Well my name is Linda I am 17 years old I live in Orlando Fl My nickname as you know is La Loca I am a junior at Edgewater High School I have a boyfriend named Frank we have been together for 1 whole month now {lolz} we are so in love with each other already its crazy because we have so many things in common! We go to the same school he is 17 and also a junior My b-day is in January so I will be 18 soon YEAH! {LOLZ} and I am funny nice caring sweet energetic and I LOVE TO HAVE FUN My bestfriends are mimi, tyty, diana, my b/f frank, issac, and my cuz rosa and I swim dance sing play volleyball with my boyfriend frank and I DEFINITLY LOVE SHOPPING what girl doesn't {lolz} Well that is pretty much me right now Hope you liked and I will drop by soon to see you guy's and girl's advice! SEE YA
And 1 more thing no hatin PLEASE OR DRAMA Thanxz
Loves and Kisses
La Loca known as Frank's Wifey
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I have been dating a guy for over a year, and i love him. The thing is I think I'm falling for this other guy too. I dont want to admit but im starting too...
i know its wrong.
and the guy im dating now- i ask him a lot of questions- and one day i asked him what would he do if i told him i was in love with two people and he was one of those people. he told me he would want me to choose who i wanted. i asked him,"what if it wasnt you". he told me as long as i was happy he would want it for me.
that makes me feel bad and love him even more.
is there a way to stop falling for this other guy?
should i choose, and how do i choose?
i dont know what to do and im normally really good at this stuff... its scaring me because i dont want to hurt the guy im dating if its not him i want. and i really dont want to fall for this other guy. when i catch myself near this guy i always find myself smiling and flirting... but i do this with my boyfriend too, and i feel guilty but i havent done anything but flirt...
what do you sugguest i do?
**Thank you in advance! (link)
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Omg this is tough but you know your boyfriend, the one you love, should always come first in these situtations because he doesn't deserve to be treated like crap! Not saying you do but he has feelings! Try to avoid the other guy for awhile untill you can get your head straight about whether or not you want to be with him or not ok! Just take a walk and clear your mind and think about what you truly want to do you know? I hoped I helped
Loves and Kisses
La Loca
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so me and my boyfriend started dating about 7 months ago and during that time he's slowly changed. he used to be the sweetest guy and now he's just mean. he acts like i don't even matter to him. he's always yelling at me and saying well if i make you that mad then break up with me but it's not something i'm ready to give up and talking to him about it doesn't do anything he's the most stubborn person ever. i just want my boyfriend back, what do i do? (link)
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Well I have gone through that situtation so many times and I have come to find out that it really isn't worth trying to change or save someone who doesn't want either you know? He is probably going through some issues with his family right now or something personal and he needs to go through it his own way but if he keeps on treating you in that way move on and take his threat about breaking up seriously because you need better honestly he is not worth it! You Know? I hope I helped
Loves and Kisses
La Loca
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There is this boy that likes me and im pretty sure i don't like him but wen i try 2 b nice 2 him and give him hugs and stuff he likes 2 feel on me and i like wen he feels on me but i don't like him cuz i go with his best friend and 2 day he came up and grabbed my boobs and another student told a teacher and now the teacher is questioning me about whether or not it happened. Should i tell?i dont want 2 look like a snitch. Also should i tell my boyfriend that his friend is hitting on me? (link)
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Hell yeah you should tell your boyfriend because that is how relationship's end because the other person can not be honest. Stop being so nice to him also because he seriously is not worth being friends with if he is gonna be like that on you! Tell the teacher it was a misunderstanding but tell your boyfriend what he did you know? I hoped I helped
Loves and Kisses
La Loca
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So i like this guy name Brandon..hes in my first period class. I usually dont like alot of guys ebcause im so busy and i just dont havet time..but this guy is different..he has a really unique personality and hes sending me mixed signals..how do you tell when a guy likes you? (link)
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Well my boyfriend was the same way anyways there is plenty of ways for you to know if a guy likes you, First you will know if he likes you if he starts talking to you out of the blue to get your attention or if he comes up to you and wants to walk with you to class or if he looks at you while you are walking away or if he gets jealous when you talk to other guys. You just have to look for the obvious you know? I hoped I helped
Loves and Kisses
La Loca
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hey everyone!
well my story goes like this,
i use to really like this guy Dylan, but now im not really sure if i do. Some days he is all i can think about, while others, i couldn't imagine him as anything more than a friend. Then this other guy named Paul came into the picture. Paul is sooo much fun, and free-spirited, but he has done some 'things' in the past. I dont mean like sex or anything, but he cheated on a previous girlfriend, stuff like that.
While Paul is a lot of fun he is someone that i know i would love to be with, and i could share things with..
Dylan is i guess what you could call the class clown. He is HILLARIOUS! but i could only see myself joking around with him. He is super sweet though.
Im not sure who to like.. Or should i like both?
Dylan knows i use to like him, but im not sure if he knows that i still like him..
bith guys are so much fun to flirt with and i cant stop!
i don't know if im boy crazy, or whats wrong with me... because... so im on my schools volleyball team, and in practice sometimes my coaches student teacher- a guy in his 30s?- comes out and practices with us. He isnt really my type, not to mention the age difference, but i cant pull away from him. I always have to flirt with him too, but i really dont flirt that much, only with guys i know really well and or like..
Ive never had a boyfriend, guys have asked me out, but i just wanted to stay friends with them..
If anyone can help, and tell me what to do? What im experiencing? and anything else that would be AWESOME!!
And bravo and many thanks to those of you who read this.
I appreciate any thought or effort :) (link)
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Ok I agree with adverb, I think you should keep DYLAN as a FRIEND because of the fact that he is so FUNNY and he doesn't seem like that type that could handle a serious relationship, Now PAUL on the other hand is more on the romance side on your LOVE BOAT hahaha He may have been wrong in the past but the past is the past. I have a boyfriend now who did the same thing I mean he had a past but honestly from what I see he has changed because I see a different side of him! See you are still 14 years old me and him are 17 and juniors in highschool I am almost 18 I still have time to grow and so do you just take it slow right now you know? I hope I helped
Love La Loca
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I have been single for 10 months because my past relationship was with a guy I truely loved but he wasnt willing to devote himself to atleast calling me once a day to talk to me.
I have found this guy that I really like and He recently told me he liked me to. hes really nice, and not like most of the other guys i know. He is rude, he doesnt party much and hes not like most of the guys ive dated. I really like him but for some reason I get really shy around him (which isnt normal). The only thing Im afraid of is that Im going to push him away Like i do with alot of guys and i dont want to do that.
I think i push guys away when the treat me well but i dont understand why.
my question is. How do I try to losten up around him so that he knows i like him and so maybe we could move further and start dating. And how do I not push him away when this starts to happen?
Please help! (link)
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Ok well first off i have been there so many times and I see what you are talking about but chica you need to step up the game alittle you know? Being shy is just gonna push him away and then he will find more girls that like to have FUN so if you still want to be with him change alittle and get your flirt on nina thats how I got my boyfriend
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