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Hi! My name is Lauren. I am 13 years young and I love to dance!! When i grow up I want to be a dancer.I have the bestest friends ever and I love them! My best friend is ask_kendall! My boyfriend is Travis! S2 I love him to death!=] I know a lot about fashion, guys, friends, sports...just about anything. So ask me any questions and I will help you out! Love Lauren/Kckstartmyheart

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Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers

yes you can. one of my ex's of three months and i are really good friends. and my other ex(we went out twice;(for about a week[hes a playa]) we are like be eff eff!!! like seriously were so tight now! even better then we were before. but just give the situation time but dont avoid him and soon you guys could be friends again. i hope i helped you out!
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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering.

some colognes will remind girls of there dad or grandapa but if you wear like ones made for younger guys there greatt! i love it when my boyfriend wheres tag especailly. then i just want to hug him and not let go! i say go for it. go to the store and find some cologne such as tag bodyspray or ace. i hope i helped!
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Hey- I really love my girlfriend and she loves me too and we haven't seen each other lately- but that's not the problem- I want to kiss her (just a kiss on the lips) but I'm not sure how to come across it... Is there something I can say to hint that I want to kiss her? please help

P.S. we are meeting tomorrow! I need advice soon!

aww! thats really sweet. well when your not talking and theres a pause in the conversation just stare into her eyes, hold her hand, and then lean forward and kiss her! or you could run your hand through her hair. i hope i helped you out!!!
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I have this problem.See, whenever I meet a cute guy, I obsess about him (that leads me to thinking that I like him-without even knowing that much about him).This is cuasing me alot of problems, and i would really appriciate it if you could help me figure this out.
~13 and confused.

well i am sorta the same. i get crushes on cute guys that i dont even know. mabye if you focus on other things or pick up a hobby then you wont have time to obbsess over him. or at least not as much. and if you really think you like him(or just think he is cute) then get to know him a bit. then once your friends(or at least know him) you may not like him or at least not obsess over him. or make a pro and con list then you may relise hes not that great. im not sure if this helps and if it doesnt then i am very sorry but i wish you the best of luck! let me know if you need any more help!!
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this question is for both boys and girls.Let;s say you really like someone, and she/he is single.Would you still go out with them even though they have had two or three girl/boy friends in the past?or do people prefer girls/guys that haven't been attached before?
For instance, I prefer girls who haven't had a boyfriend before to girls who have.

well for me it doesnt matter that much. but you have to remeber that soon everyone would have had a boyfriend/girlfriend and there would be no one to date. but what really matter i think is not in the past but what kind of relation ship you guys have. i hope i helped!
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i am 15 years old going into my sophomore year and i have never been kissed and only had 1 boyfriend which we hung out but it wasnt like a real boyfriend, i use to do modeling and i was on the cheerleading team in middle school i know i am not ugly and people think i am pretty, some guys do like me and guys ask me out but i always turn them down, i have 2 older brothers and a little sister, my brothers are protective so i never want to have a guy around me or bring any guys to my house. is there something wrong with me? when people find out i havnt kissed a guy or done anything like that think i am weird or not likeable. but i do want a boyfriend i just have a hard time getting one i like, is anyone else like this? i dont know what to do!

i am kinda the same way as you. i am though two years younger but nothing is wrong with you. you apperentley are very pretty and guys like you and ask you out. mabye just not the right one has asked you out yet. he will come along and you should not be worried at all. there is more to life than kissing and boys. i hope i helped you out!! GOOD LUCK

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there this guy that i like and i would like to get to know him better. but its summer and im not sure how i can do this without looking pushy or desprate. any ideas? i would greatley appreciate them! thank in advance!

call him up and invite him some where with a few friends. then talk to him more and more and become friends with him!

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ok well me and my "bf" want to go somewhere special and we dont want to go to the movies been there done that to many times! and not my house b.c heres the thing i want to tell him i love him for the first time!! and he has something to give me and things like that so not my house to many people, there is like 8 people there. not his house his mom is all over his kids when girls coome over, well thats what he said. so any ideas its tongiht or tomorrow but i need answers quick thanx!

the mall would be the perfect place to go. you can walk around. eat. its perfect. or you could go on a walk to the park(yes i know what your thinking but its a good place to go) go out to eat at a resraunt. hope i helped!
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ok so theres this guy i really really like and he really likes me too. like every time i we say bye he tells me he loves me and he says the cutest stuff. and everytime i tell him i love him he says no i love you more and adorable stuff like that. so anyways hes friends with my ex that i went out with for 3 months. me and this guy tried to go out but my ex got really pissed off (because i was the one the broke up with him). my ex also hated me then. so i had to break up with this guy that i really really liked. this was about a month ago. now i am friends with my ex again and i still really really like this guy and he really really likes me and we talk every single day on aim or texting or the phone. i was gonna go to overnight camp and i told him that i wanted to be single for that but now im not going anymore because im going to colorado so i think he might ask me out but im really good friends with my ex now and i think my ex actually likes me again because he gets mad every time i talk to the guy i like and i say to my ex.. well why do you care its not like you like me or anything and he said well.. im not sure if i do or not. my ex also calls me every night just to talk.. which i think is a little weird. well if the guy i like does ask me out what should i do because i really wanna go out with him but i dont want him to lose my ex as a friend and i dont wanna lose my ex as a friend either. thanks sorry it was so long

well its really all up to you but he probabley likes you. why else would he care. but then again some guys just dont care about who you like and all....especailly an ex. soo talk to him and see how he really feels. mabye if you dont like him tell him that and tell him you want to be just friends and really friends. also talk to the other guy and tell him how HIS friend feels. mabye they can also work something out. well i hope i helped.
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