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guys...
hey everyone!
well my story goes like this,
i use to really like this guy Dylan, but now im not really sure if i do. Some days he is all i can think about, while others, i couldn't imagine him as anything more than a friend. Then this other guy named Paul came into the picture. Paul is sooo much fun, and free-spirited, but he has done some 'things' in the past. I dont mean like sex or anything, but he cheated on a previous girlfriend, stuff like that.
While Paul is a lot of fun he is someone that i know i would love to be with, and i could share things with..
Dylan is i guess what you could call the class clown. He is HILLARIOUS! but i could only see myself joking around with him. He is super sweet though.
Im not sure who to like.. Or should i like both?
Dylan knows i use to like him, but im not sure if he knows that i still like him..
bith guys are so much fun to flirt with and i cant stop!
i don't know if im boy crazy, or whats wrong with me... because... so im on my schools volleyball team, and in practice sometimes my coaches student teacher- a guy in his 30s?- comes out and practices with us. He isnt really my type, not to mention the age difference, but i cant pull away from him. I always have to flirt with him too, but i really dont flirt that much, only with guys i know really well and or like..
Ive never had a boyfriend, guys have asked me out, but i just wanted to stay friends with them..
If anyone can help, and tell me what to do? What im experiencing? and anything else that would be AWESOME!!
And bravo and many thanks to those of you who read this.
I appreciate any thought or effort :)
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Ok I agree with adverb, I think you should keep DYLAN as a FRIEND because of the fact that he is so FUNNY and he doesn't seem like that type that could handle a serious relationship, Now PAUL on the other hand is more on the romance side on your LOVE BOAT hahaha He may have been wrong in the past but the past is the past. I have a boyfriend now who did the same thing I mean he had a past but honestly from what I see he has changed because I see a different side of him! See you are still 14 years old me and him are 17 and juniors in highschool I am almost 18 I still have time to grow and so do you just take it slow right now you know? I hope I helped
Love La Loca
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haha i think it's like that with every 14 year old girl. you tend to like lots of guys and can't help it because hormones and you're developing and stuff. but really, it shouldn't be a question about who to like. it's not pick or choose, it's just whoever tickles your fancy. i'd say with dylan, keep him as a friend, maybe best friend, because that's what those kind of guys are good for [not really boyfriend material] and Paul seems like he could be good. although just because he's done stuff in the past doesn't ALWAYS mean he will still do it...the past is done with. as long as he doesn't do that now, it's fine and if you wanna be with him then do it. but your best bet is to just be friends with both so you can still flirt and whatnot, ya know?
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