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hai everyone.I'm in my teens but very mature for my age.
i can help you in any way possible.
i absolutly love helping people.
and i'm very very kind!
message me!(:
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im 14 male and for awhile now i realise that im really into and attracted to guys i really like a guy but im too nervous to tell him hes also 14 im worried he might reject me i havent told anyone that im gay not even my parents not sure how to go about it im worried what peeple might think i really have strong feelings for this guy do i talk to him how do i go about it? do i talk to my parents?
well are your parents understanding?
you could talk to this boy about your feelings, but 14 is a harsh age. people spread crap. i would be careful about what you do. ask your parents, they should understand.
contact me with more specific details if need be.
Tay_ta_mali@hotmail.com
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im 15 male and im from a christian family my parents are quite religious and well im gay
and i dont want to come out for awhile yet and im not sure how to talk to them about it not sure how they will react and ive met this guy weve really hit if off weve become really close over the last few months and recently he told me hes gay and he likes me a lot we want to be together and im worried about it getting out so i like him a lot should i just go for it?
totally!
be proud that you're gay!
if you really like him and he really likes you.. go for it!
16/male my girlfriend is also 16 and weve talked about sex weve been taking it slowly ive held back a little im nervous my penis is quite small and im worried i wont be any good i wont be able to please her do girls care if a guy i small?
will i be able to please her?
you probably will be able to.
it all depends on what she likes i guess.
ask her about it!
15/male my girlfriend is also 15 and the other day we were dry humping and we both had our underpants on i had my penis out a little and after awhile i came is there any chance she might be pregnant?
only if the cum got into her. or if there was some chance it couldve. she should check just to make sure.
14 yr old guy and for awhile now ive been attracted and have strong feelings for another guy hes also 14 we are friends and we hang out a lot together we spend a fair bit of time together weve become close and i really like him i havent told him im a bit nervous to say anything not sure he will react im nervous i havent these sort of feelings what can i do? is this a normal feeling?
there could be a couple reasons why your feelings the way you feel.
we all sometimes think of what it would be like with the same sex. that may be it for you and it's completly normal.
it's also completely normal to be bi-sexual, or gay. not everyone is, but the people that are it's fine.
take some time to analyis whether or not it's because you are wanting to experience something with a man or if it's because you like who he is.
hope this helped you!
im male im nearly 15 and well this is embarrassing my penis is really small im worried not sure if theres something wrong with me will it grow? am i normal?
oh yeah thats perfectly fine.
dont worry about it.
it will grow in time, and your normal.
14/Male
Lately ive started to masturbate a lot it feels really good and last week my sister caught me she just walked in and i only had my underpants on it was really embarrassing and im a bit nervous about doing it again and getting caught what can i do?
its a natural thing.
your sister should understand if shes old enough.
just keep doing it but maybe when noones home.
or lock your door.
or find some private area where you could.
dont worry about it, everyone does it!
good luck(:
-Tay,
im 15/male and my gf and i are getting closer we make out a lot and she says she wants to see my penis im a bit nervous about showing her what she will think my penis is almost 5 inches long is that an ok size?
Average penis length (flaccid/not erect): from 3.4 inches to 3.7 inches (8.6 cm to 9.3 cm)
Average penis length (erect): from 5.1 inches to 5.7 inches (12.9 cm to 14.5 cm)
Average penis girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches (8.8 cm to 10 cm)
thats what the smart science poeple say it is.
but i think they come in all different sizes.
dont worry about it.
if she really loves you she wont care how long it is.
good luck(:
-Tay,
Ok... this may sound strange but I have too much going on in my life right now so I didn't know what to ask.
