Q: guys, how easily can you get over a girl? i know it depends on the situation but how long would it take you to get over someone you really like if she shows interest and you really start to fall for her to the point of asking her out and only wanting her, but then she stops showing interest in you? you guys just decide to be friends so do u think you could get over her fast? and if she showed interest again would u want her back?

Q: 15/f
So Im going out with this kid, hes awesome, and I know im ready to kiss him, and I want to make out with him but im afraid I wont know how to do it, Ive never made out with anyone before, and im kinda scared, he plans on making out on Thursday which is 3 days from now and I dont know how to get over this.

Q: ive been waaaayyyyyy too hurt by a boy. gave him too many chances that shoulda never been gaven. when i think about the position im in now i wish i woulda ended this a long time ago, but the love i had for him took over me, even though hes completely changed. anyways he let me down again, after telling me it wouldnt be like this anymore, i told him i was blocking him outta my life and i actually did block his number. it hurts really bad because i know this is it, and this is the end and im not ever taking him back again and it hurts thinking that we'll never see eachother again but i know its what i have to do! how do i deal with this? i have a lot of friends and i go out a lot but it still alwyas hurts realy bad. i honestly just want to go grab a phone call him and tell him i love him, but that would just allow me to end up getting hurt again.. anywayss what can i do to help get over him.. to help deal with this? cause i honestly cant believe someone who "loved me" so much could hurt me like this over and over?

Q: i just got my first real "make out" last weekend.
i wasnt even scared i was so proud of myselff ahaha, well i wanna try new tequnies and stuff so he'll like ittt and just want more.
tips pleasee ?! :]

Q: okay so i like this boy and he always IMs me online first ive IMed him first like once,
but i want him to know im into him.
so should i IM him, i just dont want him to think im annoying and i dont know if ill be all that intersting to talk to because i dont know how to flirt all that well and stuff
HELP ME PLEASEEE
tipss!!!
thanksss :]

Q: so i have this boyfriend but everybody knoes him ngirls just come to him and flirt and he does it beck what do i do? I want to get pay back bt don't know how to he mess up evrytime and i don't like this girl that got him introuble and he gave her a hug when i was not in front of him and i told him to stay away what do i do

Q: Hello Everyone! I need a little advice. Right now my boyfriend and I are currently attending different colleges but I may be transferring to his college in January. I don't know what is going to happen or what to expect, can someone give me on some insight to what to expect. THanks

Q: 15/f

K this guy i know his name's jake and we've been friends for about 2 years but we weren't that close until this semester. I think he likes me cuz everytime we see eachother/say goodbye we hug and he'll always kinda glance at me from across the room.and like the other day he was in mid sentence then just wrap his arms around me out of no where and we hugged. i'm the only girl on his top 12 friends and his friends say that i'm actually the only girl he hugs that much. we flirt alot and i love his personality cuz he was the shoulder i leaned on when i heard my ex cheated on me. We have alot in common too!
i just don't know how to tell him i like him. i'm kinda scared that he might not like me but i'm kinda sure he does by the way he acts.

so how do i tell him and does it seem like he likes me?

thank you =]

Q: ok so me and my boyfriend are both 16.. my last ex lived with me.. so im use to life like that and obviously having him in my bed and everything and spending all my time with him.. well we broke up and now im going out with this new guy its been 2 months and i really like him.. but the thing is his mom is a control freak and wont let me and him be alone together.. my parents dont have a problem with it.. but like we never hang out, outside school we only have like 2 times.. and we were with other people so were never alone and he gets his license in june.. and i want him to spend the night and so does he but.. how can we convince his mom to let him stay? what are some things we could say to her? .. we have even thought about sneaking around behind her back.. like telling her he was staying at a friends and then really having him come to my house but i live like 35mins from him and so thats not the easiest thing to do but my second question is how can we pull that off? what should we do??


thanks any advice is appreciated.

Q: ok so this is kinda long and confuseing, considering the kid like barely knows my name....

so this kid was in my last years gym class, lets call him k. and i really like him like alotttt but he didnt even know me, but he knew my friend (my only friend in the gym class btw) so they werent like bff or anything but they would talk and i would be just kinda there chiming in once in a while, so he never really said much to me or anything but when he did it was always kind of flirty. like once i said something and he turned to my friend and was like i truly think this girl is the nicest girl on the planet!! and then winked at me. so like i really thiought he liked me, but like hes kind of like a bad boy and im like known as like a real goody toe shoes even though im not really. so like i think he thought i was too good for him or whatever beacuse he used to tell me all the time too that he thought i should be a model. and i would always catch him like looking at me and stuff. but i was really shy so i really wouldnt go like out of my way for him, but i did flirt and stuff. soooo anyway we come back from winter break and he has a girl frienddd. but he would still talk and stuff but i could tell it wasnt the same and what not. and this girlfriend was like fat and i knowwww she put out for him, thats just the kind of girl she is and im not. so this year at school in the hallway he would still like look at me and stuff and like made sure to make eye contact then go kiss his girlfriend soo annoyyingg anyway fast foward to 5 days ago, i heard they broke up, and he hooked up with this differnt girl at this party, shes a slut as well and uglyyy, but they arnt like together or anything. so my point being, do i still even have a chance with this kid, and how do i let him know i like himmmm. i know he thinks that i would never go for someone like him but i have never wanted anyone so bad in my lifeeee... and like we dont have any of the same classes and we havent talked all year or said hi or anything but he will always just look at me please help!!!

Q: I'd just like to say that i am an active member of the "advicenators team" and i hate reading stupid questions like this, but i really need some advice.

15/f
My friend meg broke up with her boyfriend jake over the summer. jake and i have been friends since they were going out ( i met him through her ) i transferred schools and i now go to school with jake and meg. so i used to talk to jake ever night, and he seemed so sweet. he told me i was beautiful and that he loved me. i didnt really believe him, but i fell for him anyway. so i told my friends (including meg) i liked him. they told me about all the bad stuff he had done, and how hes sort of a player, and some admitted to liking him too. the words one girl used was like "everyone falls in love with him"
anyways, he did some really bad things to my friends, and just as things started getting amazing between jake and i, i blew it. i screamed at him and told him i hated him. he kept his cool. he was like you really dont hate me. i mean think about all the good times we've had. and you love me you know it. the truth, yeah i did. even when i told him i hated him, i knew i loved him. but i was so mad at what he had done, i told him i never wanted to even speak to him again. he took that seriously. we havent talked in like a week (yeah i know thats like nothing) but i really miss him. i still love him (not serious love, but i really really like him) i want to IM him and tell him im sorry, but then arent i giving in to him? giving him just what he wants? ive tried hard to get over this kid, but i cant keep my mind off him! what do i do?
sorry and thank you.

Q: Hi im Molly, and im 13. I broke up with my boyfriend because he was getting too busy for me. i still love him, but now its like he can't bare to look at me. he stays away frome me too. im not sure wat that means. sometimes when we make eye contant in class, we smile and he looks at me the way he did when we were a couple. he acts like my best friend on day and then avoids me another. can u try to tell me wats going on. thx for listening :)

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