Well I'm a guy and I've been referred to as the High School Hitch by some of my classmates. I'm 16 years old. Ask me anything about your relationships or problems and I will do my best to answer them to the best of my ability.
E-mail: rangerrod1231@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: houston
Age: 16
Member Since: January 17, 2008
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Last Update: January 19, 2008
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okay so there is this guy, he is like a skater and stuff. so my friend is like BEST FRIENDS with him. they always are hanging out and i always hang out with her so once and awhile we all hang out. by the way his name is david. so i am pretty shy, especially around guys. like, im really shy right when i get to no someone, then after awhile i am like the most outgoing person in the world, i am so crazy i do everything and you can't get me to shut up. i no there is probably alot of questions like this, but i really need help. so my friend that is his best friend is talking to him abouot me, and she knows that if i opened up to him, he would like be in love with me. like we have the same exact personalitys, once i open up. i just can't seem to do that though, it's so hard, especially with guys! so, basically my question is, i need to no how to get myself to not be so nervous and just chill out and be myself, and once i do that, i need good ways to flirt with him. thank you!!! (link)
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Well if youre going thru a friend to get to a guy and your personalities are as similar as you say they are then you need to cut out the middle man and try talking to him over the internet, like maybe myspace, msn, or AIM. Then you can slowly graduate to phone calls and talking in person. If this guy makes you feel like this, then chances are you make him feel the same way. He's probably nervous too. But if he's not then try those methods that i mentioned earlier.
Cliche Time: Just be yourself
Try this too: Try talking to him like he is one of your girlfriends, minus the girl "topics".
Hope that helps...
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Last summer my boyfriend and I of 4 years broke up. I was crushed, but it was for the best. I'm still in love with him. He has a girlfriend now, but we still talk. We talk as friends. But the other night he talked to me about "us." We talked about how much we missed each other, the memories we made, and he told me he still loved me. I don't think he is playing me because he's one of those that don't mess around. Then two days ago after school we hung out all day. It was like old times again. It was the best feeling in the world to tell the truth. Well last night we had a basketball game and a guy I once had feelings for was there. He talked me into going to a party with him. My ex wasn't there. Well the guy I have feelings for and I kissed. It was nice, but now I'm so confused. Since my ex has a girlfriend and I had a good time with another guy does that mean I should move on? I still love my ex, but I'm worried we aren't going anywhere. What should I do? (link)
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You should stay with the guy you're with. A lot of times the whole "going back to the ex" thing doesnt work. You relive a lot more of the bad times than the good. You might have had good times and you still can but just as friends. See if you can muster up more feelings for the guy that you are with.
If you still like your ex and you break up with your current b/f, but then when you go back to your ex and it doesnt work out, you'll be out of a b/f. But if you wanna have some time to your self then go for it.
Cliche Time: Do as your heart desires.
Hope that helps...
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okay so i met my boyfriend about 7 years ago and hes two years older hen me, we didnt decide to start dating until july of 07. lately he yells at me alot and trys telling me what i can and cannot do and he even has other girls before me on his myspace page, i dont know what to do. For christmas he bought me a very expencive necklace and told me he wanted to be with me for a long time and everytime i accuse him of being a player he says "if i was playin you i wouldnt of bought u anything and we wouldnt have been together for this long" [he has a bad history of being a player] so what should i do? how do i know if hes cheating? and should i leave him? (link)
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"If I was playin you i wouldnt have bought you anything"? Maybe he felt guilty for something and felt the need to buy you something expensive. If you've ever seen Madea, then she would say that if you think that your man is cheating, then he is. Go with your suspicions, but dont make it obvious. Now dont do all of this stuff you see and hear like looking through his cell phone and whatnot. When you go out, how does he look at other women/girls. Until you get enough facts...
Cliche Time: He's guilty until proven innocent
Hope that helps...
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[[Took Something The Doctor Just Gave Me To Get Rid Of The Drousyness I Guess Hopefully I'll Be Fine.]]