I think the root of it all is.. no one is like me. I face problems all the time because of my differences to others in every sphere of my life, social, romance, family, work, I'm just not like anyone else I know. It's harming relationships, has terminated some of the most important ones in my life, I'm just past it now.. the only reason I'm asking this is for lack of a better question out of the thousands raging in my head. Every day at my home is another day of torment so I try to stay away from home but my parents try to restrict that, our relationship has unfortunately reached a point beyond repair now. I get hurt because of my expectations from other people, I'm just sick of being attacked from every side of my life. When I think everything is right something always goes very very wrong... I just want to move out, away, away from it all... I'm too clingy, want too much in relationships, don't like balance when it comes to things I love, maybe I just need to be alone because I don't want to expect things I can't get anymore. It's not fair on other people around me. What's going on?
oh my gosh.
it's that bad? that's horrible :[
all i can really think of is stay true to yourself.
be who you wanna be, not what others want.
think, is everyone you possibly know hurting you?
or maybe they think its funny when you don't see it that way.
just be nice to people, look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself im going to make this a good day.
just look back on the day when its over and write down what you liked and what you didnt.
dont change yourself.
good luck!
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alright so im a guy and im 16. well my bestfriend and i have been tight since we were like 7, and its always been tough for him (and me) cos his sister is HOT. (she's 16 too, they're twins). and i mean ive always been attracted to her, but ive never made a move cuz shes like off limits ya know? anyway, i went over to his place the other day but he wasnt there and i kind of just ended up chilling with her. shes a really cool chick and since then weve hung out a few times but my buddy doesnt know about it... and i mean i think i really like her (i havent even put my hands on her yet) and i want to ask her out on a legit date but jesus, i do not want to deal with my friend. its pretty out of charachter for me to not fool around with a girl i like so i know that my friend is going to automatically assume that ive been on her if he hears that ive been hanging with her. so im really stuck now. she wants me to ask her out, but her brother is super protective and im scared it might ruin our friendship and/or he'll kick my ass. bros before hoes? i dont know. any advice would be great, thanks.
wow that's tough.
id just straight up tell him about it.
and ask for his permission.
what if he was in your place?
hed probably want the same thing.
so just go up and tell him.
keeping secrets from your best friend isnt right.
but if you really really like her and he disagrees with you guys going out.
then secretly date?
lmao.
good luck.
Alright I'm 14/F and the guy is 16/M. Pretty much, when he asked, I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him, and he stopped talking to me. I really liked him. He told me he could see himself dating me and that he cared about me. Well he obviously doesn't care that much if he would just drop me like that because I wasn't going to let him do me. Like what the hell? Who does he think he is? I'm not a toy he can just fool around with (we had made out) and then drop when he found out he couldn't get in my pants. I want to get back at him SO bad but I don't know what to do. Help?
you could be the bigger person and just walk away.
forget about him.
but when another girl comes along, warn them.
unless they want to do it with him.
but still warn.
itd be nice!
good luck(:
T.
There is this guy that i dated for around a month (i know not very long) anyway on the last week of our relationship he would be going over to some other girls house more then he would be coming over to see me. When he broke up with me he said that his life was to screwed up to be in a relationship and that he still really liked me. Two days later a friend of mine saw him with the girl my ex had been seeing while dating me. So now im stuck hanging around with him cause hes my best friends friend, and i really want to confront him on the situation cause i still really like him. Should i let it be or should i tell him how i feel?
honestly, i think you should tell him how you feel.
all that madness will bubble up inside of you and then you'll go insane!
it happens.
who cares if it ruins something, it might, it might not.
but if it's not a very good relationship you have now then whats gunna ruin it?
just get up the courage and talk to him!
one on one.
good luck(:
T.
I don't know why,but my love life is a disaster.I don't know why I don't have a boyfriend.I am good-looking and smart,also a nice and friendly person,but no guy seems interested in me.No matter how hard I try no one likes me.So,the question is-what am I doing wrong?Is it me or something else?
