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Ok, so 16m
What are some ways to get a girl to like you?
And what are some ways to see if a girl is in to you? (link)
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there are plenty of ways to get a girl to like you. first of all, be yourself. girls don't like when boys are fake to them. if she likes you, you want to know that she likes you for who you are. next, send her signals. when you talk to her, look into her eyes. find ways to touch her or make her laugh. get to know her. most importantly, do not lie to her and do not be mean to her. the hard-to-get thing doesn't work on girls. good luck!
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How do you make-out? (link)
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you start by kissing someone. then you slightly open your mouth and they'll open their mouth. and you take turns putting your tongues in the other's mouths. don't only use tongue, though. use more lips than tongue. good luck!
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hi MP95, I AM REALLY REALLY DEPRESSED!! PLEASE HELP ME!
MY STORY: well in childhood i had a mild problem in urinating which was latter corrected, now at the age of 25 my penis though well developed still is small in length!!!!!! yes to add to it recently my doc said that I CANNOT FATHER A CHILD!!!!!! since i dont have enough sperms!!!! However he did say that the size though small was adequate for me to satisfy. I AM SHATTERED FRIENDS AND I M REALLY DEPRESSED!!! I M TRULY IN LOVE WITH A GIRL AND WE HAVE BEEN GOING AROUND FROM PAST 10 Years and i will definately tel her every thing!!!! but idont know WHY ME WHY??????? I HAVE STOPPED CONCENTRATING ON MY WORK, MY PERSONAL LIFE IS AFFECTED, you know how being able to father a child is treated as masculine in our world!! i dont know what to do. HOWEVER I AM SURE THAT I CAN KEEP MY GIRL HAPPY AND SATISFIED AND WE DID GET PHYSICAL SOME TIME AROUND AND WE HAVE GOOD CHEMISTRY BUT SOMEHOW I DONT KNOw HOW SHE WILL TAKE THIS NEWS??!!!! OH GOD PLEASE HELP!! AND YOU FRIENDS PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO BECAUSE I AM REALLY DOWN.......PLEASE ADVICE (link)
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the best you can do is tell her the truth. i'm sure she will understand, she loves you. it is not your fault that you have this problem, and she will know that. if you really want to have a child with her, then talk to your doctor. there are many options, like invitro, sperm donors, ect. i'm sure your girlfriend will understand. for your depression, you can meet with a therapist or take medication that will help. talk to your doctor. good luck!
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14/f
freshman
okay so im 160 and 5'4
i know thats overweight but im seriously working on it and improving. i honestly dont think im ugly,but i know im not beautiful. i get a lot of comments on my green eyes. so thats good. oh and i have brown and (with a cute haircut:). okay so my problem is last year in eighth grade i had 2 bestfriends and we stopped being friends for whatever reason i dont even know. so this year im stuck with very few friends. and i really want more, a lot more. but the thing is im super quiet and shy unless i get to know you then i cant shut up. so my first question is how can i get more friends and be less quiet and shy?!?!?
alright my second problem is i dont have ANY guy friends and i want a boyfriend SO BAD! you dont even know... so like how can i get guy friends or even boyfriends?!?! like the only guys numbers i have are reletives.. and im 14! thats rediculus...
well the only time guys talk to me is to ask me a question on school work or something because they think im smart just cuz i have glasses. but im getting clear contacts in march(:
so i mean its hard because i want all of this so bad! what do i do. and i cant talk to my mom because i dont live with her, and im a total daddys girl. and he will like chop me up and eat me for breakfast if i even mention dating (well i think) cuz he thinks im a super good girl.
sooooooo ya please help me, im desperate!! (link)
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you sound just like me in ninth grade. except i have blonde hair. haha. anyway, i was really shy and quiet, but since then(i'm a junior now) i've come out of my shell a lot. my advice to you is just to talk more. that's pretty much all you can do. when you see a guy you like or just want to be friends with, talk to him. make a witty remark about something that happened at school that day or something you notice that you two have in common. pretty soon you'll get closer and closer, and beofre you know it you'll have plenty of guy friends! good luck!