I don't know why we had school today it was so bad outside with the snow but I had a doctors appointment anyway really early in the morning and wit what he was checking and looking at he gave me some medicine to take starting today aswell that would make me drousy. I went to school anyway because I had a test today and I didn't want to miss anything important. Well the medicine was more dousy making then I thought. I was out of it! Well Adam [[AKA Best Friends Boyfriend... even though I like him and BFF knows I do. I liked him before she went out with him, and she kinda knew I did but not like hardcore so]] Well Adam.. told me that at the dance next friday wanted to kiss Becky. But didn't know how she would take me... That's not something I wanted to hear-- and I was probably walking like a drunk person I fell. [[Walking down Hall to lunch]] He helped me up, and then Becky came running down the hall because it was Taco Day to see us holding hands,,, VERY BREIFLY. And I pulled away and said Thank You. Well She was RAWR on me! It didn't madder that Adam grabbed my hand and was heling me up, or anything. I was slirring my words are everything , it probably looked like I was drunk and what didnt help the situation Adam --arm and arm-- brought me to the nurse. After argueing for 15 minutes was just like Fuck This grabbed my arm and began helping me up the stairs.
I don't want Becky to be mad at me but because I told her I liked Adam she now thinks Im out to get him or something...
And now Adams asked me 3 times in one hour if Im okay. He hasnt bothered to see if Becky was fine or not...
Help. (link)
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This sounds like a problem that the guy needs to solve. He should explain to your bff that nothing sexual or anything like that was going on. What your bff needs to realize is that her b/f was trying to help you out. That's probably what she likes about him. She doesn't want a jerk for a b/f. Now imagine if he had just left you on the ground...she would've gotten mad at him. So this whole problem was your bff's, not yours or the guy's. You didnt do anything wrong and neither did he. She caught at a time she thought that you two were doing something...She didn't bother to ask about it.
Cliche Time: Skipping a lot of the facts can result in jumping to the wrong conclusion.
Hope that helps...
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lets call him J. we were together for 2 months, but we had been really good friends before that, always liking each other, always having a good time. i can tell him anything, he's like my other half. we argued, but we always got over it. and the only reason we argued was because we had so much in common. anyway, on the 15th of january, we were texting and he kept dropping hints that he wanted to take a break. so i came right out and asked him what was going on. he told me that he can't handle the fighting with his parents anymore and the only thing he can think of is to break up. so we did. his parents are reallllly strict, they like me and everything, but hes in 9th grade and i'm in 8th, we live in different school districts. they dont let him go to the movies with just me, and whenever he asks them to hang out with me, they always get in huge arguements over me. so he couldnt handle it anymore. even though my parents are divorced, my moms a whore and my dads an alcohlic and im gettinga new stepmom, i guess he feels the need to complain about how hard his life is when really mine is 10x worse. we had been talking on instant messenger up until last night, he kept saying how he wanted me to still have fun and live life, and not be obligated to him, but he still didnt want this to be the absolute end of us. then, at like 12am, he called me, and was like crying, and he was like Kendall, i love you. and i was like......i love you too....and he was like i've been thinking and i just i love you. i dont want to see you date other guys or anything and i cant wait until next year when i can drive to date you. i cant wait that long. and he kept saying all this stuff and it was like in a movie. it was so cute. but im so confused of what he wants. we havent talked yet today, he's at school, i skipped school. he put 11.20.07 (link)
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Well you and "J" should have a sit-down with his parents and talk about the two of you. It's not too movie or tv-ish, it makes sense. If the two of you love each other that much then you need to talk about it with his parents.
Cliche Time: If you really love this guy, then it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks.
If you have a problem of parents not listening,(if you want to be a little sneaky) go behind all of your parents' backs and see him. When he gets old enough to drive, tell your parents and then you won't have to hide it. Then he can go anywhere he wants and date you, see you, or anything like that.
