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LagunaBabe
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hi i am 13, female and i have never had a bf before all my mates have and most of them are supportive. i fancie this lad and i told my 2 bffs about him and they said just ask him out. but the problem is i have never even hugged a boy before and i am shy and scared to ask him out. the other day me ndme 2 bffs went out we met up with a few other lads. he was not there but 1 of the lads who is pretty sxi was hugging me nd stuff my mates said we were propa flertin with each other and i didnt meen to coz a fancie the other lad. the problem is i dont have the currage to get any one to ask him out for me. i dont think he likes me and i am scared incase he says no coz a will be embarresed. please help me i am desperate. what should i do???
ps i am from england (link)
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well it's kinda funny ur askin me this cause i'm kinda in the same predicament. see...this is one of those moments where you have toface your fears...
what's gonna happen if you ask him? he could say yes and you'll be happy. or ,... he could say no...and well you move on...you won't catch on fire or instantly die. but just talk to him..like you would your bffs. then just ask him if he likes anyone. ask him if he's looking for one...if not then don't go any further with asking him ....try to obtain a close friendship with him..then ask him.
hope i helped.
sincerely
Chelsea
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okay. so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year now. im only a freshman, but im not too young to be in love..and i am in love with him. but latley he hasnt been acting like he wants to be with me as much as he use to. im thinking about breaking it off. but how do i break something that was so good and lasted so long so suddenly? ahh im sooooooooooooooo confused. helppp! (link)
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okay stop for a minute and breathe:
now have you talked to him about this? cause if not you need to . communication is EXTREMELY important in any relationship. and if you are having these feelings talk to him. i mean you guys have been in a relationship now for about a year now so if you guys can't communicate, there is a problem. look at your pros and cons of the guy. ..
but if you really want to break it off with him...don't do it over the phone or internet or letter.though it may be easier it would not be the greatest way...
just tell him how you feel tell him what you are telling me..how it feels like the love between you two is dwindling...really have a good talk with him.and if possible stay friends with him..cause i know that you'd rather have him in ur life as a friend then as nothing at all.
hope i helped
sincerely
chelsea
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my boyfriend drinks and i dont approve of it. i dont want to sound like stuckup or anything but we're only 14!! and this is something i take pretty seriously because my friend was killed by a drunk driver but anyways..would it be stupid to break up with him because of this? i kno he really likes me but its summer and i dont see him that much and i just think we're growing apart (link)
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well in my opinion, i honestly think you should do what you feel is right. if you have a problem with him drinking then talk to him about it. if he doesn't feel the need to change then breaking up with him wouldn't be a bad thing to consider. i can understand why you would hate drinking and i am very sorry about ur friend.and 14 is too young to drink.. now about the growing apart thing...
if you feel like you growing apart,and you guys have talked about this (communication is important in any relationship) and things aren't working out then it would be best to break up with him. but think about it first. but do what you think is right because ur prolly right.
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anyone know or whats your biggest turn on (girls) or turn on spot? (link)
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well you know what? to tell you the truth, it varies among each girl, but i know one thing: the clit isn't the only place! i mean of course the clit is a turnon, but also the ears,neck, stomach,heck even knees....don't ask me why...lol...
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Okay what do i do if my friend (which is a boy ) is mad at me because my ex boyfriend told him that me and him still go out and i really liked my friend and he liked me too (link)
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you have to think about this.wait you and your ex boyfriend are still going out? if you like your friend more than a friend, and/or you really care about him like a friend would, talk to him about it.make him understand why you are going out with your ex, and if you aren't ,talk to him and makehim understand that your ex boyfriend is jealous of you guy's relationship that you two have(you and your friend)you have to know what you want. if it's not true what your ex is saying, ten immediately tell your friend. he probably feels like he had a chance and not anymore, so he's probably hurt.but just talk to him about everything, your feelings,everything. hope i helped, and if not, i probably need some more info.lol
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I asked a question before, about Cory and Tyler. I'm 15, female. Anyway, your advice did help, and thanks a lot for it! But to answer the questions you had, cory has told me thing like 'we dont talk enough, hang out enough', and stupid things like that, that I said we can work on. And tyler, isnt dating Alex, not ashley, lol..but they are just kind of talking. and i havent told tyler how i feel about him, i dont really know what to say with out it sounding stupid and like im obsessed with him...i'm soo confused..? (link)
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okay, i glad i helped a little..lol. okay, you should tell him that you are willing to work on the communication problems that you guys had. you could tell him that you have very strong feelings for him, because the l word(love) could scare him away for good. just talk to him about why you guys couldn't work on not hanging out enough and talking enough. if he doesn't give you a straight answer, then that's not the real reason. hope i helped some more.
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is it normal to hurt me when my boyfriend fingers me even if he only uses one finger? causse it hurts me. is this normal? should i see a doctor? (link)
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is this the first time that he has fingered you?? Some ppl are extrememly tight and it will hurt even when he only uses one finger. this reason is because when his finger enters you, it rubs inside. now since your body isn't used to it, it will hurt.if it bothers you you could go to the doctor's but i doubt it's anything.
