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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly.

yeah..you pretty much just say yes..theres not alot too it.

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Okay so i like this guy and he came over tonight with 2 of my other friends. and they left early and it was just me and him alone. but he didnt even try to kiss me. How do you like you all of a sudden start making out. i mean what do you just out of no where start kissing i mean. what are some ways if your siting close to get him to kiss you.

Hey,
If he was alone with you..and he didn't try anything..then he probably wants to wait a little bit. You may not think so..but guys aren't always thinking about making out. Sometimes they just want to cuddle and be cute with you.
Next time he comes over just like rest your head on his sholder or something. He will most likely put his arm around you (eventually if not right away). Hopefully by getting close to him he will kind of realize you're ok with being touchy.

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ok , i like this guy . he knows im there but where not friends . he's talk to me but not real conversations . he is sort of a smart ass with really good jokes and sarcasim but i still like him . saying oh ilove you is someting he would laugh at . i need to become cool to him then get into the i like you stuff . any suggestions ?

Hey,
Just be really outgoing and stuff around him. So he doesn't think you're a boring person. Try and get to know him a little more so you can figure out when its ok to say something serious around him.

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=( This has been really bugging me; I really like this guy. I've only known him for 2 weeks, and talked to him a few times, but I can't stop thinking about him. He's such a great guy, and I'm happy for any girl who gets him. But I can't get him off my head.

What's wrong with me? :(

Hey,
Dont let those kind of feelings fool you. Im sure you do feel like you're in love right now..but you have only known this guy for two weeks..you couldnt possibly know too much about him..get to know him better..and sort out you're feelings. Maybe it is love at first sight..i doubt it..but its possible. So get to know him and if you feel like you love him..you do!

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okayy ! well i went out with this boy for almost 3 months and he was short .. and he knew it.. well we had an argument like a niqht before we broke up cause i didnt see him for like 3 weeks then if we didnt hang out today (the day of the argument) i wouldnt get to see him for another week .. soo anyway .. i got mad cause he wouldnt hang out with me ( am i right about getting mad ?) and i made steph my friend talk to him .. but i was sittinq on the floor rockiinq back and forth and then i was whisperinq i can do better i need to dump him because he treats me like ass.. but anyway then he heard and got mad so i forgave him about not hangin out but he didnt really forgive me but i talked to him the nxt day when i was babysittinq and then he said that he was ten like messinq around and i was like suuureee ..and he goes why do you think im soo short .. i said i dunno maybe you have growinq problems then he said what do u tell your friends you go out with someone whose short and i said nahh i say i go out with a short kid & he got mad and hung up so i called him back and he said dont fucking call me again bitch ! so i didnt...
what should i do .. oh yeah by the way im 14 and a Female

Hey,
Wow this guy totally isn't worth it.. hes totally taking advantage of you because he knows you like him alot. If he really liked you he definitly wouldn't say that shit to you on the phone..but i suppose that he's confident enough that you'll crawl right back to him.. so he can act like a totall ass to you.
And you're right for being mad at him.. he seems like a little (literally?) jerk..
kick him to the curb.. you might have heart break for a little while, but you'll get over him soon enough.. dont let him play around with you anymore!

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i was with my friend at the beach in july n somethings happened now my friend n me arent friends while i was down there last night a boy felt my boob n im dating my boyfriend for about 4months n i told him it didnt happen bc he found out by my friend so i lied to him and now i dont know what to do my friend said she has pic to prove it im scared plz help =[

hey,
if she does have pictures you're gonna have to own up to what you did, just explain to him that you completely regrt it and you hope he can forgive you because you dont want the relationship to end over one of you're goolish mistakes.. or something like that..

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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years and he thinks im going to leave him. everyone hes gotten close to has left him but i never will. i dont know how to make him see that i wont. i love him way to much and if i was going to leave him then i would have when he lied to me about something. but its also getting me nervous because i dont know if he wants to take a break or anything, and i dont want to ask because im afraid of his answer. what should i do? please help. i rate.

Hey,
Im sure you are afraid of his answer, i would be too..but if you want to know what kind of grounds your relationship is standing on you're going to have to. Just say that you have no intentions of ending the relationship. And ask him what his oppinion is and everything. two years.. thats a long time..you must really love him.

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im sure everygirl has the problem but i am confused me and my bf were at a party on the golf course and there was the bench like away from everyone he asked if i wanted to go up there with him and i said yes...so we went up there and all he did was sit there and barely even talked...i was kinda let down if u know what i mean.. but finally he started to talk and all of our freidns came up there being there nosey little selves........it seems like im making the first moves ..... i know he likes me but how or what can i do to make him come out of his shell

Hey,
Ive had boyfriends like that before. Maybe he is just keeping his distance. He could be worried that if he tries to make any moves on you, you'll push him away or something. I think that if you start putting some moves on him...he'll realize what kind of things your ok with and stuff and he'll feel more comfortable moving in on you.

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my bf and i just broke up. i think i like him still but he's treated me badly the whole time we've been together. i found out that he never really liked me in the first place and was juz doin that till he got another gf. what should i do about my feelings for him?

Hey,
Well there isn't anything you can do about you're feelings...if you like him...you like him. Your going to have to wait for those feelings to go away. Just keep telling you'reself what an asshole he is and how he doesnt deserve you and hopefully that will help your feelings depart a little more quickly.

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Me and my friend both have questions:

My question: I just started going out with this guy that I have been with on and off before. We haven't seen each other all summer so we talk on the phone alot. Anyways, I don't know what to talk to him about! We both end up asking the other person what they wanna talk about and saying I don't know. Or we end up talking about "us" or something. Any ideas? I don't wanna seem boring.

My friends question: My dad is racist, and the problem is I like a guy who is partially black. When we're talking on the phone my dad always interrupts me and asks why we are talking. It's really getting on my nerves and I don't think my dad can get over this. What should I do?

Thanks!

Hey,
Ill answer your question first:
When you are talking to him on the phone, dont ask him what he wants to talk about it. It just make's the situation awkward and draws attention to the fact that you're boring eachother out. Just talk to him about anything interesting thats happened to you and stuff like that. Ask him how he's been and what hes been up to. That should hold the convorsation for a little while.

And to answer you're friend's question:
Does you're dad know hes partially black or whatever? If he does you should definitly talk to him about it. Tell him that he shouldn't be judging your friends like that, and interrupting on your convorsations. Tell him that just because he's racist doesnt mean you have to be. And if that doesn't work, i guess your just going to have to put up with him.

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