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this one boy is always staring at me. like, hes in my math class, and like he sits across the room, and he'll stare at me. and like before school starts, people sit in the cafeteria, and like he was in there the other day, and he kept staring at me. and hes in my lunch period, and hes alwayys looking at me. I know he thinks I'm hot. Because, I was at mcdonalds, and he was with his friend, and my friend was standing behind him, and then i was like getting my food right infront of them, and his friend is like ,the girl in front of us is really hot. and he was like, yeah i know shes in my math class, she is really hot. so yeahhh. i saw he had a myspace, should i ask to be his friend? and ive never talked to him like before. oh, and this one time, i went up to go and get my paper, and he got up and got it for me, and handed it to me.
i kindaa like him. and hes super super cute. but i have no idea how to like start talking to him.
what do you think?
do you think he likes me?
should i talk to him?
how do i talk to him? (link)
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Well if he's looking at you all stalkerish then yes he likes you. you should talk to him. break the ice with messaging on myspace and slowly graduate to phone conversations and if he makes the first move, talk to him in person. Or you can be bold and aggressive and talk to him first.
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okay me and my boyfriends have not made out yet one day he tried to but i have no idea what to do so i leaned away. i know your supposed to open your mouth and touch tongues. but what i don't get is like how. do you rub them against each outher or what? i'm so scared that to do it wrond since he has done it before. i really don't know what touch tongues mean like explain that more please. (link)
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Well technically you're supposed to massage his tongue with yours. You can practice the tongue with a lollipop and the lips with the back of your hand or something...hope that helps.....
--a 16 y/o guy
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15/f
been going out with my boy for a year and a half, everythings perfect besides well him.
hes very outgoing and constantly flirts with girls without realizing it, it hurts me alot.. i've asked him to stop but it's just not like that you know? hes so use to it he doesn't even realize it.
:( i really cant stand it anymore either, but i love him alot [despite my age] is it best i just let him go? (link)
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Well im 16 and half of the not realizing he's flirting thing is just age and hormones, but i think that you shouldnt let him go. Do a little alert system. Do something to make him realize he's flirting. Kind of like a dog barking collar. (The following is a metaphor for your b/f) The dog is barking, the dog gets a shock, the dog learns to stop barking. btw, im not insulting your b/f.
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This is long but please read..Okay, lets call him this guy.
Now i liked him ever sense i saw him..ever sense we started our first
converstation. And i have this friend thats a guy, and Turns out hes Best
friends with the guy. okay, now my friend made it obvious we wants to be
more then friends. he flirts alot and has asked me out about four times,
but i never returned his texts. I dont know, i mean i like his best friend,
and only like my friend as only a friend. And i talked to the guy about him
asking me out and saying how i dont like him like that..he said he didnt
tell my friend but idk, will this ruin more chances of me being with "my"
guy? i mean why would he go out with his best friends crush? I bet hes heard the saying "bros before hoes" err whatever..tho im not a hoe.lol And i bet my
friend has talked to him about liking me. So that basicaly blows it all
off. i dont really know what advice im looking for. but ANY i'd be greatful
for. i mean i feel like i LOVE this guy. i think about him 24/7. and
everything about him makes me smile. He wears the most crappy clothing in
the world and barly does his hair. but i dont care. i really like him. I
dont know how he feels about me. I mean its cute, somtimes at night when
were dont texting eachother he'll text somthing like well night honey xoxo
or nite sweetypiee xoxo dont let the bedbugs bite. he even called me
Sweetie on the phone infrount of my friend and his bff [the one that kept asking me out] once. and I think he gigles err
silently laughs alot on the phone, in a good way When were on the phone alone. I was planning on just
writing a few short sentances, guess it ended in paragraphs. but Please
advice. About The guy, or the sittuation of "my" guy's and my friend liking
me.. b/c i dont know what to do. .. Does he even like me like that at all? (link)
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Oh yeah they both like you. you should go with the guy that you like...the one that is not your best friend, b/c if you date your "best friend" and you break up, then that could have serious detrimental effects in the future, if you tried to be friends again. That bros before hos thing is stupid. My policy is hearts before hormones. And sry it was kinda long so i lost some stuff but if the guy thats your friend asks you out all those times then you should go with the one you can tell is not trying too hard. hope that helps...
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