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I like alot of sports: paintball and swimming are mostly my things. I like to hang out with my friends alot. We do anything sometimes we do some stupid shit but thats okay. Ask me a question if ya want some advice ill help you as good as i can.
Gender: Male
Location: SC
Occupation: teenager
Age: 15
AIM: kuzo811
Member Since: July 4, 2004
Answers: 31
Last Update: March 26, 2005
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this is aways a problem for me to ask i guy out or wait for him to ask. last year i liked this boy but i thought he should ask me cause it was a boy thing. then in the summer when i was going to 7th grade in one school and he was going to another he told my friend if i had asked he would have said yes. so this year i liked this boy and i asked him out he said no i think i should have gotten to know him better. so what do i do the next time i like someone ask or don't ask?
sorry 4 being so long (link)
Just giving a guys point of view... Ok well heres how i see it... Yeah traditionally a guy asks the gurl out but wake up ya'll it doesn't always have 2 be like that anymore its not... I know plenty of gurls who wait around and the guy iz to scared/shy he will get rejected etc... He never does it and the gurl just sits and wait I mean come on u should maybe not flat out tell him you like him but try to kind of hint him on if you dont want to straight out tell him that you want 2 be more than friends sometimes its more awfward when they dont know ya know wha i mean? Sry 4 goin on and on...In other words be friends first, atleast hint him on, then if he doesnt make the move damn gurl go for it hell ya!! --Kuzo


HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? (link)
Actually on this one im not totally sure. It sounds like he likes you and you like him. Ive changed my mind about liking a gurl before because i wanted to keep our friendship cause that was more important to me. If he likes you make sure he treats you right and dont have sex with him.

--Kuzo


My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom? (link)
Getting drunk isnt that bad unless u make to much of a habit of it. Smoking personally i hate it cause its stupid and pointless you dont even get a good feeling of it. He is old enough to make his own decisions but he should respect what you think about what he's doin. U should talk to him and tell his friends that tell you that F U!

--Kuzo


I met this guy last summer at a resort, and I fell in love with him! Both of us had fun all week. We had a bond fire played basketball and alot more.At the end of the week we both had to go home, ( and he lives in a different state)so I figured I would see him again next year. I've talked to him all year on the internet and the phone and ect. When ever I talk to him it always sounds like he likes me and when we say good bye on the internet he types " Bye bye kiss kiss" Now I have had my friends ask him if he likes me and he wont answer them. I even asked him if he liked me. He did not answer me back. What does it meen when he didnt answer me back? Should I talk to him about it and tell him how I feel? and Do you think that he likes me?
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Kool kool meeting people is at resorts and stuff iz always fun... He doesnt know you friends so he doesnt have to answer them... When you ask him and he doesnt say anything maybe he is afraid to say yes or maybe in a bad case has a gf there... Maybe he doesnt want to say he doesnt because he doesnt want to hurt you. But i suggest you do talk to him about it ... And im not sure if he likes you or not ive never talked to him or you before...

--Kuzo


I'm 13 and i'm dating a 17 year old...is that ok.?..but we're in love and he dosent ask me fo sex and treats me great...so why do my friends hate him and are mad at me fo me to hang out in public with him???? are they jealous or are they juss lookin out fo me???? should i have sex with him( if he did ask?????
signed, young love
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Ill start from the bottom up... Do NOT have sex with him... your a little young to be doing tha with someone ur age never the less a guy thas 17. He could get introuble if anyone ever found out. ALso they are not jealous... they just dont want you to get in trouble and they r just tryn to watch out for you. As long as he treats u good and doesnt ask u for sex itz okay but remember NO SEX... BTW ur friends r rly just watchn out for u mostly but in a case him 2... IM me at kuzo811 if you need anything i can help more on there =)

--Kuzo


how do you have sex.. I'm 10 going to be 11 in september and no one ever told me how. My mom died and I feel uncomfortable asking my daddy. and I don't have any brother's or sisters.. please tell me. (link)
You stick the penis into the vagina. There isnt a really "correct" way to have sex. Your only going on 11 you shouldnt even be worrying about this yet. BTW dont go having sex to young your not ready for anything that could happen and your not physically or mentally ready for a baby.

--Kuzo


my boyfriends b day is coming up hes 15 what should i get him? he has the 'punk' look, umm likes quads and stuff i just dunno what to get him... (link)
CD also spend time with him on his bday if possible go somewhere have fun...


hey i need some advice from the guyz in here!! wat do ya look for in a gurl?!?!

thanx!! (link)
Good looking.
Curvalatious (my made up word) perferably
great personality
fun to be with
ezy to talk to
someone i can trust
Personality is most important to me...


okay i have this neighbor ill call him bob n his best friend who ill call fred last year bob n i had this thing but now its over -or at least it is with him i know how i feel i know it sounds really immature but i love him. well anyway fred has asked me out and i dont know what to tell him . hes really sweet nice n kinda cute but im in lovw with his beast friend. what can i do (link)
follow ur true feelings and just tell fred that you like someone else at the time.


hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do? (link)
Do not have a baby that young. It will mess up your life. You will have more fanancial problems than countable. At the age of 14 most girls are not ready mentally to have a baby. Plz dont go have a babt this young i dont know u but i am consirend for u and the baby if you have one. Not saying the guy ur with iz bad but some even good guys run off when faced with a baby. And for heaven sake you've been going out for 5 mo. thas not tha long gurl.


Ok i'm going to be 18 on July 10th and there is this dude named Jason who I like and he likes me too...he says that I have all the qualities he wants and in a girl and he just makes me feel real good...but there's a huge problem...He is 27!!!! ahhh I don't know wut to do!! I think when ur 18 ur legal, but still is it bad gettin involved w/him? I'm real confused! (link)
Well it sounds to me that he is after sex and only that. I dont want to ruin any potential relationships but ah he sounds like a pervert to me. And you can also have good relationships with people that are at least near your age




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