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Heyy, just call me Tara.I've lived in Ontario all my life.Im sweet sixteen and Im just starting my junior year.I like to joke, hang out with my friends and enjoy every bit of life.My friends mean the whole world to me.You mess with them, you mess with me.Im a very dramamtic and emotional person.Im oppinionated and wont let down a good fight.Very friendly down to earth person and easy to talk to.I absolutely love psychology.In the future when I get to university Im going start my years of being a psychologist.=) Im on a hiatus for now.Just Dealing with a break up with my long time boyfriend of 1 year.I wont be on giving advice again until im fully recovered and inspired to give advice again.Thanks for your time.Buh bye.
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i've been goin out with my gf for about 6 months but latly she barly ever talks to me unless i talk to her first ad she never comes to be with me and i always end up haveing to go look for her how can i tell her in a nice way to be a better gf
Well you could sit down and talk to her about how shes been acting lately and how come she never does that.Im sure she'll understand.But you cant always expect someone to change that right away.Try to spend more time with her and get to know her and let her know you really care about her.Go on a little date to start get her talking =)
goodluck
xoxoxox
i'm usually really shy around guys and im going into my first year of high school.how can i start conversations with guys. I dont know what to say or talk about. how do i strike up a conversation. how do i know if they will want to talk back? i really could use some tips. please help
I was just like that when I first went into highschool too.You usually overcome that fear.I find the best way to strike up a conversation is in class.And the best way is at the beginning of the year.New people, new friends, new guys.They dont know you, you dont know them.They dont know that your shy.Ask for help on something and then start to get into a conversation.Or if you have to go into groups, just ask a guy to be in your group.I always find that easy. :\
xoxoxo
good luck
hope everything goes well
what are some things I can do for a guy to make him feel special and aren't overly gooshy?
Tell you love him how much you love him.Some guys like that.But I guess that can be "overly gooshy" if you make it seem that way.
I'm 13 years old and I really want to have a BF. However, I know that most BF/GF relationships usually begin by being friends 1st. How can I become friends with boys?
They dont have to start out as friends first.Me and my b/f just met each other and a few days later he asked me out.I mean if you want to meet guys ya its a good idea to make friends with a couple of guys.Just talk to some guys :\ I dunno.I think thats the best way to become friends.
next week, it'll be me and my boyfriend's two year anniversary and i feel like he's losing interest in me. what are things i can do to gain his interest back?
Try doing something like re-living your first date.It would bring back memories of how close you guys were.Do something that you both can bond over.Did you ever ask if he was losing intrest in you though?? maybe it might seem like it but maybe really he isnt losing interest.I mean you guys have been going out for two years.Why would he want to throw that away?
i have a boyfriend and we've been on and off for the past 2 years.I found out he cheated on my 3 times.Stupidly i got back together with him 1 week ago and now he sais he didnt know we were dating and he got a different girlfriend.He also tried to kiss me afetr he told me this!What should i do?
If that was me.I would have dumped his ass right then and there if he told me that.If he cheated on you 3 times...well once a cheater, always be a cheater.So I wouldnt stay with him hes likely to do it again.I think you shouldn't bother with him.Sounds like you got some dense guy on your hands.Just tell him you dont want anything to do with him.Tell him straight up how you feel and let him know what hes done to you and that its not an ok thing.
I am 13 female and have a boyfriend.We have recently had sex and I have notcied I have missed a period. We used protection but I'm really scared I'm pregnant. What do I do and How do I tell my parents about it if I am pregnant
Hmmm :\ dont you think your a little too young??A thirteen year old girl doesnt have the body to have a child.But if you used protection and the condom didnt break or if you checked right after to see if it had a whole, then I wouldnt get too worried.Take a pregnacy test first before you start worrying about it.Stress can cause your period to come late also.If I were you id go to your doctor if you know your not pregnant and ask if you could go on birthcontrol so you dont have another scare.But if you are pregnant I dont really know what to tell you about telling your parents.It all depends on what type of people they are.
my boyfriend has gone away for about 2 weeks and I wont be able to talk to him until he comes back. I want to suprise him and have some really special things for us to do when he gets back. Could you guys help me brainstorm some ideas?
I love him so much I want to show him
If you guys are into little things you can do aomething like go to the movies or have a little pinic on the beach =) Even just sitting around at home watching a movie with some popcorn and just you guys together.
