so me and my boyfriend started dating about 7 months ago and during that time he's slowly changed. he used to be the sweetest guy and now he's just mean. he acts like i don't even matter to him. he's always yelling at me and saying well if i make you that mad then break up with me but it's not something i'm ready to give up and talking to him about it doesn't do anything he's the most stubborn person ever. i just want my boyfriend back, what do i do?
Additional info, added Thursday November 8 2007, 9:37 pm: i'm not saying he is always mean though sometimes he can be a sweet heart still but it seems like at least 80 percent of the time he's not the person i fell in love with. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? latinawitreallove17 answered Friday November 9 2007, 7:22 pm: Well I have gone through that situtation so many times and I have come to find out that it really isn't worth trying to change or save someone who doesn't want either you know? He is probably going through some issues with his family right now or something personal and he needs to go through it his own way but if he keeps on treating you in that way move on and take his threat about breaking up seriously because you need better honestly he is not worth it! You Know? I hope I helped
Elle2619 answered Friday November 9 2007, 8:03 am: Perhaps he was pretending to be who he was. Just remember people are allowed to change even if it isn't for the best. Its a hard situation considering you say he's stubborn and doesn't listen. You shouldn't stand for him yelling at you and being mean to you. Maybe its time for you to go separate ways although i do think you should try talk to him about it first. Perhaps you could write him a letter expressing your feelings. Maybe he has a problem he is not expressing try and get him to be open and honest with you and vise versa you do it back to him.
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