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What are some ways to get over an ex boyfreind?
I have spent six months trying to get over my ex and I just cant do it. I dont even ever see him but I just always think about him and wish he would take me back.
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first, you need some moping time. sit around in your most comfortable sweats and watch movies for a few days. give yourself a week at most. then, get a distraction. start a hobby, focus on school, ect. then move on. find someone else! flirt around! pretty soon you'll forget all about your ex. and most importantly, always rememember: every girl is too special not to be loved completly by a boy :)
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ok so i need some kissing tips some really good ones
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close your eyes. open-eyed kissing is mad awkward. also, don't use to much tongue. tongue isn't always necessary. if you just open your mouth slightly and use a LITTLE tongue, it'll be a lot better than if you force your tongue down their throat. also, when you kiss, run your fingers through his or her hair, then down their neck and chest to their waist. when you're done, slightly bite his or her bottom lip for a fraction of a second. it leaves them wanting more. good luck!
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been having trouble lately. We broke it off for a bit because we thought it would be best. But now we're talking again. You see, he wasn't the best boyfriend in the world. I mean, he's a great guy...he's loyal and truthful and he really does love me (and I also love him)...but he never did that stuff boyfriends do, all the little things. All the sweet little gestures that let you know he cares. Is that asking for too much? He told me he's gonna try to do some of that, but he can't change his whole personality. Should I stay with him and see if it works? (link)
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i think that if he's loyal, truthful and really loves you, then he's a great boyfriend. sweet little gestures are nice, but its very rare that you find someone who cares about so much. if you really want him to act more "boyfriendy" tell him. or act more "girlfriendy" to him. you should give him a chance and stay with him. lacking sweet gestures doesn't sound like a very valid reason to break up. good luck!
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Hey,okay this might sound really pathetic, but recently I was talking to this guy who is friends with a guy I kissed randomly at a night club before.
The guy i was talking to told me what the guy i kissed said about it he said "it was shit"
so now im really worried that i could be a bad kisser..! I havnt had anyone say anything before as far as i know i dont use too much tounge or bite or do a washing machine on it and i put alot into it. what else could i be doing wrong?
should i be worried? or could it be just the guy saying this in spite because now were not really friends. it has me feeling kinda self concious! and the next time i kiss someone it will be at the back of my mind. anyone any advice?! (link)
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well this guys sounds like an ass. forget about him. if it hasn't been an issue until this guy, don't worry about it. he's stupid. don't get worked up about someone who means nothing. its not the best idea to kiss random guys, but hey-what's done is done. don't worry. he's a loser.
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Can anyone give me like a list of ways to flirt with guys..some without being completely obvious. And if guys actually think its cute and like it..cause i know some ways really annoy them.
Thanks! (link)
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you can look at him and smile slightly and bite your lip and look away. laugh at his jokes and lightly touch him on the arm. when you see him say hey you! and breifly touch his hand. there are lots of ways to flirt with guys. warning: don't talk in that whiney annoying baby voice. it drives guys crazy. and not in a good way. be yourself. and have fun!
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when me and my boyfriend both have no shirts on and are making out or dry humping...what things can i do to spice it up?
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there is a world of things you can do to "spice things up". if you really want to drive him crazy, stay above the belt. kiss his ears, neck, chest, stomach, ect, run your fingers through his hair, and so on. also, guys love it when a girl takes charge. get on top of him, take control. good luck!
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ok so i went to a dance and i was dancing with guy who i didnt know but he went to my school. and we danced and like he felt me up and fingered me and ws like olding me and holding my hands and just like SOOO amazing (link)
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add him! sounds like you two really hit it off! go for it.
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i am in 7th grade and iam in love with a girl that hates me what should i do plese help (link)
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oh young love...don't worry, dear it will get better. tell her how you feel. you may be too shy to tell her in person so tell her in a note or letter. whatever you do, don't tell her through aim or myspace or something. something about the internet just gives off an insensitive vibe. i suggest leaving a note in her locker explaining your real feelings for her along with a flower of some sort. good luck!
