend about things too, but I talk to my friend about a lot and I feel more comfortable talking to him. My boyfriend said that its cheating because I talk to my guy friend when Im having problems with my bf or something else, I also hang out with him, but we have never done anything. I have never dated my friend and we have never liked eachother. We are like brother and sister and I love hanging out with him, but people say thats cheating. We talk, go out and play fight. We have never kissed or anything. One time my boyfriend got mad because I said I was worried about my friend and I kinda took care of him when he got into a fight, he got hit in the face with something and he had broken bones in his face and the doctors couldnt do anything for free, he was in pain so I stayed with him for a few days, to take care of him and then my bf accuses me of cheating. Is this cheating? (link)
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No he is your friend and you said you didn't do anything... Talk to your boyfriend about it if he doesn't trust you he doesn't deserve you
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My Boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months but we're talking for about 4 or 5 months.. Before turned 18 (just recently) we disscussed moving out together and getting our own place. I turned 18 a month after him and thats when i started really looking around for things we could afford, and now it seems like everytime i bring it up he always says i dont know or maybe.. Does he just not want to move out? I dont know what to do anymore.. (link)
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sounds to me like hes not sure or he is running a little low on cash but like yous said its only been six months maybe hes not sure about the future or how long you two will last
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so far ive been in four long distance relatioships and now im in a relationshp with someone and its not long distance and its my first one that isnt but it kind of feels like it i only get to see her or talk to her every other week my other relationships didnt go so well and i want to prevent that with her because i love her
any tips would be very helpful also this is the first time ive been with a girl so any relationship advice would be great (link)
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call her more try to schedule more things try to tell her goodnight every day it will go a long way
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17/f, boyfriend 18/m.
So me and this boy started dating in June. We had met in late may at a friends party. Thing is, he and I both knew he was moving at the end of August. Why did I even get myself into this? I have no clue :/. I lost my virginity to him because I was stupid and thought it didn't make a difference who I lost it too. The relationship now has grown a wee bit stale due to multiple factors like-
1)he can't get over his exes.
2)He's so distant from me always, we don't even hold hands in public.
3)He's leaving, obviously a big factor.
I just don't know what to do right now, I keep on asking myself WHY I'm with him? He's my first real relationship. My friend told me he doesn't believe in love at this age, which makes me feel like I'm being used (and yes, used in THAT way.)
I'm trying to think of things as "casual" - should I stop thinking that way?
He's leaving soon, and I really just don't know what to do with myself, I feel depressed and horrible about myself, like I'm worthless and only good for being used.
On the whole other side, we're really good friends in general.I've become friends with all of his friends, they're awesome people and I don't want to loose them! I'm actually interested in his brother, who knows more about relationships than he does. Would it be wrong to go for him after I've dated his brother? He is leaving, anyway..
I know this is confusing, I'm so upset that I don't know what to do anymore. Even other people see that he doesn't treat me right. Should I break up with him now, or just wait it out until he's officially leaving? ANY advice on ANY questions I've asked would help so much, thank you!
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i personally think you should end it now it will be hard but it needs to be done and dont go for his brother... until after he leaves. that sjust what i think you should do
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Is it normal to not get sparks or feel anything at all when I kiss my boyfriend? When we first kissed I felt something but that was it. Anyone else know what I mean?? (link)
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yep you get used to it kissing them of course the same thing happenns to most people
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I recently returned from a vacation in Mexico. I was on vacation with my family, not looking for anything, but I met a guy who changed everything. Thanks to his family we started talking, and we just instantly clicked. I normally do not look for anything on vacation, but I couldn't help myself. I have never felt this way about a guy, he is absolutely perfect. I live in Pennsylvania and he lives in Texas so we are about a 3 hour plane ride away. He said he'll visit me, and I know it's completely ridiculous, but he just seems like the one right now. Do you think it could work? Miracles happen, right? (link)
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anythinngs possible go for it try to meet up somewhere
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i went there today and we talked then he called me on my way home and we were gonna get together tonite asked me if i called his boss i did because he left 3 big gallons of drywall here he called me ugly ugly names and told me i had no right to call anyone i only called to ask if they wanted the materials or could i dispose of them he blew up an i called a t 445 today and he was out he says hes to busy with all thnats going on bvut doesnt make any effort to come here if he calls do i amswer or wait a couple daYS AND SAY I WAS ALSO BUSY CAUSE TALKING TO HIMN HE DOESNT LISTEN THAT DOESNT WORK WHAT DO I DO PLEASE MY HEART HURTS BAD (link)
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i say when he calls to tell him to get it and go so its all done. people did the same thing to me we all just said screw it we sorta just kept the stuff in a supply closet. if they want it they will call you and ask them to set a time
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can anyone think of conversation tips when texting a guy i want back?
