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I havent had a girlfriend in like 4 years, and other than just a few kisses with some other random girls i cant seem to find somethig stable, at first this didn't worried me, but now I'm starting to feel anxious. The main problem is that I'm a bit shy and I don't really have lots of girls in my social circle so there is no way for me to meet new girls. plase advise! (link)
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Well, why do you want to have a girl in your life? Do you absolutely need one?
Talk to some friends and see if they know any single girls you would like, double date, and see what happens.
If you're unhappy change something. Best advise I've ever recieved.
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13/f
we just got our yearbooks and i dont know how to ask the guy i like to sign mine...i REALLY want himtosign it..but im a little nervous and scared...and he sits right next tome in science (link)
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be like hey, im trying to get all the signatures in the 7th? grade or whatever. Will you sign?
easy peasy
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Okay so I find girls attractive and thy make me really hard, but boys me go crazy and get all erotic when I think about it. Here's the thing though....I love to dress like a girl, wear makeup, use nail polish, and also use the tape and tuck to conceal "down below" when I'm in my girly clothes. I find boys to be cute and girls hot. I do lots of kinky things when I masturbate also. I'm very confused about my sexuality, but I feel like a should have a vagina and breasts. My penis and masulinity is cool and all but I wish instead of my penis a shaved beautiful vagina was there. Not to mention the fact tht I want breasts and o have boys inside of me and to kiss me and do things to me. I want to sleep with girls also. What am I? I want a mans hard penis in my asshole, and to stroke his meat but I also want it in my vagina - which I don't have. However, I also desire to kiss and be onside woman and kiss their tender body. What is going on with me?........ (link)
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Sounds like you're bi-sexual. You like both girls and guys.
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i dated a guy for 15 months and i got way too close to him and so when we broke up i was really hurt. about 4 months after we broke up i met this really nice guy and i gave it a shot with him. i ended it after 2 months because i was afraid of getting too close. i'm afraid of opening up and i'm afraid of getting to close. is there anything i can do about this? i really want a healthy relationship but i can't when i'm always backing down.. :/ (link)
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You're not emotionally ready yet. You need to take some time to get over your past relationship and learn how to trust again.
Honestly, the bets thing is to take a break from the dating scene and make a lot of friends and stay busy. You don't want to get hurt again, so take it slow. :)
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first of all i am 15f and this may be long but it would be GREATLY appreciated if you would listen and respond! i neeed all the advice i can get :)
~so i have been best friends with this guy for a year. we talk EVERY DAY online and have been doing so for 6 months EVERY DAY. and he has asked me out 2 times and i have turned him down because i said i wanted our friendship to last and it was to valuable. well.... he has just recently said he has loved me, and would do anything, and always says i am beautiful, and cheers me up when i am down and he even brought me back a present from his trip to europe. well i reallllllllllly like him back but the problem is that i dont wanna tell him cause i have turned him down like 4 times and broken his heart he said but yet he still says all this stuff to me because he says i am to important. But the thing is this is online. in person we hang out and talk but not like we do online. and in person it is harder to basically do anything. he gets shy around me and barely talks in person now but online he is the SWEETEST guy their is! i have never met a nicer guy in my life! i want things to work out sooooo badly but in reality i dont think it will ever happen :( but we both want it to ..... so 1) how do i tell him i feel this way ..... 2) how can we make it work if he does wanna try? I AM LOSING MY HEAD OVER THIS PLEASE RESPOND AND GIVE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THE RELATIONSHIP .... cause right now we are like beyond best friends but not at the boyfriend and girlfriend stage.
thank you !!! :) (link)
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You're smart for saying no. First off I would bring up the issue of how things are different offline and online. That seems like it's the biggest issue. What I would say is, "I like you, but you're totally different in person, and I dont know if it's going to work out because of it. I dont want to ruin what we have by dating."
Honesty is key to any relationship; Let that be the rule you go by with this guy.
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15\m
Ok so I've been going through the year with no issues so far...except for one little annoyance. There's a girl who's in five of my classes this year, an ex-girlfriend to be exact (and oh lucky me, the one one I've ever had a bitter break up with on her end, not mine). We dated in the beginning of last year-for a month-and were friends at the beginning of this year and were over the summer as well.
I'm confused though. She'll try to provoke arguments with me for no apparent reason just out of the blue in the middle of class. I'd always just ignored it all this year pretty much and let her be a drama queen, but recently I wanted to just shut her up, so I responded to her for the first time telling her that if she really hated me so much (her big thing is that she claims to hate me and lies about things when she's in that mood and when she tells me to leave her alone-though I'd never responded to her until this point-she approaches me the next day as if nothing happened), that she'd stop telling me about it and just leave ME alone instead of obsessing over me so much and trying to get my attention. She broke down after going silent for a minute or two, though there was no venom in my voice and I said near those exact words, keeping it as brief as possible.
I don't feel guilty, but I'm wondering now if I have to do this every time she provokes me to just get her to stay quiet and cut the obsession crap. What can I do to get her to get off me and if possible be friends with her? I've already attempted everything I can think of, including just trying to figure out why she "hates" me by asking her in a serious conversation. I don't care which way it goes, but it'd be nice if we could remain friends out of convenience.
Any suggestions? And did I do the right thing?
Thanks,
-Xehanort (link)
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Get down to it. She's obviously hurt. Maybe you know why, maybe you dont. Text or call her or something. It's clear she isn't completely over you. What I would do is say,
"If I did something to hurt you, I'm sorry." Go from there. Get the facts out, even if it means reeling into the past. It'll suck, but it'll help resolve some things.
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16/f
Sorry it’s so long but I’m so confused!
So me and my ex(jack) had broken up about two weeks ago. We remained friends but I still had feelings for him but he didn’t want a relationship anymore so I said ok lets still be friends. So when ever he was down he would txt me and we would talk about it and even if it was just to talk we‘d text all day. Me and his best friend(dave) are also really close. Me and dave tell each other everything any anything and I can completely trust him. I realized i wasn’t over jack and jack said that he still had the urg to kiss me but he felt like it wasn’t the right time to go out again. I took the chance and he came over one night and things happened. My feelings got stronger but all of my friends said to stop because if he really wanted me he would ask me out again. So I tried but I couldn’t stay away.
Then one night me and dave were talking on the phone and somehow the conversation led on to me and jack. He spilt everything out about jack. Like how jack was always saying how unattractive my face is to him and that jack compared me to his ex saying I’m a 2 and shes a 10. Dave told me that Jack actually cheated on me within just a few days of us going out and that he only went out with me because he felt like it was a good deed. I knew something was up but I didn’t know it was this bad. Jack said that I made him so happy to his other friends and he said that I was soo beautiful and soo important to him but it was all just a lie? Everyday after the break up and even that night he would still give me long hugs and text for hours. I also knew that everything dave told me was true because a couple of our mutual friends said the same thing. I was soo mad because I don’t believe he had any right to do that to me. So I avoided him the day after I found out and the next day when he tried to give me a hug I pushed him away and told him not to touch me. I had a lot of people backing me up and I was happy to have the support. Then at lunch he said hi to me when the bell rang but I just rolled my eyes shook my head and walked away. I’ve always had bad relationships so I’m a bit use to this but however I don’t think he had any right. I haven’t told him why I’m mad but hes still asking for forgiveness. Should I give it to him and did i do the right thing?
Thanks!!! (link)
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I think you should wait awhile to get your mind straightened out.
You DEFINITELY did the right thing. No one deserves to be used like that.
If you choose to forgive him, that doesnt mean you have to talk to him, or become friends with him again.
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