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15/f
been with my boyfriend for 2 years,
he was my best friend before boyfriend.
i'm starting to argue with him alot more, but about stupid things. when we broke up once, i felt horrible and incomplete. how do you know the difference between loving a boyfriend and a boy bestfriend? (link)
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there is a fine line between boyfriend and best friend. you love your boyfriend, you tell him everything, you laugh with him, you act like yourself around him, you fight with him. if you think about it, you do almost the same exact thing with a guy that is your best friend. you love him. they seem like a different kind of love, but actually they're a lot alike.
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I keep waiting for the guy I like to tell me he likes me because I already had all of the signs that he is flirting with me and everybody keeps saying that he likes me.I have a feeling he likes me too.Im too shy to tell him i LIKE HIM so how can I wait for him to tell me he likes me or ask me out?Any advice helps!!! (link)
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flirt with him. be a little more obvious than before. smile and look into his eyes and at his mouth then back at his eyes-irresistable. when he makes you laugh, touch him in some way. keep in mind that a man's neck and chest is very sensitive to touch. also, whisper sweet things in his LEFT ear. his left ear is connected to his right side of his brain which is in control of him emotions. good luck!
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14/m/9th grade There is this girl in my grade that always makes me look the other way, because I'm to shy to look at her. I like her and everything she is great but I'm afraid if i ask her out it won't go any where since were both shy. What should i do? (link)
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talk to her a lot. you're both shy, so you have something in common! become good friends with her. then if you still feel that way about her, ask her out! good luck!
by the way, a lot of girls think its ADORABLE when guys are shy ;)
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what are some really good flirting tips that would make a guy want you really bad....theres this boy i really like and i wanna kinda catch his eye you know....please help!
thanks
jess (link)
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confidence is key. be very cofident when flirting. always touch. touching his chest, neck and hair will turn him on. and when you laugh(which you should) laugh sexily. be cute and giggly. also, say cute/funny things. when you say flirty things always say it into his left ear. his left ear is connected to the right side of the brain which controls all his emotions. good luck!
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i love this guy, we talked and he was talking to me like a guy would talk to a girl he might like and he told me i was cute and everything then one of my best friends came into the picture and ever since then hes been talking to her the same way and talking to me more just like a regular person and im really upset, how should i handle this? 14/f (link)
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it sounds to me like your guy is a flirt. flirty guys are hard to figure out. it may take even months to figure out if he likes you. keep talking to him and hopefully, you'll eventually figure it out. and a little flirting back wouldn't hurt! good luck!
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Would you find it odd if your girlfriend of 5 months off and on got you a scrapbook [ or something homemade ext ] for your birthday ?
It's my boyfriends 15th birthday on the 24th and I neeeeed to figure out what to get !! (link)
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a scrap book full of pictures of you together would be a good idea, along with another gift of some sort, like a shirt or cologne or something. and don't forget, a kiss! good luck!
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im in luv wit my bff. im bisexual and so is she. im not sure i should tell her cuz it might ruin our friendship. wat should i do? should i tell her or not? im under 16 and im a female. (link)
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falling in love with your best friend is a tough situation. but i say follow your heart! if you think you two would work our then give it a try. don't worry about ruining your friendship now, cross that bridge when you come to it. just don't forget to mention to her that you don't want to hurt your friendship. knowing that you care about her as a friend and a lover will comfort her. so go with your instinct and listen to your heart! good luck!
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i been dating this girl named mariah thomas going on 7 months and we are really serious we are both juniors at the same highschool we have all the same classes except for 6th hour i take graphic arts and she takes home ec ... why is it when ever im around her i feel as though im floating and for some strange reason i lose my breath and get light headed and lose my balence but it only happens when im with her whats wrong with me (link)
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there's nothing wrong with you, you're in love! by the way, that is probably the cutest thing i've heard in a long time.
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