I'm a 15 year old girl btw and I don't know what to do,I'm quite depressed about this whole thing.
well, are you being yourself?
you might not be happy with who you are.
be just carefree!
don't care!
be proud to be single and able to flirt!
not many girls get to do that with boyfriends.
just go out and have fun, don't worry about boys or anything.
just enjoy life, and the right guy will come a long.
your very young, theres tons more years!
good luck(:
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Well I know this guy and I really like him. But I don't think he likes me at all! I try to talk to him every day but it's almost like he ignores me but he's popular and a lot of girls like him...i dont know what im going to do...Do you have any idea what i can do? I heard this saying once..."Just because it doesn't seem like he likes you, he might just be afraid to show it" or something like that...Please try to help me.
Signed,
Hopeless Lover
you have to move on!
if he did like you he would like make fun of you or punch you, stuff like that.
i'm sorry.
but that's just the way it is :/
there's tons of guys in this world.
you'll find one just for you.
good luck!
T.
13 female...ok soo i like this guy and we talk and stuff and we hav been friends since like october. i think he used to like my friend but i dont think he does now. but i dont know. he gives me little things to think about and he has called me befor and if we are at a b-ball game ill look over and he may be looking at me!! Q- how can i tell or find out if he likes me?? and how do i show him that i like him a little but not coming on to strong or making him not want to talk to me???
HELP THANX
1. you can ask him!
simple as that.
there's no other way to find out without the answer saying it to you.
[if he doesn't like you, don't worry, you're only thirteen and their will be plenty of other guys.]
2. you can stare at him and tell him he looks good in one of his shirts.
or tell him!
ahaha.
good luck(:
T.
my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year. we're both 15. recently he's told me that he likes other girls, but would never cheat. he says he only likes them based on looks and anytime he sees them, he always compares them to me in the back of his mind and they always lose. but when i found out about this, i was upset. i feel uncomfortable that he likes other girls besides for me. is that selfish? he loves me and i love him but i don't want other girls to be on his mind. it hurts...should i try to be ok with him liking other girls or should i break up with him? i mean, people can't help who they like, right?
well, do you see guys and be like theyre really hot!
every girl does, every boy does.
if he says he won't cheat, believe him.
if he does cheat, break up with him!
don't let this get to you, you guys are young and it's normal.
at least he told you!
hope i helped(:
T.
I was talking to my exboyfriend on the phone and I mentioned getting back together again,but then this girl "SAMANTHA"showed up and got with her.How can I get him back?
make him jealous!
or act sexy.
lmao. it always works(:
but i agree with the answer below.
you should really move on.
unless you know he loves you.
or just really likes you,
hope everything works out for the best(:
T.
15/f
Okay, so I have had a crush on this guy ever since the 6th grade. Well, infatuated. I'm going to the 11th grade now and I haven't seen him since the 8th. He moved to Arizona in the 10th grade. In 9th grade I decided to forget about him, since I lost all hope. But, this was hard to do because he kept popping up! One of his friends put some pictures of him up on a forum that I happened to stumble upon. I thought of it as a mere coincidence. Then, in May I was in Wal-mart and saw a picture of promise rings that just happened to have our names inscribed in them. I even took a picture of it to make sure I wasn't hallucinating lol. So, after a while, I decided that I would at least tell him how I feel. I know that he liked me back in middle school, I'm positive of that. But, I never told him, which I regret. So, since he likes for people to text him, I decided that I was going to befriend him again through text messaging and eventually tell him. Do you think this is a good idea? Or am I being silly because I waited too long?
go for it!
that is a VERY big coincidence.
it could mean something.
please give me some tips on getting a girl
be nice, outgoing, sweet, sensitive.
Okay..well..I realllly like this one boy! He is soo funny and nice! But, my parents would not let me,so I'm never going to ask! They wont even let me go to the movies with boys..or go to their houses by myself!! How do I get over this?!?!?!?!?!?!?
Also, their are some other boys that arent soo bad that actually like me!..
I dont know what to do..HELP!
that's my exact problem!
well what i do is lie.
and say i'm doing something when i'm really hanging out with them.
but if you don't like lieing, explain to them that your not gunna do anything bad.
gain their trust!