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I'm Kelli...if you ask me advise, you will get an honest answer, maybe some of you won't like it, but that's just my style. I don't sugar coat things to make it easier to swallow, I give it like I see it. That being said, I am actually a sweet person but I have my own opinion!I have been through some tough times in my life so I really do know what I am talking about. Yeah, and I hate writing these things because I never know what to say!!!!
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Guys ask me out alot. I hear the same things alot like "your very beautiful" or "I love your smile" or "There's something about you that I can't resist." I know it's just a date but becuase of this I'm rather reluctant to accept. Just how do I tell who's for real and who's not?
There are a lot of ways to tell if a guy is being genuin. First off, when he's asking you out, if he looks you in the eye and not at your chest or something, that means he wants you for more than your body. Also, if the reasons he's asking you out are things other than physical, such as "I love your sence of humor" or "You're so smart and sweet" or something like that. I know, figuring guys out is really hard, but I hope this helped a bit!
My friend (19 Male) like just broke up with his girlfriend. I dont know what happened or why it ended. But i ended up going away so i can finish my show. But when i came back He was away. And his message was like "My heart is in pain & that i can never do anything right."
Every relationship he has been in has ended badly.
I really like this guy & i hate even reading things like that. We dont really talk except for online & whenever i see him at church. I told him that i liked him along time ago & havent really said anything else about it.
Is there anything i can say to him to make him feel better?
There really isn't anything you can do to make him feel better, a break up in extremely tough. But, what you can do is just let him know that you are there whenever he may need someone to tlak to or just be around. Something else that might help is trying to find out what happened and why it ended. I hope this has helped!
How do you ask a guy whether or not he has a girlfriend, with out just coming directly out and saying it?
I think coming out and asking him would be the best idea! In conversation just be like, "Hey, are you seeing anyone right now?" It's really the easiest way!
My wife and I have been married for 13 years. I'm 39 and she's 40 and we've been together since i was 22 and she was 23. Lately, she's been down and I'd like to put a letter from a "secret admirer(me)" in her car and see if that perks her up. Ideally, I'd put an email address in it and see if she would contact me at it. Does anyone here have any good ideas for a secret admirer letter or can someone draft one up for me? I wanted to make it seem like it's from a local man that thinks she's beautiful. I can be reached at ericmsdw2005@yahoo.com
thank you!
What I think you should do is just drop her sweet, romantic notes from YOU, rather than the whole "Secret Admirer" thing, because I can just see that coming back up bad in the end. In the notes, tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. Also, what you could do is take notice in the little details that you hadn't noticed before and complament her on them, like say if she got a hair cut, tell her that is really brings out her beautful face, or something. I hope this was of some help to you!
Me and my boyfriend lets call him Tom have been together for about a week. We really have a good connection. I have hugged him once. And he asked me if he could kiss me twice, but i didn't answer him. I really want to kiss him so badly, but im nervous. When my friend lets call her Megan kissed her boyfriend lets call him Dan she nearly missed. So i don't want to miss like she did. But however I'm more experienced. And she's only kissed twice.Should I kiss him??
If you really feel taht kissing him is right, than it is! You know when things are right and wrong for you. As for the whole "missing" part, you said that you have kissed other boys, right? Then if you have, it really itsn't anything to worry about, but if you REALLY are nervous, keep your eyes open long enough to make sure that you will catch his lips and you should be home free! I hope I have helped you!
okayy..this is kinda confusing but yeahh. my cousin "tiffany" has a older brother named " bobby". well me and "tiffany" are best friends & im always back at her house. bobby has a friend named "timmy". okay. so the other night me and timmy stayed up intil bout 5 in the morning just talking and cuddling. i aint sure if he likes me or not and thats what my question is. hes kinda shy too, which i dont see why bc hes older than me. thanks. i rate high.
It does sound like he has thing for you, hang out with him a little more, you know, one on one to see how he acts, if you feel the "vibes" than try bringing that up.. but first, how much older is he than you? I hope this helped!
I'm going to another state for a few weeks...to see my cousins. What could I do so I don't miss my boyfriend too much? I fear I may miss him too much to the point where I'd want to stop completely to cease any sad feelings. And since I got hurt in past relationships-- I'm not trying to get too attached just in case he decides to break up with me when I'm away. Besides that, what could we do so nothing wrong happens? We figure some instant messaging and a few calls... but I don't know if that'll help that much at all.
