Hey! I'm Melissa aka lissa, mel, melilicious, wateva! Im from cali! I am a blonde with a's and b's. I can relate to most situations and have been told to give good advice so i decided to devote my time to help others. I am really my own person. My own style and just true to myself. I will answer direct questions first of course. I read every question carefully. Ill do my best to help everyone who wants it. Please rate me.
E-mail: magicallymelicious@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: California
Yahoo: magicallymelicious
Member Since: June 25, 2004
Answers: 40
Last Update: June 27, 2004
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sum ppl hav pics n cool backrounds on their advice columns .. how can i get that?
thanks :) (link)
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i know you can change the colors and add pictures by going to "edit settings" under "your advice column". as for the advanced backrounds, i have no idea. melissa
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k im going out with this guy hes really cool but the problem is we dont see eachother as much as wed like to. my mom always says i cant go c a movie or w.e cuz im busy. im sure shed prob understand if i told her the situation, that i was going out with him. iv had bfs before she new about some but i just feel sorta awkward telling her. any advice to make seeing him easier? thanks a lot :)
if ne one needs advice just ask me! (link)
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i would ask you but i dont know who you are! be honest with your mom. the longer you wait, the madder she will be. let her meet him AFTER you tell her about him. or see him at school and hang out there. good luck. melissa
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What should i do if im still in love with this kid but he likes someone else but he always comes back to me and hes relationships only last a week or so and he still cares for me and has my picture in his room and is always around me? (link)
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hes a dog/playa. it sounds like you are a doormat. dont waste your time. Find someone who is able to be commited to you in a long term relationship. I doubt you need him and ther are better guys for you. Tell him if he isnt serious in you, you dont want to waste your time on hoim. he isnt good enuf 4 you.
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Me and my b/f have been dateing for 2 years and were perfect for eachother everything is s0o perfect we sometimes fight but its over stupid stuff, and this past week hes been s0o weird, like he laughs whene I wanna talk to him serious stuff, he all of the sudden said "You forced me to have sex with you the first time" I mean I brought it up but he coulda said no. And he always takes of a couple of days to be with me but he said "I have to work ALL week". And yesterday I was crying cause I asked him why he was acting like this and he just left me on the couch to cry, while he whatched the movie, normally he woulda walked over and cuddled me, r we just growing apart or whats goin on
Thanks BeCky (link)
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i think you are growing apart. or his friends are teasing him for being so gushy and sensitive. i doubt hes cheating but ya never know. Maybe you WERENT meant for each other. this could be the end if you dont get him to talk to you. good luck, muchlove, melissa
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months and I used to be SO in love with him, but lately Ive been lieing to him about alot of little things and making up excuses to get off the phone. Should I wait a little while to see how things work out or should I talk to him about it? He loves me so much, I know he'll cry if I break up with him. I just cant hurt him like that. What am I supposed to do? :(
Confused with love! :( (link)
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the spark is gone.you dont love him as much as you thought. you were just down with the moment convincing yourself you love him. Ask him how he thinks the relationship is going. Follow your heart. you shouldnt hold back in your life in fear of breaking peoples hearts. chances are, youll break a lot of hearts but 0if they arent for you, dont hold back. much love, good luck, melissa
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okay im an 12 year old male and im pretty popular in my school and im goin out with this really hot gurl one day we were walkin home from school together and she went in with me to my house my mom wasnt there so she went up to my room i just had the urge to do it with her and she felt the same way we decided we werent quite ready yet so we just made out and she showed me her boobs that was the best time of my life know im young but i cant fight the urge.
wat do i do i really want to do it with her (link)
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you arent even a teen yet! wait till your older! there are too many teens even only 16 having sex without protection. try to fight it really hard but if you cant, use condoms. Make sure you really love her before you loose your virginity.
melissa
sry if im too bossy
signed, virgin and proud
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my boyfriend is leaving for a year and a half. Should i wait for him or see other people? PS im 15 1/2
holding back (link)
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If you love him then wait, but if you loved him you probaly wouldnt need to ask. Honestly, just follow your heart. This is testing your love to him. If you dont love him maybe it would be a good idea for both of you to see other people. He will likely meet other girls and you vise versa. hope i helped you. Good luck with that
much love, melissa
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Ive been dateing this guy for three yrs and One month, Im 19/f weve always knew were gonna get married and all that stuff,but I wanna propose to him, is that wrong or somewhat stupid?
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of course not! If you love him and think you are ready then it doesnt matter who proposes. make sure you are ready to marry him however. good luck in your future! melissa
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okay my bf like to go out with his friends alot and like is hardly with me ...cuz my parents dont like him..and he knos..but when he goes out hes allways with his friends, and i kno there are girls tyhere..and he tells me that he mets girls but didnt hook up with any of them..and im like yea right u kno?...so what should i do or tell him? should i brake up with him or waht do i do????! (link)
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I say talk to him and suggest time apart or you see other people if he has the nerve to discuss other girls to you. If he really liked you he would make time for you, u no? Tell him he makes you feel like your holding him back and you are tired of being a doormat. Say if he cant make time for you or make an effort to keep the relationship, you dont want to be involved at all. He obviosly isnt that interested in you. Hope things work out and you find someone who deserves you. Move on. Melissa
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Ok, there's this guy who I met through my friend. She had a sweet 16th B-day party, and this guy was invited. I think he is her cousin's best friend. Anyway, I haven't seen him since the party, but lately, we started IMing on the computer. I got the screename from my friend. And he sent me all these emails telling me that he likes me. I like him back and we both wanna be in a relationship. The only problem is, my friend likes him to. He's told her that he only likes her as a friend and she knows this. I told her about everything and she says she doesn't mind and she thinks it's cute that we like each other and everything. I just don't know if it's right. Should I go out with him? I'm sooooooooooo confused. Lol. Thanx a bunch.
Btw, I'm a 15 y/o female. (link)
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Your friend will probaly say she doesnt mind but shes just trying to be a good friend. Talk to her about it and tell her to be honest and that if she really likes him, you wont make a move. Tell her that no guy should come between your friendship. You are a great friend and if she is one too she will understand. Go for it. Dont brag about it around her. A true friend wouldnt want to ruin your chance in a great relationship if she says its ok. Rate me plz
Good luck
Melissa
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hey my boy friend cheated on me and now he wont leave me alone!!hes begging 4 me to go back out with him but....he cheated on me n boy do i hate cheaters!! idk if i love him or like him or any thing!!!plez help!!!
signed~
~~confused!!!! (link)
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Look inside your heart. If he is the one whos shoulders you would cry on or he is who would cheer you up orlisten to you? If you love him and really love him, you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and why you are upset. Every one deserves a second chance but is he worth your love, time, and devotion or are you his doormat or is he using you. Its your call. Go with your heart.
Melissa
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