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Q: Ok well I was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend got shot and is now in a coma and might die! Well he did die! I slit my wrist one night I cry my self to sleep every night And I hate my life I used to be a prep but now I have gone goth I guess skipping classes and crying! I went to his funerl and saw him in his casket I just broke down right then and there I fell down on the ground and cried I refused to get up for about an hour and I went bye him like you all said and spent his last hours alive with him but it wasnt good enough he still died. I left the funeral and just went to his house (his parents were at the funeral) and went in his room and cried I swear I smelled him and saw him for 2sec then I just cried! What will I do?
!!!How Sad!!!
but dont go gothic and dont cut your self!!!
thats crazy.
i know its hard when you loose someone you love but you can be gloomy for ever your life will get better. try to do someof the stuff you use to do that made you happy.
belive me i dont think your boyfriend would want you to act this sad and cutting your self and stuff. i think he would want you to be haooy:-) even if it is hard.
hoped i helped
-Kittie-

Q: im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...
i think it is normal some people just get kissed or get boyfriends at a older age all thoughi just turned 13 about 3 months ago and i have had 5 or 6 boyfriends and have been kissed like 10 times! my friend turned 13 5 months ago and has had 7 or 8 boiyfriends and has been kissed 2 or 3 times. but anyway i think it is perfectly normal so dont worry about it you will get a boy friend soon and will have a first kiss.
:-)
-Kittie-

Q: ok what exactly are guys looking for? i go to a private school and theres like 100 people in my grade... its pretty even (guys vs girls) and ive never been asked out. people always tell me im pretty and funny and i dont get it. im thinking that its just that the guys at private schools are retarded because a lot of really pretty popular girls dont get asked out.. but yea... so what are guys looking for? i rate 5s
I think most guys are looking for a nice girl. but in my school they look for naughty girls with big boobs and butt. but i think guys at a private school would look for a nice girl that is really friendly but they could look for a girl the way guys in my school do! :-)
-Kittie-

Q: ok me and my bf just broke up last night ok and it was all becuz i told him the truth about something i told him that i was starting to have feelings for someone else and i mean i hadn't cheated on him or anything me and the other guy just talk alot and i think im starting to have feelings for him and my ex was asking me what was wrong and i told him and i told him becuz i felt like i was lying to him and i didn't want to feel that way ne more and now he thinks im imature and sex hungry for some reason which im not i not stupid and i don't plan on doing any of that kind of crap any time soon just cuz the fact my parents would kill me and cuz im to young......so really who's being the imature one here me or him??? and should i have told him?? i mean was it a stupid mistake telling him or did i do the right thing???
i think that he is being the immature one. you are doing the right thing. and yes it was right to tell him. i just think he said that stuff like you are immature because he jealous because you like someone else now.
-Kittie-

Q: Hey! I my classmates make fun of me and talk behind my back cause of my weight limit i mean i am a little over weight and i try to keep in shape. Why is everyone so mean to me? I never do anything mean to them? I dont get it? why do kids have to be so mean.
well i think that most kids are jealous of other people thats why they make fun of them. maybe not about your wieght but maybe you have really nice hair or a really cool boyfriend. or it could be you are really pretty and you have a great personallity. wat ever the reason i think they are jealous of you. when they make fun of you just laugh and say ya i know or i like the way i am so get lost. after a while they will get tired of making fun of you and go to someone else that will cry if they get called names not someone who doesnt care.

tell me wat you think of my advice please. i like to know how everyone thinks of my advice.
so wright back if you can.

-Kittie-

Q: this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like? Thank you! (K)
i think thast you should just tell them what you are. no sence on lying to them cause they could find out and be mad that you lied to them.
im still one so when guys ask me i tell them i am. so when they ask u if u are or are not tell them. dont lie that would be a mistake!

Q: before i say anything, i know it may seem like im thinking too much of it but i just wanna know.

okay well today was the talent show and i wanted to sit next to this kid that i like but my stupid vice principal called people by the color of their clothes((so elementry school)) and i couldnt catch up with him. but anyway when my friend corey asked him he said he might, and then he got up and walked over and tapped me on the shoulder and just went back to his seat?? so anyway i didnt seem him again until we went to class after the talent show, so all during class he was looking at me when i laughed or smiled and he laughed or smiled too. and then he isnt really firneds wirh the boy who sits nect to me but he went over and started talking to him, and then i got up and went to wait by the door until the bell rang and he went over there too and talked to someone else he isnt really friends with and then he flicked my hair before he went to his homeroom the opposite way as mine. and then i was walking to the bus and he usually is ahead of me but this time he was at my side, and then i lost site of him, but he was like leaning my way when he was next to me, and i dont know does this mean he likes me?
i think he does it is soooo oveous! he is such a mayjor flirt!

-Kittie-

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Hey im my friends call me Kittie!
I am really nice. I am in gymnastics
I am not that athletic. I like to sing,dance,do gymnastics. I have 3 best friends and im friends with everyone in school. I work at a pizza place every once in awhile with my friends. I like to give advice so u can ask me anything and I will answer as best as i can! oh and Im skinny, I have brown hair with blonde highlights,brown eyses and im kinda tall.


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