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Hi there. I'm DeAnna. I love helping people, i love my boyfriend so much && my friends. I love music&pictures. I would like to move to London when i get older.

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so theres this guy i hung out with wednesday and we talked a few times before and he told my other friend that he wanted to get to know me and stuff so thats why we hung out.. and then we kissed when we were hanging out and two days has passed and he hasnt even talked to me.. i would be online the same time hes online and he wouldnt even IM me.. and its hard cause im starting to like him kinda.. so what does this mean...?

well, i was thinking maybe he is waiting for you to sort of make the moves of talking and stuff...you IM him..and get his number and call him and stuff...he obviously likes you and just must be a little shy. dont give up!. hope i can help.
good luck!

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ima a male 15 yrs old
Ok well me and this girl hung out at kennywood and had a great time we wore completly attrated to eachother and we kissed a few times so like that next week end i end up going over her house we are kissing stuff like that and i said i loved her it just came out then we kissed welll like 2 days later she im me and says she just want to be friends and im like wtf happend now i just feel like crap and i have know idea wat happend at all wat should i do and i dont wanna bring it up to her because i acted like i was fine with it but now im not so wat should i do??????

i think you should be honest with her. tell her you love her for real and she was sending all those signals..you thought she liked you too. tell ehr your TRUE feelings. you will feel much better. maybe things will work out!
good luck

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Ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and I love him more than anything but here lately im afraid to lose him I always think he can do soo much better than me like im not good enough for him what do i do.

okay, well i had that feeling before belive me. okay first you should deffanly think about things on a positive attitude say to yourself. "hes with me so he loves me" or something like that. cause really, im sure he loves you and he probably thinks the same thing. this feeling happens a lot with girls. its normal. but you need to try to not think like that, its a major turn off it guys!!!
good luck!!

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ok im in the 8th grade and i have liked this guy since i was in the 5th grade but i havent been able to tell him. i get really nervous when he is around and everything. one reason why i havent told him is because he is VERY popular and im not really that popular. anyway im afraid that he will say no then tell all his friends. i dont know if he likes me or not. he smiles when i talk to him and i catch him looking at me alot but i dont know if that is enough to say he likes me. so what do i do??? i am soo confused and lost. please help.

okay, welll you say he smiles and looks at you a lot. those are good signs. why dont you find out if he likes you but dont ask him out. like you know ask around and stuff? get someone to ask him or ask some of his friends. and if he does tell his friends and be a jerk he isnt worth your time cause no girl deserves that!!
good luck and iw ish you the best!

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so i like this gurl but im rly not shure if she likes me back i asked her out but yet still she dusnt answer what should i do?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

okay, give her time..cause sometimes girls really need to think about things like that. its important you give her the space & time she needs. but still let her know you are there..let her know you really like her. be there for her but give her space.
thanks for coming to me!
good luck and i wish you the best!!

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Hey,
Well, Idk right now my life doesn't seem like it's going too well....it doesn't rele ever seem like it is....I mean, I've never really had a real love life, and I wish I was more popular, or had more clothes....I just wish that a guy would flat out tell me how he really feels...I just need to know....and sometimes I get too impatient with things that Idk wat to do with myself.....and I think I like this guy but I would never go out with him b/c I don't want like EVERYBODY knowing if I'm going out with sum1, and I guess he's kinda popular.....
I'm 13 and I'm a girl
Sorry if this is too long

its not to long at all, and i bet you i might be able to help you. you arent hopeless remember that you never are hopeless. you feel like this its sort of normal cause a lot of 13 year old girls (including myself) feel like that. you can make yourself more popular if thats what you want, all you have to do is take more chances by talking to people you never talked to before, maybe get involved in different activites wtih different people. i DEFFANLY understand the more clothes part..the best thing i could say is ask your mom or dad to go out once in a while and just buy more. and a boy will come to you dont worry. sometimes you just have to wait, and if you want, meet more guys and stuff. and everyone knowing you go out with someone is completly normal. trust me. you'll get there. i hope this helped you.
good luck, i wish you the best!

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Hey, I'm 14 years old, a freshman in highschool. So there's this boy i really really like, we just met this year and are firends. I can't tell if he likes me back though. Sometimes he talks to me, sometimes i tlak to him, and now we've been walking to classes with one another ( he's in four of my classes, three of them are right after eachother)

I've caught him looking at me a few times, and he's caught me looking at him a few times. We joke around modestly, as he's pretty quiet. But he seems to like talking with me...he usually will make a comment to me if we're near eachother and spark up conversation. I try to stay back and walk with him, and sometimes he appears to walk with me by his own choice. Does he like me? thanks for your help

i think he likes you. he may just be shy yet and thats okay cause most guys are shy about this stuff. keep talking to him and keep doing exactly what you are doing. maybe later down the road ask him to hang out and stuff if you dont already?. take things slowly and hopefull everything will fall into place.
thank you for asking, and your welcome.
i hope this helps you!
good luck!

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My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a month now. She had been a very touchy feely person, not in any sort of sexual sense, but always holding or playing with hands, or hugging and such.

Up until this week. She has been in an absolutely horrible mood since Sunday, really hasn't talked to me or returned calls or anything, and hasn't been fond of any sort of physical or social contact from anyone. I would chalk it up to PMS (sorry about the stereotype, girls) but it's literally been all day all wee. I had asked her earlier in the week if she was okay, and she said yes, that she was just feeling weird and didn't want to be around people. Today at lunch it was awful. I asked her again, walking to class (just to note, the first time she didn't hold my hand walking to her class) and she said she didn't want to talk about it. She didn't say anything else, and I hugged her an kissed her goodbye, but still.

