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ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and the only time i ever see him happy is when we are together, and our mutual friends say the same thing, but he keeps pushing me away, his mom died in his arms 3 years ago and he was really close to her, some one told me it sounds like he loves me cuz he doesnt wanna lose me. does anyone have any ideas???? please help me!

aww thats so sad! Maybe he pushes you away because he is afraid of getting too close to someone then losing them just like what happend with his mom. Just tell him that you will be there and he will not lose you no matter what. Hope I helped!!

xoxo chels

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Hey well ok. i have another problem. Just in case you dont know im female and 15. I was having this problem with bieng comitted to just one guy. But then i thought i had finally found somebody. I really like him and he likes me too! So we started to go out. But a couple days later his ex girlfriend starts telling him if you dont break up with her my friends and me are going to jump her. Shes hispanic and reallllly ghetto. And im white and I have nevvver gotten into a fight. So me and my boy friend broke up because we were both scared for me. So we see each other in the halls everyday and we still talk to eachother and we even still kiss and stuff. But it's reallly hard for me to deal with all this. I get so happy when im about to see him, but once we leave eachother i end up starting to cry. We both still want to be with eachother but we dont know what to do. Can anyone help? I like him a lotttt! Thanks yall!

You shouldn't have broken up if you too like eachother...also his ex can't make you too break up. Ask him how he feels about you...and go out again and don't care about what his ex thinks! xOxO cHeChE

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I recenlty this summer met someone at camp. And we both liked each other and hit on each other. We don't see very much of each other anymore because our schedules are not compatiable but we talk online and on the phone. The only problem is I don't feel that crazy for him, as I used to. I just don't have it there in my heart. And he still loves me and I'm ready to move on. Its just I don't know what to say. Can you tell me if I don't like him anymore or its just that I don't feel love for him anymore because we don't see each other?

Maybe you don't feel like you love him because you never see him. I would give it a chance, do things on the weekends and if your still not feeling the love then let him down carfully, say you don't really think your relationship is working out since you don't get to see eachother and you just want to be friends. GoOd LuCk!!!

*if you have anymore questions ask me!!!!*
*ChElS*

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okay hey! does this guy like me :
He comes over my house ( we are neighbors ) and plays pool w/ me. He always says " you know you think im hot " and he when i go outside and play bball he comes outside to and plays w/ me.
DOES HE LIKE ME??

It sounds like he dose. You didn't say much but from what you said he is deff flirting.

*chels*

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ok so this guy is always messing with my head it seems...
1st time- he told me he did and completely acted like it and held hands with me and all that stuff then he goes off and likes this other really pretty girl & he said he didnt like me nemore

2nd time- after he learns he has no chance with Kim (really pretty girl) he says he likes me again and we hugged for like ever and acted like it once more

hes always calling me whipped but its kinda his way of flirting...joking like that.. before he started liking Kim he told this guy he wasnt gonna ask me out....im so confused about what hes doing here...
someone help?
and hes older than me and i dont get to do all the stuff that the school does for his grade and the girls that also like him get to go so i feel kinda left out and not knowing what hes doing with them
:-/

This guys sounds like a player. The type that has a new girl every week. I don't think he likes you if he has other girls on his mind. If i were you i'd move on, there are better guys out there!

*chels*

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my bf never really talkes to me that much..unless were sorta alone which never happens!! if we aren't alone..then he just kind smiles if i say something..or is just like ok.. i realllly like him!! what do i do..??

-talking concerns

Hey. Your problem is very commen so don't worry!! I think your guy is just shy and he may not know what to talk to you about. Start conversations with him and i'll losen up eventually! GoOd LuCk!

*chels*

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This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out

Since you two just started going out maybe hes not ready for a little kissing action yet. Don't make the first move until you know hes confterble with it. good luck!

*chels*

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