If your into bigger things you could go on a camping trip together, fancy dinner things like that.Try and see if you can do something that would both mix with both your personailties so you both enjoy it.Another good thing is you can do something spontaious for him.Something that you guys have never done before that he would think you could have never thought of that you both enjoy.Or you can pick something that you guys ahve done of your first date and kind of replay it a little :P
Hope you guys have a good time
xoxo
Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now, and we've only made out. If we go any further with him..would that make me seam Easy?
It all depends on how comfortable you guys are with each other...and how old you are.But you if you think that would make it seem easy then tahts totally up to you.But just because you have been going out for 7 months and only made-out doesnt mean you guys HAVE to take it farther.If you guys are fine what your doing and not ready to take the next step then keep on doing it =3 It doesnt like like its not hurting your relationship or anything.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 months now and he said he loves me..How long do you have to be going out to know if you love someone. Or is it not time constrained??
Umm theres no specific time that you have to be going out iwth someone to love them.You ould be going out with them for 2 years and not love them or you could br going out for 2 months and love them.It all depends.Some people could say they love you and not really mean it or they dont really know how to use the word love in some cases.It all depends on how you feel for each other.Trust you would know if you loved someone.
xoxox =3
--Tara
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about ten months now.. we are both 16 and i dont think he fully appreciates me..
We get into the STUPIDEST fights and he calls me names constantly.. I really do love him but I often find myself thinking about how much fun I could be having with someone who would appreciate me soo much more and treat me like a princess.. I dont think my boyfriend realizes how special i am. I dont want to break up with him though because he was my first everything- sex, real kiss,.. and weve been through alot with eachother..
what should i do?
Well the best way you could deal with it is sit him down and talk to him about how you feel.Tell him that you deserve better than the way hes treating you right now.Tell him you've both been through alot together and than he needs to clean his act up a little.But really its up to you if you really want to be with him.I know its going to be hard to let go if you decide that but you really got to trust your insticnt on this one
Hope everything goes well
xoxox =3
=/ Well, I just wanted to know if you were in my situation, like if you'd be mad.
I really want to see that movie Click, and my boyfriend promised that he would take me on Thursday, because we both don't work & we had it planned out & everything (it being our 2 month, I thought it'd be cool to actually do something like that we both want to do), I was REALLY excited. Todays July 4th obviously, and my boyfriend knows I'm home alone doing absolutely nothing until I have to go to work tonight at 7pm.
He just called me and told me that he's going to be going to the movies with his sisters today to watch Click. And, I'm really upset because not only does he KNOW i'm by myself & I really wanted to do something especially today because of it being July 4th, but we planned everything out to see that movie on Thursday.
I just need to know, if I'm getting mad over something stupid. But I think the least he could've done was invited me to the movies with him. =]
Thank youuu in advance!
No, I dont think your getting mad at nothing.He could have been polite enough, even though he was with his sisters, invite you to go with them since you did have it planned out in the first place.Talk to him about it and tell him how you felt.The best thing you can do is drop a little hint that you were upset about him making a promise and not keeping it.Try and go see another movi eor do something different to make-up for what happened =) But I fully understand being mad at that.
Hope you guys work it out
i was recently out with a few of my friends when the topic of another friend (who wasnt there) and her boyfriend came up. Then someone said the have been going out for 4 months and they have only made out. we are going to be sophmores in high school (we are 15) and to me that seems far enough. How far shouldd they be going?? am i just been wierd?
I think its totally up to them how far they go it depends on how comfortable they are with each other.4 months is a a little early to be doing anything else though.How far they go just depends :\ But I dont see it as unusal for them to have only made-out.Ive known alot of people that have only hugged and they've been going out for 6 months lol.
im a 13 year old girl and ive had my bf for about a week hes 14 almost 15(im going into 8th grade and hes going into 10th) and we started going out on a school trip, so we were together a LOT, and on our second or third day going out he said he loved me once sortof joking and once seriously and hes my first bf and he said it more after that and i just dont know if he really means it, or if hes just saying it...
ive never had a bf before, and im his 2nd real gf
thank you so much
im sorry its so long =]
Well your both still exploring what its like to be with someone.I know its going to seem a little different at first.Its only been a week or so, let it take its course.Dont believe someone right off the bat if they say they love you.Alot of girls tend to take it for the real thing and if he is your first your going to think its real.But to tell you the truth you'll go through alot of guys.But I kinda stick to your a little to young :\ I dont think you guys are a little to young "love" really.