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I'm 15, female and it may seem young, but I'm almost positive I've been in love. This might be hard to understand and sound stupid, but I hope you get what i'm trying to say. There's this boy, Cory, and I've liked him for like 4 or 5 years now. It's such a long story about us, I can't even type it all. But we've had things on and off and hung out a lot and yeah we've done stuff..and we even got to the point where we said I love you. I meant it when I said it too. But we've never actually dated, like been official. We fight A LOT though, and he told me it will never work out between us, which pretty much broke my heart. We hang out with the same people, so it's hard to avoide him sometimes. I've tried to get over him and while I've been trying, I somewhat started to talk to this boy, Tyler. He's really cute and a sweetheart. He always said we needed to hang out and everything. And I've started to hang out with his group a lot, like every weekend now. I thought we were kind of talking, but then I heard he was talking to another girl, Alex. So I asked him and they said they are. :/ I dont know what to do...it's been about 2 months and I still really want to try and be with Tyler. Am I stupid for still wanting him after he screwed me over? And I still think about Cory a lot..I dont know what to do. What would I even say to Tyler? It always seems like I fall for the complete wrong guys...I know I'm young and there will be so many guys throughout my life but when I feel this strong about one right now, I can't help it. I really do think this is it. I dont know if this all makes since, but anything would help. Thanks. (link)
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i have been in your situation before.and still am. okay what i don't understand is that if you and cory have told each other that you love each other, then why is he saying that it wouldn't work out. and has he given you reasons why it won't work out. chances are that he might be afraid of committment. now about tyler.even though he is dating another girl, my opinion is that you should(to get your feelings out and not hold them inside)tell him how you feel. oyu will feel better about it and you will still have tyler as a friend. you never know, tyler might break up with ashley and he will remember you liking him and go to you. the best thing i would do is to make a pro/con list of each boy and figure it out from there. i know that you love cory but if he doesn't want anything to do with you besides friendship, then i would keep it that way. you want a guy who's gonna stay with you through bad and good times and through the fights and the rough times. i hope i helped.
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theres this guy i like.. and im kind of a shy person, but i act differently outside of school. or unless im good friends with you. im outgoing and junk, but only to people im comfortable with and good friends with. how do i become more outgoing? or should i just accept the way i am? or.. i dunno. cause theres this guy i like whos pretty popular, and im not a loser not popular either..... soo yeah. and alot of times im kinda shy to talk around him or may say something stupid. and sometimes i give him side glances in school.. maybe i shouldnt do that but hes so fun to look at! anyways, what can i do to get him to like me? or any guy, in general. hes pretty nice to me now, but i havent really had many full conversations with him or anything. i guess its also because im shy, and i want to go away from him but at the same time be around him. ackk and we both do sports.. like today i saw him at a bball match and i saw him and im like "omg!" but i didnt say hi or anything.. cause what if he found out i like him! arrg an sometimes i dunno what to talk about when theres nothing really going on. soo.. any suggestions to anything i said? thanksss! (link)
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you honestly should just go talk to him.there was this guy i liked and i was very nervous because he was so nice and i was outgoing ..and stuff.one day i just talked to him ...and now i'm dating him. just talk to the guy. he'll admire your confidence. guys like girls with confidence...just not too much..lol
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im 14/f .
i want to meet the perfect guy for me really bad. i know what everyones gonna say "just be patient and he'll come" but i feel like ive been waiting for years and NO ONE not even the wrong guy has come to me. and i feel like the guy thats right for me doesnt go to my school. how can i get to know other guys not in my school? or how do i find the right guy? im so confused:[ any advice will do. (link)
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honey, listen i know exactly how you feel. i'm 16 and i'm still waiting for the perfect guy to come along,but i honestly don't think that the perfect guy will be at your highschool.lolbe yourself and don't look for a guy.let them come to you. i know you probably hear that a lot, but it's true. i did , and now i have guys that i have to reject. but if you act yourself and make sure that your not superficial, then you could be more picky with guys.just be yourself.
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Okay I like this guy before I'm 13/f and yeah he's same age but a boy. I've liked him before but I stopped because I started liking this other boy and now I like him again because I saw more of him than I ever have before! How do I get him to notice me? (link)
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keep being yourself. talk to him all of the time...not obsessively though..lol
also if ya want ..try joining the same things he does..if your interested.just be yourself.he's bound to notice you sometime.
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Well, for starters, I'm a freshman in high school (15/f). I like this guy in one of my classes, and he's really nice and we talk and all, but my problem is that he's a junior. I'm not worried about him using me or anything bad like that. I just don't know if he would consider going out with a freshman. Should I still go for him, or give up before I start? I'm probably going to go for him anyway, I just wanted to see what others think. (link)
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listen, i'm a junior. but when i was a freshman, my first boyfriend was a junior too!!! it's all in the way you carry yourself as a person.have some confidence. after all age is just a number these days. you may have trouble staying with him..when he goes to college. that's what happened to me. but as long as you have trust in your relationship, then it will all work out.
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my boyfriend wants me to give him a lap dance. i would but i feel kind of weird. any suggestions? (link)
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if he likes you maybe even loves you ...then he will understand if you feel uncomfortable doing that for him. just talk to him.i know it's hard sometimes, but that's the only way that he will understand.
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What can I do to be more open about myself with my boyfriend? (link)
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well i know how that is not being very open.
listen i mean if ya want go places that he likes going to ...and do things that you like doing.
don't worry about it ...it's a new thing...you guys will warm up to each other in no time...just give it time.
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