ok so theres this guy in some of my classes and hes nice and funny and has a great personality and stuff .. anyways but hes kind of a geek i mean he has a lot of friends and stuff but ya i dont know and i just got through a bad relationship and i was all down and stuff so to boost my self esteem i wanted someone to like me (dont ask im weird like that) and then i started to like him and now i know for a fact that i do, and i really want to tell someone but then i think i would get made fun of even if they were my friends because im kind of embarassed about it in a way. and ok my question is what should i do? like i think i really like him and im not sure what to do. sorry its a really vague question but thanks for reading it all!
proper_emma answered Saturday October 21 2006, 3:59 am: Right, if you like this guy, it shouldnt matter what everyone else think! You shouldnt be embarrassed! And if he is a "geek" then so what? Chances are he wont treat you bad, and he has all the geat traits you need in a guy!
BUT you said you have just come out of a bad relationship, and need someone to boost your self esteem. This does not mean you are wierd by the way, it happens to a lot of people- its called the rebound. If you are on the rebound, then it isnt fair to go out with this guy!
Overall, if you really like him like you say you do, i think you should go for it and tell him! You shouldnt be embarrassed at all! And if your friends do make fun, then its not fair as they are your friends and they shouldnt be doing so! Just shrug it off cos it will soon pass! But if you are on the rebound, i would suggest for you to just leave dating anyone for a while and have fun with your friends!
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