I think you will be alright, it's only a few weeks, right?? You could send him some letters and call him like once a week or maybe a little more, but I don't think it would be a good idea to keep thinking about him breaking up with you, because if you stress about it so much, you could end up bringing it upon yourself, and that's not something you want! I can understand how you could be scared if you were hurt previously, but dwelling on it can make it worse, so just try to have fun with your cousins and I think you and your boyfriend will do just fine!
Heres the sitch...im a 16yr male senior at my high school, and ive been BEST friends with this girl since sophmore year...problem is, ive fallen for her...hard. i cant get her out of my head, i get jealous of any other guys she talks to or who like her, and im really protective of her...but she doest like me when i like her, she said she had a crush on me back when i had a gf soph year, but now she doesnt like ANYONE. what should i do? ive liked her for two years, but she says it would be wierd to date bcuz weve been friends for so long...
As weird as it is going to be to tell her, I think you should tell her how you feel about her! Chances are that she likes you too but just can't tell you. I personally think it would be easier to to date someone you've been friends with, you know them really well, you are comfortable with them, and you know all of their "annoying" little quirks. If you can't tell her to her face, trying writing a letter or note and place it somewhere she will find it. I hope to have to have helped you!
Well ok i go to this YMCA Camp at Summer, & well its summer, so anyways, i met a boy named Devin, & i like him ... ALOT! well my friends Alex & Damien say me and Devin make a cute couple and Damien told Alex that he though Devin liked me. & alex told me Damien said that. && Kolton, (Devins Best friend) said "Hey! Devin want's you!! he likes you & stuff" but then Devin makes a face & goes "Ewww. Gross, Sicko!" So i really don't know what to think. Should i give up on love? because thats what i feal like doing right about now, High ratings for just trying. Please. this situation is bugging me, bad! =]
I think you need to talk to Devin away from people, especially his friends! Because boys often deny and sometimes even mock or say "eww. Gross, sicko" when they are confronted by their friends about liking a girl, but are a lot better if the girl asks them face to face about it, so yeah....I hope I helped!
hey! well i have a problem...my best friend has this boyfriend that nobody likes and personally me and him hate each other but for some reason she still goes out with him..god who knows why. but im not gonna try and break them up because they have like twice and they keep gettin back together. well whenever we are by cute guys she always flirts with them when she has a BOYFRIEND. a couple nights ago we picked up her guy friend kevin and when he was walkin up to my car she was like ohh look how hott he looks! and she always lies to her boyfriend..like he called when we were with kevin and she is like im just with kristen (me)! and nobody else..and hes like no i can hear someone else..who are you with? and shes like nobody..and when she gets off the phone she continues to flirt with him. also when i was at my cousins she has this really cute neighbor and he came over for a bit to chill with my cousin and then she was like all flirtin with him and jumped on him because she wanted "shotgun" and wouldnt get off of him! i dont know it seriously bugs me and im like ohhh you were flirtin with him! and i tried talkin to her and sayin you have a boyfriend..if you flirt with other guys then why are you still with your boyfriend? and shes like because i like him! i dont know she is my best friend..ive tryed talking to her..she just bugs me when she is around guys! ...what do you think i should do in this situation?
i will rate 5 for anyone who helps
thanks.
Hey... it sounds like your friend doesn't have a good relationship with her boyfriend, i know you know this, but maybe you could try to point this out to her. She says she's with him because she likes him, but yet she lies to him and goes around flirting with other guys behind her back. It sounds to me like you have already pointed this out to her, but maybe you could try a different approach? It might make her mad, and probably isn't the best idea, but if you get desperate and I mean like REALLY desperate, you could try telling the guys she flirts with that she has a boyfriend. I'm sorry about how you feel.. i hope I helped a litte!
Okay im 14/f(i just turned 14 MAy 6)And ive been talking to this guy (He just turned 16 like last weekend) Well i think our relationship is moving to the point of b/f g/f .... but like i need to find out a way to tell my mom about the ages without her flipping because my mom is very strict and i mean strict.. i mean ive never really had a boyfriend befor so i have no clue what to say and i cant not tell her because one of my sisters will tell her and i will be in deep crap... so how do i tell her about this guy without her flipping out... like exsactly what do i say???
Ok... first, this boyfriend in question, is he a generally good guy? you know, repectful, kind, the basics. What I think you should do is make sure that he is on the same page as you are, to prevent your mom from getting really angry. If he is, invite him to meet your mom and let her see for herself that he is a good guy!! You have to figure out what to say, but i'm sure you will come up with something! But above all, you HAVE to be honest about it!! Because if you AREN'T and your mom finds out the truth, then you'll be in some big trouble! And if you ARE then maybe she will be more open. I hope everything goes well!