I've treated her very well, and I've been giving her space. I'm pretty sure it as absolutely nothing to do with me, but nonetheless, what am I supposed to do?

you are being so good. sometimes girls have other problems and they may be personal or maybe something is happening in her family life. you are doing great by giving her the space and all, but maybe really talk to her and be honest and tell her you are worried and you just want to know if you can help?. maybe she'll tell you. you need to talk to her.

good luck.

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I don't know if i'm depressed or not. When I'm at school with friends and stuff, I'm fine, but when i'm by myself, the only thing I want to do is cry. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me, led me on, and left me again, and I think that's the core reason why I'm like this. What can I do to be happier? My friends never call me, and when I call them, they either are busy or something comes up. Someone help me please.

aww. okay..maybe make a new friend?. or just keep trying to call your friends. i understand this...and what your b/f did was wrong to lead you on..no one deserves that at all. try to plan things to do to get your mind off him. talk to new guys maybe?. you are gonna be sad for a while..and everytime you have to cry just cry. thats pretty much all i can tell you. talk to people about this maybe?.
good luck i hope you feel better!

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I've never liked more than one person before. It's always been that way. About 4 weeks ago I broke up with my bf because I knew he liked someone else. So we stayed friends because we were better off friends, and i'm fine with that because I stopped liking him anyway. But now, I started liking this one boy, John, and he's so awesome. Anyway everytime I look at my ex I get the same feeling of liking him, and when I look at John I feel the same thing. It's not like love because love feels better. I've been telling myself I don't like my ex, and I've convinced everyone else that I don't like my ex. The only person I haven't convinced is myself. I'm not sure who I like John, or my ex. Who does it sound like I like? Is John just my rebound boy? HELP!

okay so you broke up with your b/f b/c you found out he liked someone else. and you did the right thing b/c your boyfriend should like you and only you. it sounds like you & your b/f have been together are a while then?. if so, then its gonna be hard to get over him right away...but you are gonna see the day when you know for a fact you are over him and you DONT like him more then a friend one bit. give yourself time. and dont rush things with john. talk to him and stuff still..but dont make an effort to go out right away if you know you need to get over someone else. so relax and take your time. you'll get over him.
GOOD LUCK!!!!

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13/f

ok so theres this guy in some of my classes and hes nice and funny and has a great personality and stuff .. anyways but hes kind of a geek i mean he has a lot of friends and stuff but ya i dont know and i just got through a bad relationship and i was all down and stuff so to boost my self esteem i wanted someone to like me (dont ask im weird like that) and then i started to like him and now i know for a fact that i do, and i really want to tell someone but then i think i would get made fun of even if they were my friends because im kind of embarassed about it in a way. and ok my question is what should i do? like i think i really like him and im not sure what to do. sorry its a really vague question but thanks for reading it all!

okay,so you like this kid. and you say hes really great and all but sort of nerdy. and you want to tell someone. my advice to you is tell someone like you bff 4 lifee. and if they make fun of try not to be embarresed cause its really immature to make fun of someone just b/c they like someone. try not to let it bother you.
i know it might be hard, but really try.

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I started High School about a month ago. and I've pretty much hated everything about it so far.

Except for this one boy. I really like him, but I never showed it. and he asked me out one day, and I said yes and I was very happy. But he broke up with me 10 HOURS LATER! with no explanation. and it hurt me because I really like him.

we hung out the next day and everything was cool between us.

but all of a sudden, he began to avoid me and RUN AWAY. as though I annoy him or something. and I rarely talk to him/wanna talk to him.
so what can I do to let him know that I don't like him and I am completely over him? because what he's doing it so immature and stupid.

you should make him listen to you. call him, write him,do anything to talk to him. tell him everything. tell him you are over him and you want to be friends and you just want to know why hes ignoring you.
i wish the best of luck to you!

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Well ok tomorrow is my bf's and my 3 month anniversary.. and today was the last football game... i'm always with the band until after half time, and thats when i get to hang out with him... well today when i went back to the stadium after changing out of my uniform, i saw him, but he didn't come talk to me, so i stood with my bff before going to talk to him... well my bff told me that he was with a bunch of girls and hugging them, and running around with them, not to mention flirting with them!! so i went to talk to him, and he gave me a hug, and his friend said "I guess right now i probably love your gf more than u do". and well i didn't know what to say.. i was kinda upset... but i didn't want to believe it.. i would have never thought of him to do that.. i'm so confused! what should i do? should i talk to him??

the most important thing you have to do right now is talk to him. tell him what you heard and just ask him for the honest truth. try to keep your cool and try not to get angry. have a talk about it. if this doesnt work, ask your friend who the girls were so you can ask them. try to find out facts first before you blame any either.
good luck

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sorry if this is long. one day in class, this girl came up to me and asked if i knew this guy. i said yeah but then she said that there was a rumor going around that i liked him. so i said it wasn't true and that i only knew him. then she said okay and walked away. at lunch, i asked my friends if they heard about the rumor. they said that they didn't and that it must of been that girl that made it up because she is jealous of me since i have a few classes with this guy and she doesn't. also my friends said that, that asked him out last year but he said no so she is totally jealous. after that it was no big deal. but during classes that guy she was talking about sort of acts like i like him. ever since that girl mentioned that rumor that wasn't even true, i started to like him. but today her friend asked if i knew the guy and this whole conversation went on again. whenever i see those two girls in the hall and the guy i now like around at the same time, they would go up to him and start talking really loudly so that i could hear them and try to make me jealous when it is them that like him too. please help me with this problem. thx in advance. 13/f

okay, well they are probably jealous. and maybe they think he likes you. if you like him then maybe get someone or you talk to him about this situation. you should find out who he likes, and if he doesnt like those two girls then he should tell them that so they leave him alone.right now,you should try to find out who he likes.
good luck.

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