like i havent talked to him for a month and texted him last week bt it was awkward. what can i say to break the ice again?
or anything that can help the conversation gel more? (link)
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be honest tell him you like him and ask him back out talk about wat went wrong and how it wont happen again
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Okay,13 female
so my boyfriend just moved to indiana bc his dad works there and i just figured out that another guy likes me. Dont think im a ho or a slut or anything like that bc i was gunna break up with him anyway bc i cant do a long distance relationship i tried to call my current boyfriend and tell him i cant date him any more but i couldnt get a hold of him! I really want to go out with this other guy bc we have a good history (when you answer my question ill tell you what happend) so can some one plzz help!!!!!!
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if you and that dude have a good history he'll wait for you. try to break up with your boyfriend and give him a good reason dont be mean about it. anything else?
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Hey guys, I'm Laura, and I'm 17. My boyfriend is 20. We have been together for over a year now, and we have been fighting non-stop lately. We constantly are fighting over stupid stuff, nothing serious or worth fighting over at all. I try to calm him down, but he doesn't drop things until I start balling my eyes out crying, then he apologizes because he feels bad and realizes that I haven't even done anything. I just need help of how to handle situations when we're fighting, because he refuses to let me walk away, no matter what. I want ideas and things I can do to make our relationship happier. Cute things to do for him, and things that we can do together that aren't expensive! Thank you! (link)
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look about the fighting just ask him if he would want to breeak up over it (whatever the subject may be) and trust me he should just stop if he doesnt and you do break up (which prolly wont happen) give him a couple days and call him. plus thats wat couples do fight
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Okay, there's this guy i am kinda in love with, we dated last year but we broke up, this past spring break we tried dating again but things got a little bad and we broke up again, he isn't the smartest when it comes to flirting or hints that someone likes him, so when i told him that i was still in love with him, we fell for each other pretty quick when we first dated, hoping he would still feel the same, he completely avoided the subject and went onto another one. What should i do? I really want to be with him again...I just don't know what to do anymore...Can someone please help me? (link)
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ok ill tell you he doesnt want to start another dead end relationship........ you guys broke up for a reason why would he want you to break his heart again? look you need to wait a long time before asking him. but eventually in a lil whille he'll say yes
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If you could have one wish, what would you wish for? (link)
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idk for there to be less dumb asses on our planet
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On a first date, where would you take her? Like her to wear? And why? (link)
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to my house it is private and personal and you can get to know eachother better, a dress maybe i really dont care what they wear because its unimportant but dresses are always sexy
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How do you know if you are in love with someone? Who was your first love? Why? After answering this question, ask someone else the same thing. (Copy & Paste) (link)
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oksana, idk it just sorta happens and you dont really know if your in love until your really are
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If your going on a first date with a girl what do you like her wearing? (link)
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a dress ........................ its a personal thing but dresses are very sexy
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I am 30 years old and I live in Guatemala with my mother and one brother only, I has a boyfriend since last april, in my family don’t accept our love, especially my mom, but I am deeply in love with him, at the last weekend he propose me and I was agree to get married… we decided to lived in my house because I bought it, but I am fearful of their reaction. (link)
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just tell them be honest after all its your house do what you want with it. they will either have to learn to get over it or leave.... thats just wat i think
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14/female
Heeeyyahh, okay, as soon as my dad goes owt, i watch porn, and start mastrubating, i cant help myself, i am addicted, i wanna have sex so badly, i always try an imagin my dream man walking in and having sex with me, but it wont happen, wat shall i do! (link)
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well your hormones are making you think and want to watch porn and all. all i can say is you are completely normal and i can tell you go out and try to find a boyfriend. then you will slow down on the porn and masterbating and focus more on him.
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i think I'm falling in love with my classmate. and i don't think he will not love me back (link)
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look i say you go up there be honest tell him you like him and ask him out.
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If you could make anyone fall in love with you l, who would you? (link)
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alexeia
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