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Love but is it?


Question Posted Friday July 31 2009, 1:37 pm

Well I know this guy and I really like him. But I don't think he likes me at all! I try to talk to him every day but it's almost like he ignores me but he's popular and a lot of girls like him...i dont know what im going to do...Do you have any idea what i can do? I heard this saying once..."Just because it doesn't seem like he likes you, he might just be afraid to show it" or something like that...Please try to help me.

Signed,
Hopeless Lover


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Cux answered Saturday August 1 2009, 2:35 pm:
Some guys like the chase, so playing hard to get might work, but for others, like me, I HATE that, and it would just totally turn me off to the girl.

Here are some ways you can see if he might like you:

1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.

2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.

3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...

4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.

5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".

6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.



If none apply, then it's best to move on.


--Jack
(17/m)

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strawberrykiwiii answered Friday July 31 2009, 8:44 pm:
I think it would just be better if you move on, love can't be forced.

...unless you want to give it a try [hehe] xD
Play hard to get and stop talking to him for a couple of days& if you do keep your answers short.

If he starts chasing after you then Yay! But if he doesnt, you should just move on.

<3SK

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itstimetoknow answered Friday July 31 2009, 4:21 pm:
you have to move on!
if he did like you he would like make fun of you or punch you, stuff like that.
i'm sorry.
but that's just the way it is :/
there's tons of guys in this world.
you'll find one just for you.

good luck!

T.

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